I have a girlfriend, but I seem to have a better understanding with another girl

Do you think it's better to be friends with you or a couple?!

Because I have all the questions. Because of my travel, I seem to have more feelings than friends with my best friends of the opposite sex, and that kind of tacit understanding between friends. It made the whole group, including his mother, think we were a couple. It's a bit ambiguous.

I chose not to develop myself, because good friends are for life, and couples are not. What about you?If you feel like you're friends with her because you've always liked L, then you can choose to go with her.

If you just think she's better, but your tacit understanding is between friends, then maybe you can choose my choice.

People now have boyfriends... It's not easy to do... Don't settle for feelings.,First of all, the current relationship without tacit understanding is cold.。。。 If only she knew and said something to you! If not, it is estimated that you are more likely to be unrequited...

If you tell your girlfriend about your troubles, it should be solved.

Brother, you don't deserve her, it's not my poisonous tongue, you really don't deserve her!

Thank you for asking this question for me and for me to understand a lot, thank you, stranger.

Both men and women have a loving heart.

You've been dating your girlfriend for so long, and you're getting aesthetically fatigued.

I don't think if you and your girlfriend were in love, you wouldn't have paid any attention or thought about the girl who is bothering you so much.

Yours and her have been dating for so many years, proving that she is suitable for you.

Don't think about anything else. I think even if you get married in the future, you will have such moments that bother you. It is better to stick to your own choice to have true happiness. You're right!

Don't fall in love with empathy? This will hurt your current girlfriend, do you take a closer look at whether you like it or just want it?

People are emotional animals, when you are stumped by feelings and can't extricate yourself, you should try your best to be rational and analyze the current situation rationally, first of all, people's enthusiasm for new love must be stronger than old love, this intensity will make you mistakenly think that your new love is your true love, but if you think about it carefully, when you first met the old love, isn't it also the same enthusiasm, so, this feeling is actually only temporary, and when it passes, it will return to the flat. Secondly, you and your girlfriend have been together for another 5 years, and you have also reached marriageable age, and she loves you very much, as a man, I think you should take on the responsibility of a man at this time, not to live up to a woman who has loved you for so many years on a whim. Finally, imagine what you will be like after you are with this new love and beyond, is she really the right person to marry you and be with you for a lifetime?

After a good ideal analysis, I finally advise you to never let down a person who loves you, this is what I have learned from my personal experience, and I wish you a satisfactory solution.

Stepping on two boats will only hurt yourself and hurt others and yourself, why bother, isn't it? Besides, it doesn't have to be that girl who is also fresh.

Don't step on two boats, just choose for yourself, and then deal with the relationship between you and the two girls, be careful of chickens and eggs.

See if your girlfriend is sincere to you, and if so, then treat your current relationship well! As for the other girl you like, treat them as ordinary friends. You can't choose to betray your girlfriend after all.

Chase the other one, be honest and tell your girlfriend that you like someone else, otherwise you think in your heart that the other one is unfair to your girlfriend.

I don't know much, but personally, if you still love your girlfriend and think she is a person you can live with, strengthen your heart and be with her. Actually, you can also have a good chat with your girlfriend. I believe that as long as you love each other, this problem can be solved.

Don't hurt too many people at once.

Since they are all out of the appointment, it means that your heart still acquiesces in chasing this girl, don't be entangled, follow your feelings.

I think it may be that you and your girlfriend have been separated for a long time, get together less and leave more, if you still love your girlfriend and feel that you can live together, have a good chat with her, and understand each other's inner thoughts, I believe that there will definitely be a solution, don't hurt too many people at once. It is recommended to spend more time with your girlfriend and not be separated all the time.

It is advisable to give up!

Cherish what you have!

To borrow the words of Mr. Lei:

The so-called same-sex competition is expressed in this way: males are constantly competing with other males, and then trying to inseminate as many females as possible, in order to pass on the excellent DNA that has been selected by competition as widely as possible to improve the overall quality of the population, and females are constantly competing with other females, trying to attract males who stand out in the competition, and inseminating themselves, in order to inherit the excellent DNA as widely as possible to improve the overall quality of the population.

If she didn't have a boyfriend friend, would you dislike her instead, and are you proving your excellence in this way? Prove that you have a stronger attraction than others? In order to perfect the so-called self-worth that you cannot achieve in your work and study.

"What's right for you is the best"...Marriage is a matter of two people....Feeling is real....

Five years of relationship is not worth a short relationship, it seems that time can really change everything, including love.

Maybe you're obsessed with her.

It seems that the girl you like is your true love, but she may not love you as much as your girlfriend, from your own point of view, you should choose the second one, and the latecomer may be the truth, I hope you can think clearly about the price of betrayal and make the right choice.

It stands to reason that it is impossible for a person to like two people at the same time, you have to distinguish between love and desire, and there is only one true love.

Girlfriends are definitely different from ordinary friends. You were introduced by a friend, you have lived together, and you have considered your future marriage, which means that this girlfriend is already your lover. Lovers can't just look at feelings.

People will always change, and you will always encounter various things in the future, but as a mature man, you have to learn to control your emotions and feelings, cope with this change, and love people.

Before becoming a lover, consider all aspects comprehensively, if you make a good decision, don't be disturbed by the outside world, and when something happens, you should try to maintain the relationship, instead of doubting; If you can't, don't make the relationship so easy.

Choose the other, because when you like the other, your girlfriend is not the only one in your heart.

Of course, it's just a matter of looking at it. But there's a saying that when you like two people, choose the second, because if you like the first one enough, you won't like the second. But out of morality, you still break up with your girlfriend and then talk about the next paragraph, which is a sign of responsibility.

I wish you all happiness.

Yes, according to the meaning of the downstairs, then, in the decisive choice of the third, fourth, fifth! Your expression is the essence!

Choose what you love, since you yourself have said that you call your elementary school classmates more, and you feel that all aspects of the family are more suitable, then choose the one you like more. Tell your current girlfriend directly, and just say that you are not suitable. Tell your current girlfriend everything you think.

If you drag it out and wait for your girlfriend to find out for herself, it will be your infidelity and injustice, so you will never be able to raise your head, and if you say it directly, it means that you are in the light. It's nothing, women are very independent now, and your current girlfriend won't be unacceptable. Of course, if you are your current girlfriend's first love, then you need to use more snacks, talk to him well, and even if you break up, don't ignore others, at least be a friend.

Because first love is the most unforgettable

If you love each other, the other party will always think about each other, why think so much, since you love each other, you know it? People will meet a lot of people who can talk to each other in their lives, not just yourself, so if there are some episodes that happen to everyone who can talk, then your life is over, think about your future and cherish what you have now. In the future, there will naturally be a way to go, and that's how I got here.

Now that it has come to this point, there must be a trade-off, first of all, to ask who your heart likes more? If you are with someone you don't like, sooner or later you will have to separate, and you will end it as soon as possible, the most important thing is to look at yourself, your parents, you can't be with you for a lifetime, what is with you for a lifetime is helpful to you, you have made progress in your promotion, sunny and positive, don't, make the right choice, money, can't replace anything? It's yours sooner or later, always, don't force it, man, you have to be responsible, or quiet, think about it yourself, after all, your parents are far away from raising your parents, and your parents are not far away.

Hope it helps,

The second, because if you really like the first, how can you fall in love with the second.

One foot and two boats are a reflection of your ability!!

You have to think carefully about your elementary school classmates, so as not to hurt others again. If you really feel that you have no future with your girlfriend, and you are not willing to change for her, and you feel that you are more suitable for your elementary school classmates, then comfort your girlfriend first, break up with her first, and tell her that you are not a good fit. And don't say you like someone else.

But you'd better ask yourself if you can change for your current girlfriend first, because after all, you've both been around for so many years and know each other well.

Others may not look up to you, and it is your right to like others.

Assuming you don't meet someone you like, can you maintain your relationship with your girlfriend? Your procrastination like this will only make your relationship worse and worse, and it will be torture for both of you, so if you don't want to hurt your girlfriend, can you continue with her to save your heart? It's even more unfair to her if people are not in their hearts.

Better a finger off than always aching. It's better to pursue their own happiness.

This one is beautiful, yes, why do you like another one?

Decisively choose the second one, according to the theorem, if you are true love for the first, you will never like the other.

It is enough to choose the one on **.

This era does not tolerate long-distance love. So it's better to follow the laws of history and give up and enjoy life.

I think you're the reason you're too far away from your girlfriend, love shouldn't be lost to distance, right?

I think you have to think about whether this person is worthy of you really like this, are you willing to give up your girlfriend for so many years, sometimes it takes a little time to see people clearly.

When a person is quiet, think about it, ask your heart, which one do you like? No matter who you really like, be sure to explain the words to the two people, have a clear attitude, and then make a choice. It's not shameful to have a girlfriend and fall in love with someone else, it's hard to say about feelings, you can only say that the relationship between you and your girlfriend is still not deep enough to stand the test.

If you blindly shuttle between the two in an ambiguous posture and have an unclear attitude, it is shameful. Because while you are irresponsible about your feelings, you will deeply hurt two people who love you.

Aren't you separated, go and ask your girlfriend if you're still boyfriend and girlfriend, it's still like it, break up if you don't like it.

Look at your own heart, and be with whomever you want......

Explanation. Better a finger off than always aching.

Be kind to No. 1 and put No. 2 in the trunk in a word, try to hold it up!! You don't want to be with No. 1 anymore Put No. 2 on No. 2 It's very good to be with No. 1 Don't recruit people on No. 2 Don't be too far away from No. 2 But don't get too close!! OK, in fact, doubt is another kind of love!!

Wildflowers are always more fragrant than domestic flowers, but when wildflowers become domestic flowers, the taste is still the same, or even less than before, no wonder your girlfriend doubts you, you really are that kind of person.

You have to choose one yourself, you can't pedal two boats. This is not good for them, men can't have three wives and four concubines, understand?

Like is like, just chase bravely, since you don't like your current girlfriend, break up boldly, it's good for either of you, even if you don't break up with him, your heart is no longer her, it's hurtful for you, or it's better to have a long pain than a short pain.

Tactfully refuse, make it clear, and show that you have a girlfriend! Actually, you're a little undetermined right now! Hope you've figured it out!

I'm sorry, I already have a girlfriend, she loves me very much and I love her too, thank you for being sorry for the wrong love.

Refuse, what else can you do, why do you want to abandon your girlfriend? Since you love it, don't be distracted!

I'm sorry, I already have a girlfriend and we're in a good relationship. Thank you for your appreciation.

It should be noticed! Stepping on two boats, there may be danger, grasp the measure, turn back in time.

Before you change your mind, you have to care about her.

It's normal to chat because you think too much.

Be clear. Don't overdo it.

It's fine, but it's better to try to limit it a little bit so as not to cause misunderstandings.