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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and you can't take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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Hello, when I found out that my crush had a boyfriend or girlfriend, I felt very uncomfortable, a very powerless feeling, angry that I was incompetent, why I didn't pursue each other, why I missed such a good person, I would be sad for many days. First, the person with a crush is generally less courageous, at least in front of the person he likes, and he does not dare to speak and do things, for fear that the other party will not think he is enough. Second, the crush on the other party will miss him every day, and he will be the other person in his heart every day, and he can't accept the loss of the other party.
Once she found out that she had a partner, all hope in her heart was gone, and the whole world collapsed for a moment, and there was no energy.
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Divided into Sleepy Lazhou Category: Troubles >> Love.
Problem description: What happens when a person has a crush on another person?
Analysis: When he was in front of him, he deliberately pretended to be plain and naturally talked and laughed.
The heart is nervous, deliberately deer, bumping around. All kinds of flavors in my heart.
Don't dare to meet his eyes. When talking, his eyes wander.
The gaze often unconsciously follows his back and silhouette.
As soon as he turns to look at you, he quickly retracts his gaze.
When it comes to topics related to the opposite sex, he will always try to make himself play a role that is "of the same sex" as the other person.
This allows the other person to speak freely about themselves, and also paints themselves with the safest protective color.
In a word. Crush on someone, will be the bureau letter appears irrelevant and no trace.
But it was blind. A person with a heart can find the secret in his heart from every evasive look, every casual word, and every subconscious small action.
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If you are in love with a person, if it is obvious, the other party will feel it, such as often giving him things and giving him too much help.
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1. Generally speaking, a person who has a crush on himself can feel it through some words and attitudes.
2. But if it is well hidden in communication or interaction, and does not show different enthusiasm and abnormality, then it is possible that the other party will not know.
Crush on someone, can the other party feel it, it depends on the specific situation.
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When a person is in a daze, his face will appear in his mind, he does not dare to look him in the eyes, he does not dare to talk to him, he will always pay attention to him, silently look at his back, and he is also very content. You'll care a lot about one of his words......
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Jealous for him, caring for him, hating those who are close to him.
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Seeing that person will blush and heart beat faster, and pretend that nothing is wrong, but others can see it at a glance.
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will miss him and her, will want to see him and her,
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I think about him all the time.
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Sometimes I can't help but think of her.
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and ashamed to go, leaning on the door and looking back, but sniffing the green plums.
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The performance of a girl who has a boyfriend but has a crush on someone else is that she always pays attention to the person she has a crush on and cares about his words and deeds. This situation is best faced correctly.
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Crushes don't show it, it's normal to have a crush on someone, but it's up to your boyfriend.
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First of all, you have to have a good chat with your boyfriend to see if they have that kind of relationship. And then, face it again. When you have a crush on that person, you can see what you are facing.
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Secretly like, secretly observe,
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Always remind yourself that it is impossible, he doesn't like you, and it will be dull after a long time.
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Crush crush, not so obvious as it is, just let it be.
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Is it the boyfriend who has a crush on someone else, or the girl who has a crush on someone else?
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...This one is too complicated.
..You can't tell. In the end, it's a girl who has a crush on someone else. Or a boy has a crush on someone else. Or is someone else having a crush on someone?
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I will choose to give up, some people think that even if they are a spare tire, they can do it, but this kind of self is really annoying, there are so many excellent girls in this world, whether they can be together is almost doomed, and there is no need to like a person who has no future at all because of his impulsiveness, or the following touches.
There are a lot of people like this who will have a crush because of their crush, and the crush will have to get their hands on it, and the crush will have to be brave enough to say it out loud. In fact, this is not the case, the difference between a crush and a clear love is that although the crush has no substantive behavior, all the memories left in the process of the crush are memories that the other party does not have, and for those who have a crush and do not take action, it is not because they have the courage to be together, but because they know that they cannot leave a sad side in this beautiful memory. Some facts still have to be accepted, but what can be done is to keep the beauty in your heart.
And it is very sad to like someone who doesn't like you, maybe there will be a little touch, but greater sadness will also be accompanied. If you like it, then bless them! Everyone has their own choices, and everyone will have different thoughts because of their own culture, but the secret love that she exudes and collides with you turns into a kind blessing.
Don't blame yourself for missing the opportunity to meet, and don't blame yourself for not taking the opportunity. Because that person is not the one in your life that needs to stay.
Many times when I think about my love, in fact, love is a large part. However, a small part of it is a secret love, a memory that we have experienced, those that do not appear often, but will be preserved psychological comfort.
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You see, I didn't turn my secret love into a bright love earlier, and now the goddess has become someone else's family! Alas, this situation is a headache to think about, although it is said that as long as the other party is not married, you have a chance. However, after all, people are now famous flowers, and you are not good at snatching love, are you?
So, either you go and find a new tree, or you put the emotional matter aside first, and when they are yellow, you will try to win each other in one fell swoop!
Anyway, I feel that now is the time for the two of them to be consensual and honey-blended, and if you are willing to be a spare tire, the girl will not be able to see you. So, instead of you waiting where you are, turn away and do what you are supposed to do. You always have to believe that as long as there is fate between you, there will still be opportunities in the future.
Yes, this sentence is self-consolation, but it is also well-founded, and it is by no means true. You think, it's already so hard to survive, so why don't you give yourself a glimmer of hope!
In fact, asking you to leave does not mean that you will throw her out of your sight, but that you will continue your "crush". As for you, the most important thing to do now is to develop yourself well, work hard to accumulate your own capital, and make yourself the kind of person who stands in the crowd and can be discovered by others at a glance. At the same time, if you have time, you can care about your crush by the way, if they are emotionally stable, then you are ready to accept others at any time, if they are "crumbling", then you are ready to appear at any time to "save" her from the "sea of suffering".
In short, emotional things are just like that, don't get too into the horns, let it be, after all, you don't work hard when things are man-made, and it doesn't make much sense to do anything now. However, as the saying goes, "If you bloom, the breeze will come", so you still have to work hard!
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Do you really have to be together if you like someone, shouldn't you see what you need to learn from him, shouldn't you simply like someone, since you can't control that you like him, then you don't need a reason to like someone.
Actually, you don't have to say anything, you have to be with her as his boyfriend, right, I don't know if you have watched "The Most Beautiful Time", in which Su Man likes Alex for ten years, and in ten years, she was admitted to Tsinghua University with Alex as her example, and then became an elite in the financial industry and then went to McGur for Alex and then studied all the way, in fact, we see that in the end, it doesn't matter who Su Man is with, Su Man has undoubtedly achieved a better self in the ten years that he likes Alex, Alex has a cheerful and helpful personality, Su Man also learns to be cheerful and helpful, Alex has become an elite in the investment community, and Su Man has also worked hard, passed the CPA exam, and became a partner of the firm, which can be regarded as a successful career.
Even if Su Man really didn't have a result with Alex in the end, he urged and spurred himself to become a better version of himself when he compared his favorite recognition, isn't this the best explanation for his secret love? If you like a person, you have to hold the attitude of "I am lucky, I will not die", otherwise the person you love has someone you like or you hate him if you don't like you, then the world is too unlovely.
Loving someone should not be possessive, the person you like has a boyfriend, silently paying attention, waiting or leaving is undoubtedly your own choice, love should not be presumptuous, love is restraint.
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Now that she already has a boyfriend, it means that the person she likes is not you, and I think you should let go of this relationship, only then will you not be bound by the emotional troubles of unrequited love in your life.
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I can only be sad by myself, and if I like someone, I boldly pursue it, and I have been secretly in love with her, and I can only be silently sad when she is with others.
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I'm in this state now, but I don't want to destroy it, although it looks very uncomfortable, but I can only like it silently.
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Uncover the scar in my heart, the girl I had a crush on for five years.
I can't imagine that one day you'll actually be with someone else. When we meet again, the smile on your face, the smile of happiness that another man brought to you. It hurts when I think about it.
I also posted a circle of friends, and the day you have a boyfriend is when we break up.
I thought, you're just in love, maybe you're going to break up. Am I really willing to see you again?
I once read your Weibo post at night, what to say about the 100-day anniversary. Spoken in English. At that time, there was a hunch that you were in love, exactly 100 days.
I talked to Brother Ma about it, and I thought it was possible. Then I calculated that a hundred days ago it was almost August Day. At that time, I had just started school, and you hadn't started yet.
How could you start falling in love at that time. Then I didn't think much about it.
Unexpectedly, I didn't know later that that Weibo was really used to commemorate your 100th day of falling in love.
When I later learned from others that you had a boyfriend, it really seemed that something was broken in my heart, and my chest was really suffocated, very stuffed, and my heart was congested.
I decided to break off my friendship with you, so I wrote a memoir about you, wrote down everything about you in my memory, and then sealed it completely.
It's been a long time, it's better not to see you, never to see you again.
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Wrong. Your crush is not married, if not, tell her that you like her, say your thoughts, hold it in your heart will be sick, although, maybe, you will have some concerns, but, how to know if it is not suitable. Don't be afraid, I'm sure your buddies will support you.
I have one in the space, it seems, the story.
Maybe for a lifetime, maybe a day or two...
Some people are inexplicably annoying at first glance. He.