Where do I go? The confusion of graduates, the confusion of graduation

I used to have such confusion, in fact, no one can choose a career at the beginning, a place, until the old, will change a few jobs, and finally find the most suitable for yourself, I suggest you be brave to find, although you are afraid of entering the wrong line or something, but you have to remember that no matter what work you have done before, how wrong you will do in the future, the previous work experience will definitely have an impact on your future work and life will be helpful and accumulative. Not only work experience but also life experience, the places you have been to and the jobs you have done will definitely be part of your future knowledge accumulation.

Be sure to find, don't hesitate too much when choosing, just play your strengths, when you feel that you can't stay, you can change another job, as long as you work hard, rest assured that there is no vain to say, there will always be something buried deep in your heart.

Three places are close to the sea, there are foreign trade enterprises in all three places, you have just graduated, there is an opportunity and there is time, as long as you are doing foreign trade, you can try. As long as it is relevant, it is the accumulation of your future experience, find a job and work hard to study, you can't stay in the first unit for a lifetime, don't look at your own hands, understand the process of other people's work, and even see how the company operates, and so on, it will definitely be helpful for your next job.

Finally, good luck!!

Come to Qingdao for development, the air here is good. Ha ha. Of course, it depends on your fate, this is not what I said, you feel that you will go there wherever you go.

You can go wherever you want, don't listen to others, you will know if it's good or not, even if you're not satisfied, it's not too late to change to another place!

Let's be realistic, the closer you are to home, the better, girls drifting outside alone, how can you let people go, I've been graduating for almost 2 years, and most of my former classmates in Beijing have also gone home.

The same feeling **Is it good to be at home?

You can also see your parents from time to time to spend time with them as they get older.

I have a goal in mind, and I don't need advice from others

None of us can give you a satisfactory answer, and we must go our own way. Any city is for you, as long as you have goals.

To put it harshly, you're too sweet.

I just can't do anything if I don't want to. If you are afraid of wolves and tigers, what else can you do?

What are your goals? What is your ideal?

If you have to go, do it boldly and break through.

If not, get married quickly, don't think about this or that.

There are many companies in Qingdao, and there are many large companies that have been established for a long time, so it is easy to find a job, and the company is not very strict (in comparison).The life aspect is a bit grim and not very adaptable.

In Yantai, there are many new big enterprises, many new opportunities, and it is not difficult to find a job, you should be able to use English, and life will be a little better, because it is a newly developed local city.

The first ten people are transferred, worrying about what's the use, find a job well, settle down to do things, and the problem will be solved.

I think it's very normal for college students to have such a mentality after graduation, because people will definitely take care of it when they face an unknown new environment, and then they are a little scared in their hearts.

To deal with this situation, the first thing is to correct your mentality, so that you feel not afraid from the bottom of your heart. People should be afraid when facing a new environment, but if they can get rid of this fear through strong psychological cues. You can instill in yourself that you are already good at it, and then you can handle problems well, and this kind of perspective can make you more confident.

In addition, after graduation, before entering the workplace, college students can ask experienced senior teachers for advice and ask them to tell them some things that need to be paid attention to in the workplace, which can invisibly reduce our sense of urgency. Because the more we know about something, the less we will be afraid of it, and it is precisely because we don't understand it that we will be afraid, so after learning some knowledge of the workplace, we may get rid of this feeling.

In the transition from campus to the workplace, it is normal to be confused.

At the same time, the students who stepped out of the campus have different degrees of confusion, except that everyone has different expectations for the future, that is, everyone's preparation is different: some people start to think about their development after graduation from their freshman year, and work hard every day, and they are relatively less confused after graduation; Some people believe that there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and they do not start to prepare until the autumn recruitment, so they will naturally be more confused in a short time.

So what should be done?

1. Acceptance. Aimless confusion is the greatest mental internal friction.

Instead of being so distraught that you don't want to do anything and can't do anything well, it's better to look at the number of graduates this year and think about the 10 million people, maybe 50% of them are as confused as themselves, and 30% are more confused than themselves.

Accepting confusion is a necessary state when changing identities, so that you can slowly calm down and prepare patiently.

2. Action. Make career plans, research job postings, revise resumes, and prepare for interview ......Everything on the road to job hunting is more constructive than being confused.

Of course, if there is action, you may face failure, and your resume will be lost, and there will be no news ...... interview

However, if you have a growth mindset, believe that your goals will become clearer, your resume will get better and better, and interviews will flow more and more.

Then facing failure is not too slow.

3. Reduce horizontal comparisons.

Half of people's confusion and anxiety come from horizontal comparison.

Seeing others going to graduate school, I also began to consider whether I should improve my academic qualifications again; When I saw others taking the civil service exam, I thought that my parents and relatives also advised me to be more stable.

Horizontal comparison will make your job search goal particularly vague, and the action will become three days of fishing and two days of drying nets.

As a result, as time goes on, graduation gets closer and closer, you don't have a job, and you become more and more confused.

At present, oil prices are rising, energy and environmental protection issues are becoming increasingly prominent, and learning new energy vehicles will definitely become the development direction of future automobiles. Therefore, the talents cultivated by the new energy vehicle technology major will definitely be scarce talents in the future, and the employment prospects will naturally be very good.

You will enter a period of confusion when you first graduate, but there are things you can do to calm yourself down.

First of all, you have to find a job to do, and in the process of work, you may be able to find what you want to do.

Secondly, you should associate more with relatives and friends, and some of their suggestions or experiences may be able to give you some inspiration in life.

Third, being idle is also idle, it is better to take more certificates, which will make your life full and slowly get rid of confusion. If you like a certain industry, you can take the certificate of this industry. What human resources engineers, marketers, etc. It takes a lot of sweat to get the test.

The last point, and the most important, study, you can study by yourself, you can enroll in classes, in short, don't let yourself be idle, live a more fulfilling life, and you will be less confused.

You're not alone. In addition to the above-mentioned methods of finding a job, individuals should continue to develop their own abilities. It's more important to maintain your self-confidence, don't let life wear away your edges and corners, and don't let yourself fall and waste time at home every day.

Try to make yourself gain every day, whether it is to improve your skills or improve your ability to get along with others, as long as you improve.