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Your question is not right What you can't get How can you have the opportunity to destroy it Since you can destroy it Then it is in your hands at this time How can you say that you don't get it Destroy it and you will lose it forever You should restrain yourself Not everything is as satisfying as you want You can get what you want Don't be so willful anymore Your character will make you lose more in the future What you can't get will be destroyed Who would dare to contact people like you Because I know that there is no good end in your hands Hehe It's kind of distorted, whether you get it or not, don't destroy anything, every object has its value, you haven't understood its value, what qualifications do you have to get it, if you know its value, how can you bear to destroy it, don't just stare at other people's things, cherish what you have.
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There is a way. When you feel this way again, you pay attention to what you associate with it, and there must be associated bad memories or experiences. Figuring out how this feeling of anger or humiliation or other kind of feeling arises, whether the end result is jealousy, hatred or other so-called ugliness, you face yourself directly and feel like you.
Pain comes from one's own incompleteness, and being brave enough to understand oneself is the ultimate solution to one's own problems, and to feel more and accept oneself more. Maybe one day you will feel a different state of mind now.
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Since you like it, try to get it and give him more pity. Some things don't have to have results, isn't it good to learn to enjoy the process of fighting? Even if you still don't get it in the end, you won't be so sorry.
People, you have to learn to control yourself, hehe I don't think that ruining what you like can get real happiness and satisfaction afterwards. You can read some books that are positive and optimistic, full of philosophy, and maybe you won't do that when your outlook on life, worldview, and values changes.
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It is a kind of jealousy psychology, a typical psychological distortion. It is very dangerous to let it develop. Learn to empathize and think about how others would treat you this way. Overcome it slowly. If it is severe, it is advisable to see a psychologist.
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1. Possessiveness is at work. If you want to get what you want, don't force it if you can't get it, let others get it, and if you destroy something, there's no point. And it will be hated and retaliated against, and if this mentality and practice spreads to things, it will be terrible.
2 If you want to destroy people, you will be hated and revenged, but if you don't, you will waste your energy and time, harm others, and be hated by others. 3. So if you can get it, try your best to get it, if you can't get it, let what you can get and help him get it, not only do his work, but also get friendship, and cultivate a good attitude and important win-win and tolerance, enhance relationships, promote cooperation, and better mutual benefit Don't be jealous of others, it's someone else, even if you grab it, it won't be good, it's yours, even if someone else gets it, you can take it back one day. Rather for the jade to be broken, not for the tile, this kind of mentality is a bit like the same end, do not advocate, resolutely oppose, very dangerous, if such an attitude towards people and things, it will hurt others, but also will attract envy and revenge, will mess things up.
Therefore, you still want to get what you can get, and don't force what you can't get, let others get it.
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Hello friends!
After reading your description, I can only say that you are very possessive.
I recommend that you go to a psychiatrist, this situation must be controlled, otherwise it will not be good for you.
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Narrow-minded, short-sighted, self-aware, self-aware, and self-conscious. When encountering problems, only look for objective reasons, find fault with others, and you are always right. This kind of person is psychologically paranoid and dark.
Those who are psychologically unhealthy will have a lot of mistakes in their choices because they absorb negative influences about their feelings about life. The understanding of things is very partial, and most of the setbacks and failures are the majority. Complaining about the sky and worrying about others, not thinking about one's own faults. In the long run, it can cause psychological distortions and even mental illness.
I don't care about anything, I'm happy every day, and what others say is someone else's business, as long as I think it's right.
It's good to get together and disperse, I won't make such friends...
To be noticed, this is often the beginning of gluttony, are you bored and lonely in a foreign country? If it is, it will be more dangerous, but don't go on too much diet, take a little moderation and solve it slowly, find something you like to do as soon as possible to divert your attention, and life is not boring is the root of solving the problem.
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