What is it like for someone with a girlfriend to suddenly fall in love with another woman?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Teach you a very simple way to imagine the life of losing your girlfriend. In the future, you will go to a restaurant with another person and she has been to, travel to a certain country she wants to go to with another person, buy the house you once dreamed of together with another person, your couple avatar is going to be changed, hundreds of her ** in your mobile phone are going to be deleted, and the gifts she gave you and the movie tickets and attraction tickets you have accumulated are going to be thrown away. The photo taken together in the automatic ID photo machine in the subway station, how silly and happy the two of them laughed at that time, they were a little faded in their wallets, and they were going to tear up, right?

    The most intimate people, the most familiar smells and touches, will be gone, and perhaps there will be no intersection in this life, never to see each other again. Will you miss the way she takes everything seriously, the cake she clumsily makes for you, her shyness or laughter, and the sparkle in her eyes when she talks about your future? If you feel heartache and suddenly burst into tears, then try to think back to the journey you have taken from knowing to the present, and think about the impulse that you have had all your life to love this person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't know what the relationship between you and your current girlfriend is, if none of the above emotions have happened, maybe you have no nostalgia for the past, and you feel better without her when you imagine the future, maybe you have never experienced the feeling of being hit by true love this time, then please think rationally about how to let this girlfriend you no longer love a way out. But you also have to know that the girl you like now, you may not be able to catch up, you may catch up and find that she is not what you imagined, you may catch up with her or her, but you find that this is not your ideal love...Regret at that time was worthless.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are two possibilities, one is that you have made a one-sided judgment in the temporary environment, and the other is that you don't love your current girlfriend that much at all. How? It's simple, calm down, ask yourself if you like your current girlfriend, and the answer will come naturally.

    Human beings always add their own imagination and yearning for beautiful things, so you might as well look at your female colleague from the perspective of appreciating beauty, rather than from the perspective of male and female desires. I wish you to find your happiness soon.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are many qualities that men will like, such as: beautiful, good figure, can take care of people, cute, gentle, etc. But it is impossible for a woman to have all of these qualities, and when other women have one of these qualities, the man may like them.

    But just like when we order food, we may like the variety and flavor of the dish, but the essence of what keeps us eating is that the dish suits my appetite.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you give up your girlfriend for this woman, you will also give up this woman because of a better and more attractive woman in the future, and you will not be happy in the end. If you can't even stick to love, how successful are you? Collect your heart, brother, don't you know yourself?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You don't want to live up to your girlfriend, it is recommended that you communicate with your girlfriend, discover her worries and difficulties, give her some support, and she will be happier if she has no psychological burden If the communication is fruitless, or if you both find that the relationship is not so good, don't take liking others when you have a girlfriend as guilt. No one can meet someone they really like when they meet, now it's just a relationship, it's just a test of whether both parties are suitable for a lifetime, so it's not suitable or reluctant.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If the guy you like has a girlfriend, don't be impulsive to spoil their relationship.

    Because there is a possibility of facing a lose-lose situation. Guy if he breaks up with his girlfriend, stay with you. You hurt an innocent girl because of your momentary speed.

    Not only that, but this guy is now breaking up with his girlfriend for you, and it is hard to guarantee that he will not meet another girl who makes him fall in love in the future, and you will face the same situation when the time comes.

    The boy he likes has a girlfriend, so he buries this relationship deep in his heart. Your impulsive confession may not bring you the happiness you want, but it will certainly bring harm to another person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When many women like a man, they don't dare to take the initiative to ask about his condition, let alone confess to him directly, but if they don't even know if he has a partner, or if he has someone they like, then they can't continue the offensive below.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello dear, this question is being answered for you, you need to wait patiently for about three minutes, the answer will be revealed for you immediately, please don't worry.

    Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, if the person you like already has a girlfriend, it is very likely that you will have doubts in the face of love whether to continue to pursue or choose to give up, but I still have a few words to tell you that I hope it helps. Love can compete fairly in the face of love, of course, at this time, the other party only has a girlfriend and is not married, obviously there is still a chance, as long as they break up, then you can continue to rush forward. If they are about to get married, then they still have to persuade you to choose to leave, after all, it is always bad to be in unrequited love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no grass at the end of the world. First of all, you have to let it go, as the saying goes, good men and women are afraid that people will not get money together every year, so they warn themselves that there are more people than him. Maybe you're in love with the wrong guy at all, and you're in love with a scumbag. You should be happy for yourself to leave him, or you will have endless troubles later.

    Maybe this also teaches you a lesson in life, the road is still very long, to appreciate a person, don't just be deceived by gorgeous appearance, you should carefully go to his door and inner world to understand, bird beauty in feathers, human beauty in the heart.

    Forget the past, live each day happily, and the right people will appear at the right time.

    <>Don't worry, he just has a girlfriend and not married, since the love is so deep, why don't you say it, don't chase it, if you like it, chase it boldly, who knows if you don't say it? Give you a few tricks to take the initiative to chase him.

    1.If you want to chase him, you must first understand his habits and hobbies, the so-called "knowing yourself and knowing your opponent can win all battles", that is, to understand all the situations of yourself and the other party, so as to be able to grasp the real weaknesses in the other party's heart. Even if you can't succeed immediately, then at least you can get closer to your relationship, upgrade to a good friend, get closer, have a close relationship, and are afraid that there will be no chance?

    2.Change your image and make him attractive. When you do a good job of investigation in the first step, you will know what he likes, dressing style and taste or special hobbies, etc., after finding out what he cares about most, you go to work hard, build yourself well, become the kind he likes, and slowly contact, he will slowly become interested in you, of course, the success rate of you chasing him is high.

    3.From time to time, create opportunities to engage with him. If the first two steps are successful, then he has a good impression of you, and slowly he will have a little good impression, so that he can do this confidant, when he has something to worry about or quarrel with his girlfriend, etc., he will involuntarily choose to talk to you, you are not to destroy them, but to help him solve the problem, enlighten them, and make him more guilty and trust in you.

    In the end, you just have to wait and see what happens, don't worry, what belongs to you will be yours after all, even if it goes around in a big circle, it will belong to you in the end.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I feel like being alone. If he already has a partner. Then I don't think you should continue to confess to him.

    Especially if they are in a good relationship. Because you've had a crush on him for a long time, but because you haven't confessed to him. So if you confess to him at this time.

    It will hurt the feelings between them a little bit. In particular, it will distract his feelings. There used to be a very good saying, if you like him, you should learn to let go, and if he gets happiness, then it is your greatest happiness.

    So I personally think that if their relationship is very good, it is not appropriate for you to confess it. Then you should let go of the relationship and start looking for your new love again. In the next relationship, when you meet someone you like, you should learn the lesson of the last time and bravely confess to him.

    I wish you to find your Prince Charming soon.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Judging from your statement, you like this gentleman very much, and you regret that you chose someone else as your girlfriend for this gentleman, but you didn't choose you. Maybe you're not just sorry, or even anxious, overwhelmed, or you're also considering using other means to compete, this thing has come to this point, I think it's possible that you didn't confess in time and missed the opportunity, or maybe the other party doesn't like you, or the two of you don't have fate, no matter what the situation is, it has reached this state, what else can you do? I think it's the best way :

    The first is to reflect personal quality, wait patiently for the opportunity, if it belongs to you, you can't run after all; If it doesn't belong to you, no matter what kind of ability you use, no matter how you fight or grab, it's useless after all; Second, take the initiative to find a new person you like, find the target and confess it in time, don't miss the opportunity, don't regret it afterwards, and believe that a lover will eventually become a family; Third, don't complain, continue to maintain a friend relationship with the man you like, reflect style and generosity, go your own way, let others have a way to go, do your best, and reflect your demeanor and personality charm.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you really can't let go of this liking, you can choose to wait, because if you wait, you can not only recognize yourself, but also see the other person as a person, otherwise you will always regret it. If the other party is very upright, and you know that you are not looking at the wrong person, you can find a partner according to the type of person in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't wait where you are, if the other person breaks up with your girlfriend in the process of searching, you can also boldly express your love and don't miss the other person again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Alas, the person you like has a girlfriend, it's really troublesome, should I confess? It depends on how much you like him, I look at your shy appearance, if it weren't for someone else confessing first, I think you would keep delaying, if you confess, he doesn't accept it, can you bear it? If you can bear it, then try it, save you from regretting it in the future, if you can't bear it and he doesn't accept you, then I suggest you still observe, to what extent are the two of them?

    If their relationship is flat, then you might as well work hard and give yourself a chance, if they are good and the water can't be splashed in, then it is recommended that you forget it, and you have to take the idea yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then don't like it, you don't have to love a flower, there are so many women now, I have to travel in the waves to find two or three a week, and I'm afraid that my body can't bear it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then you go to him and ask him if he wants to be with you, and if he wants to, go after him. If he doesn't want to and doesn't feel for you, then, die of this heart as soon as possible and choose someone else. Because, the twisted melon is not sweet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Look at how much you like him, and how he treats you. If the attitude towards you is like that, there is no fixed number of hot and cold, and generally you can't pry the corner of the wall and will touch the gray nose and then carry a name that wants to be a junior but is unsuccessful. Unless you like him very much, he has to, and his attitude is that he likes you very much, then you can pry it over and let him break up with his girlfriend, otherwise don't do this kind of thing that is likely to ruin his reputation and not succeed, and then the couple will stay away from you and you will end up in a bleak end.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, he also likes you, this is to see if you are leveling him, so out of this side, you have to be brave and confident to fight for your true love to let him return to you, work hard, I wish you to find your true love as soon as possible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It should be natural, the person you like doesn't like you, if it's a crush on the other party, and he doesn't know your mind, if it's usually a good friend, then give him a blessing to be able to maintain a friendship is also a kind of happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In this case, you should really adjust your mentality, give your best wishes to each other, and let yourself go faster and bury this relationship in your heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should travel and meet new people of the opposite sex, because if you do these 2 things, you will not have extra time to always think about your crush, but it will be easier to let go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think once the person you like has a girlfriend, there is no way to do it, you better let it go! His heart will not return.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the person you've had a crush on for a long time already has a girlfriend, then you can concentrate on your own thing and distract yourself with other things. Try not to think about that person, you are not together, you are fated to be inseparable. At this time, we should think more about ourselves, and don't lose more than we lose.

    So be brave and be yourself, and there will definitely be people who appreciate you coming to you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You should silently tell yourself that since the other party already has a girlfriend, your best choice is to let go, to fulfill, to bless, and not to continue to indulge yourself in painful emotions, the right person for yourself will eventually appear, and the slow waiting will definitely come.

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