If you can t let go of a breakup, should you continue to be friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since you broke up, don't continue to be friends, each to find new happiness, I have personally experienced a situation like you, and the result told me that I can't continue to be friends, it is impossible for you to forget her, the best way is to find new happiness, life is like this, some things cannot be done all at once, and it may not be a good thing to experience it, I wish you to let go of your hands as soon as possible, and also let go of your heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If two people break up and become friends.

    - That means I've never loved you.

    If two people break up, they can still do what friends do.

    - That means I want you to remember me.

    If two people break up, I don't see you again and say out loud that I hate you.

    - That means I'm reluctant to leave you.

    If two people break up, we disappear from each other's worlds.

    - That shows that I really love you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forget each other in the rivers and lakes, and be a pair of strangers who are familiar with each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Be the stranger you know best.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can't be friends when you break up, because you've hurt each other, you can't be strangers, because you have loved each other deeply, you can only be the most familiar stranger.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really want to give up, you should stop contacting this person until you can let go completely, otherwise there will only be pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can not forget, but you can't not let go.

    It's not appropriate to be friends after a breakup, it's too embarrassing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can not forget, but you can not contact!

    This kind of love, although poignant, is also very beautiful, that is called the beauty of regret!

    Isn't mine amazing? Isn't it sharp? Isn't it decisive?

    Give me the best, don't explain!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, let the past pass, don't bother each other, and start your new life again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no absolute, because a sincere relationship must not be easily let go, and it will always be hidden in the deepest part of each other's hearts. The reason why I chose to be friends is that I may still have a trace of fantasy and feelings, but I just think that since I can't be a couple, it is also a good choice to be friends first.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you can be friends, you should not have loved it, or one party has a higher emotional intelligence, otherwise you can't be friends very well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are several possibilities: 1. I just can't let go and I want to see if there is any change, or I'm giving you a chance 2. I can't accept the fact that I've been separated at once, and I want to use the identity of a friend to overdo it, and I can catch it back anyway, and I have to work hard to get better and re-attract him, and there is a worst possibility that he can't bear your good, and wants you to continue to be good to him, and he is kicking away when he has a better one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is the possibility of taking the relationship to a level first, and then looking for opportunities to develop back to a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Many people like to struggle with the question of whether they can be friends after a breakup. After the girls broke up, most of them were heartbroken and unwilling to come and go. After the boy breaks up, he still wants to be friends, so that he cares about each other's lives from time to time.

    At the same time, beware of whether the other party will imitate other men to show favor during the period when the other party is single. Therefore, most men still habitually miss their relationship after breaking up. If a man performs these four things, it means that he can't let go of you.

    1. Call you **.

    After the breakup, if the man still calls you, asks and cares about your life, and wants to talk to you, it means that he still can't let go of you in his heart. Because I miss you, I can't help but call you **. There may be thousands of reasons to hit **, but in the final analysis, he loves you and you.

    If a man doesn't love you, he has 10,000 words of reasons not to call you, but he can't let go of you, even if he is busy, he can find time to harass you.

    2. Make an appointment with you for dinner.

    Generally, men and women follow the principle of being strangers after a breakup, and never getting along with each other. There are also some men who can't let go of each other, and they want to see each other but have no suitable reason, so they will use the old-fashioned and clumsy way of making an appointment to meet you to comfort their lovesickness. The man who really lets go of you can go on a date with another woman, and only the man who hasn't let go of you will do everything possible to date you.

    Maybe we met, a lot of misunderstandings were discussed, maybe you can still let go of your old suspicions and get back together.

    3. Ask him for help if you have something.

    The man who can't let go of you in his heart keeps an eye on your movements all the time. He will tell you that he is looking for help when you have something, and once you ask him for help, he will also rush to you and do his best to do everything for you. He's not a good guy, but he puts your business first.

    After breaking up, he is still willing to help you, and after being busy for you, being good to you can only show that he still loves you and still has you in his heart.

    Fourth, I didn't have a good time after a breakup.

    A man who can't forget you simply can't work hard and live again. His world is full of traces of you. If a man will use alcohol to kill his sorrows and sobs after a breakup, you can tell from any friend that he is not doing well, which means that he still loves you deeply.

    How much pain he suffers after a breakup proves how much he loves you.

    In fact, after a breakup, men and women can't be pure friends, no matter which party proposes to be friends, they are actually still in love. If you can't be together, let me accompany you silently. If a man has these four performances, it means that he can't let go of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not necessarily that you can't put it down. Maybe I know that person too well, so I feel that that person and myself really can't get along with each other anymore. Especially if they can't be together, Fan Ling is often because of some bad things in his posture.

    Thinking of his hypocritical smile, he couldn't live in peace with this man.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's probably the case, but it's not all like that, if you break up, you don't want to be friends, it's not good for anyone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not necessarily, the main reason why you can't be friends after a breakup is that re-contact will only cause sadness for each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, after the breakup, there is no room to be friends. It's not a matter of letting go of it, you have a relationship, don't you feel embarrassed to be a friend and a hidden friend? If you now know that your best friend is your ex. What did he think?

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