Can a single mother marry and divorce her child with her adoptive father?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-03
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's a bit messy. How did he come out with an adoptive father again.

    Single mothers get married with their children.

    Divorced again. The man is the child's stepfather.

    So. Where did an adoptive father pop up?

    You're trying to ask. Whether the child has a choice.

    Do you want to continue living with your stepfather?

    Yes, yes, you can.

    But generally not that way.

    Because. The child is not related to his stepfather.

    But mothers can't break blood ties.

    It's definitely a little closer.

    Even if the child is willing to follow the stepfather.

    It also depends on whether the stepfather is willing or not.

    If the stepdad doesn't want to.

    That's not good for your child's development.

    Generally, the child will not be awarded to the man.

    So. If the woman wants to get rid of the child.

    Or think that the man's conditions are good.

    The child lives with the man.

    It will be better for the future of the child.

    It is also difficult to force the man to accept the child.

    Don't take that dry.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Generally, no. Because the child is not related to the adoptive father. But it is not absolutely impossible, if you are divorced by agreement, it is written that the child is raised by the adoptive father, this is not in accordance with the law, that is to say, the agreement is not established, if you are suing the court for divorce, in the court you ask for custody of the child to the adoptive father, and the court decides that the custody of the child is handed over to the adoptive father, then the child can live with the adoptive father, which is legal.

    However, according to the latest marriage law, the child is with the mother, so it is difficult for the court to support your idea.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, your child, let the adoptive father raise it. His own biological parents are not raised. There is no such reason.

    It is also impossible for the law to award a child to an adoptive father. If the court can award maintenance to the adoptive father. The child can live with the adoptive father.

    The matrimonial law would not support such a situation. I think raising the children of my ex-wife. There is no blood relationship with himself.

    There are not many such well-wishers. Even raising is also a plan. Personal thoughts, for reference.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This is difficult to achieve, because when both parents are present, it is given priority to the child to be raised by the biological parents, and it is not possible to have other relatives of the child who can be raised, so it is difficult to give custody to the adoptive father.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A single mother takes her child to get married, and divorces not long after, it may be a failure of marriage, resulting in a wall everywhere, and she does not get real love, and it is difficult for a single mother.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not a question of whether it can or not, as long as both parties agree, it shouldn't be a big problem, it depends on the level of trust of both parties, as well as the basic situation of both parties. Under normal circumstances, it is not safe for the mother to hand over the child to the stepfather who is not related by blood, just like giving the child away, so it is not safe to hand over the child to the stepfather, but if the stepfather has no children, there will be no children in the future, and he wants a child, and treats the child as his own, and the mother is unable to raise it, in this case, the child can be handed over to the stepfather.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In this case, the court cannot award the child to the adoptive father, because it is not a direct blood relationship, but it can go to the local civil affairs bureau to go through the adoption procedures, so that the child can be with the adoptive father.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, custody of the child belongs to the woman, and the husband who is not the man's biological child does not have custody unless the parties agree to let the man take care of the child. But this is very unlikely. Both of them have feelings and are divorced, how can the man be willing to raise the child of a woman who has nothing to do with him?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm afraid this can't be, the child you gave birth to is not your adoptive father's, why let the child follow your adoptive father, this is unreasonable in that regard, since you divorced him, why do you want others to raise your own children.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Single mothers marry and divorce with children. Mother with child. Basically, if you don't follow your adoptive father, you follow your own mother.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Divorced children and stepfathers, if the child and the stepfather have a good relationship (get along well), they can follow the stepfather, but why should he? Also, do you have to worry about the child and the stepfather?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why should you let your child go with your adoptive father? My mother has no ability to raise her, so I will return it to his biological father. Maybe I think about it a lot, my psychology is more complicated, I don't think there are such kind people who raise their ex-wife's children, and they have no blood relationship with themselves, if you really want to raise them, it will definitely be profitable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Give some practical advice. 1. Face up to the fact that single-parent families are disabled, communicate more and accompany more. It is impossible for a single father to completely fill or even erase the fact of a single parent with his own efforts, and the mutilation is a fact and can only be made up for as much as possible.

    And, it is to face it with your child and make up for it together. There is no need to cover up the single parent, but you should talk openly with the child about the problems and difficulties that the single parent may encounter, and give the task to both parties. For example, if you arrive at kindergarten a few minutes late due to work, your child should learn to wait in a safe place--- the purpose of this is to bring your child closer together in the process of facing each other.

    2. Tell the people around you that you are a single father and strive for tolerance from the environment. Single fathers are sometimes cramped, mostly trying to hide their embarrassment of being single. In fact, you think too much, it's not shameful to be single, it's not so shameful.

    Say the embarrassment and you'll be less embarrassed. For example, it's time to pick up the baby at the party, stand up and tell everyone: it's time for a single dad to work, and next time I'll make an appointment - see, what's so difficult?

    3. Work hard, live seriously, and set a good example for your children. Since you are single and still have a baby, there is naturally no reason to be decadent: get up early to run with your children, camp with your children on weekends, work more and make more money, so that your children feel that you are not so uncomfortable, and life is naturally not so difficult.

    4. After you are ready, calmly welcome the next relationship and find a good stepmother for your child. After life is straightened out, feelings should follow fate. No one has ever said that single dads don't deserve love, and a good remarriage marriage can embrace happiness for dads and children alike.

    Don't resist the next relationship on the grounds that "for the sake of the child", the child cannot afford your happiness. 5. Pay attention to your own and your children's mental health, actively adjust when you are in a bad mood, and make fewer decisions when you have emotional problems. Best wishes!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After a single father divorces, to bring a child less than two years old, the first thing to do is to cultivate the child's ability to calm down; Second, we should cultivate children's interests, starting from children's interests, so as to cultivate sons' attention; Third, we must tap his potential. Dad must take care of a child less than two years old with heart and affection. Here's my way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    2.Atmospheric, don't say bad things about your mother in front of your children, although the love of adults is separated, but the love of fathers and mothers is not separated, and it is still concentrated on children. 3.

    Connect, not split. Create opportunities for children to be with their mothers, timed, and agreed.

    4.Pay attention, pay attention to the child's emotions, respect the child, do not condescend to orders, but to negotiate. 5.activities, take children to participate in community networks and community activities, so that children have their own friends and are not lonely.

    6.Take care of your children like a normal family and build a parent-child relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    At this time, children are actually very delicate, if there are elders in the family, it is recommended to arrange the children to be taken care of by the elders, and then go out to work by themselves.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then you divorce your wife, then the child belongs to you, you are ready to take care of the child, I think this thing is very difficult to do, the child can't follow you every day, you can't not go to work every day, take the child, I think you can find someone, or your parents take the child, and then you go to work, when you come back, you can often buy some food for the child, let the child learn more knowledge, as long as the child has a good impression of you, then the child is you take it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, at this time, it is best to let the elderly in your family help you take care of yourself. After all, he is a single father, so he still needs to work, and he still has less time to spend with his children. Therefore, at this time, it is necessary to take care of the family together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That must be companionship, but because you have to take care of work, you can't be a full-time father, so you can basically send the child to kindergarten, but send her to school, pick her up from school and try to find time to go over, when he is at school, give him a genius watch, and you can also take time to give the child a ** at noon, etc., to make the child feel that you are always around.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You need to have enough patience and ability, and at the same time, you need to have a reasonable and good environment to enable your child to grow up healthily, and it is inseparable from Dad's personal charm and practical ability.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, you can also find your own happiness with children, but you have to take more care of your children after getting married. Because many people think that boys are a drag and need to buy a car and a house when they grow up, it is more difficult for a single mother with a boy to marry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is also possible to remarry after divorce with children. The reason why it is difficult for single mothers with boys to marry is because some people don't want to be pick-up men and don't want to help others raise children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Absolutely. Because people think that a single mother with a boy will increase the burden and that she will not be happy when she marries such a woman.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Women who are divorced and have children still want to find happiness? What man would still treat you as a treasure? Can't take care of your own children?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After a divorce, it is difficult for a single mother to raise her children well if she does not let her children see their fathers? At the time of divorce, the well-wisher advised the mother to give up custody so that she could remarry with less resistance. But the nature of motherhood makes them willing to give up their own happiness and also want to fight for the custody of their children.

    They always want the children raised by one person to be no worse than those raised by an able-bodied family. Therefore, they put in the effort and always hope to be reflected in the child's progress. Once a child does not behave well, they will be very disappointed.

    The child's character is first and foremost a consequence of the environment. There should only be love from parents, which is detrimental to the formation of a lively, cheerful personality in children, and coupled with the strictness of parents, it is natural for children to form an introverted personality.

    <> fact, every child naturally knows that he is the crystallization of his parents, and naturally maintains the relationship between his parents. But if either parent is close to the child, it is often in front of them to joke or exaggerate the partner's shortcomings. The child will then show that he or she is distancing himself or herself from the other person and doing something in his or her mind, such as learning the characteristics of the other person, to show that he or she is still his child.

    All psychological problems stem from the distortion of facts, and parent-child relationships are no exception. That's because his mother didn't let him go to see his father from childhood to adulthood, which would make him hate his father even more in his consciousness, and he would subconsciously learn from his father. Both mother and child are relaxed and strive to create a harmonious, relaxed atmosphere.

    More encouragement, less scolding. Let your child play with friends of the same age.

    Be careful not to be overprotective, meticulous love is just a heavy psychological burden, and it is easy to deepen the child's attention to his or her "differentness". In a family where both parents have it, the care of the child is usually gracious and powerful, and the parents are not overly cautious so as not to hurt the child's self-esteem. This kind of love is exactly what a single-parent family cannot have.

    Don't cultivate hatred in your child's heart. Some divorced women keep their children away from their fathers. In fact, this is completely wrong.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After the divorce, of course, the child should be allowed to see the father, although the husband and wife are divorced, but the child is still the man's. Single mothers can raise their own children, but when raising children, it will be very hard, and these hardships are unimaginable to others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think it is very difficult for a single mother to raise her children well, and if the child does not see his father, it may make the child feel secure in his heart, and the child will be ridiculed by others, become more sensitive and vulnerable, and become very withdrawn.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's really hard to raise well. First of all, it will be difficult for a single mother to work alone and take care of her children, and secondly, not letting her children see their fathers will also make them lack fatherly love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Single mothers with their sons, whether it is difficult to remarry depends on their own conditions and personal circumstances. So some will be faster, while some will be really hard.

    Aside from personal circumstances, it is generally accepted by society that single mothers with their sons and single mothers with their daughters are generally accepted by society. In real life, stepfathers and adopted daughters have a good relationship, and stepfathers have a good relationship with their adopted sons, but there are relatively few of them. There is also the current social concept, the daughter is China Merchants Bank, and the son is China Construction Bank, and I feel that the boy's expenses will be greater in the future, so for economic considerations, I also choose to take my daughter with me.

    To tell the truth, men who are cautious and dishonest must also give preference to single women, even women who choose divorce are also given priority to those who do not have children, followed by those with daughters, and finally those with sons. The same is true for divorced men.

    Of course, then again, as I said earlier, the key lies in one's own situation and one's personal experience. If the mother of a single parent Bu Chen has personal taste and charm, good looks, good character, and strong comprehensive strength, she will also win the favor of men. There are also different personal experiences, some single mothers with their sons, but when they meet someone who is particularly attracted to them, they will not care too much about love.

    In addition, men who want to start a group family will also be more accommodating.

    Therefore, don't care whether it is difficult or not, single mothers with their sons should face life positively, pay attention to the improvement of personal image and ability value, with an optimistic attitude and a positive mental outlook, and boldly love when they meet the right one, and start a happy life as soon as possible.

    The above is my point of view, if you agree, welcome to like and follow, thank you! Have a good life and all the best!

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