What should I do? Will the next blind date be better?

If the conditions are good, there will be the capital to choose, it's okay, I support you, continue to go on a blind date, it's not a big deal, your age is not big, first of all, you have to summarize what you want to look for, and then have a choice to go on a blind date, don't go to see who you introduced, because your own conditions are very good, you don't need to lower your identity, if the first side is not particularly satisfied, you must insist on getting along, and then insist on seeing a few faces, maybe you can find the other party's shining point, if the other party is not satisfied with you, don't force it, It's just that your fate hasn't come yet, and what belongs to you will definitely come eventually

In fact, girls have a little vanity, they all want to find an Andy Lau, as long as it doesn't feel good, that is, they haven't met a man who really makes their hearts move, the relationship is not urgent, 24 is not old, in fact, look at the man to observe him from the details, observe his behavior, habits, friends around him, attitude towards people, if a man identifies you, then in his heart you are his only, he will not have feelings for any other woman, blind date is nothing, if it is not suitable, just say it, After all, no one hurts who owes anyone, others say which boy is more and more good is secondary, the key is whether the shoes fit or not, only you know, marriage is a lifetime, you can't be blind and hasty, I hope you can find the man who really belongs to you

The most important thing is to think clearly about what you want, it doesn't matter what others say, only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not, some shoes look very beautiful, but they are uncomfortable to wear, and some look very ordinary, but they are very comfortable to wear. Only you know whether you are happy or not, so take advantage of it.

In fact, 24 is not small for blind dates I'm only 21 now, and I was forced to join the blind date army when I was still in school. No way· Under pressure from the family· Can you talk by yourself or find it by yourself After all, we know the roots and know the roots, and there is a certain emotional foundation. We have a marriage certificate in the morning and a divorce in the afternoon, which is the result of blind dates

No matter how old you are, no matter how much your family and friends urge, don't treat feelings casually, feelings are not playing cards, and shuffling cards will have to pay a huge price.

I just want to say that there are thousands of men in the world, and if it is not suitable, change it.

Then it is necessary to appropriately lower your own conditions.

You know, there are so few perfect people in the world, unless you think you're lucky enough, go for the third one.

You're a bit demanding.

I think the second one is good.

Is it too sensitive to dig quickly to determine that the relationship is not long-lasting? Most people's first instinct is to think that the relationship is confirmed too quickly. This kind of relationship will not last long, but whether the relationship can last long, in fact, with the two of them, do they have the intention to specialize in this relationship?

It has a lot to do with it. The disagreement between the three views of two people also plays a decisive factor, and if one party does not have the strong ability to solve the problem, then it is difficult to maintain this relationship for a long time, how to make this relationship run for a long time?

First of all, each other must make progress together, and two people must have a sense of common progress to carry out their relationship well. If two people are not synchronized and make progress together, the party who makes rapid progress will soon get rid of the human body, and the other party is moving forward, while the other person is not moving, and the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the distance will be getting farther and farther, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

In addition, don't rely too much on the other person, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first, then love each other, have your own independent bridge blind core personality, and deal with all aspects of life very well.

In addition, we must trust each other, we must learn to give ourselves a sense of security, many things to choose each other, but there will be unexpected gains, in fact, restrain each other to let each other according to your wishes, so that you can feel at ease, it would be a big mistake, some things can never be controlled, it will only add unnecessary contradictions to the two of you.

Not necessarily, it can only be said that there is a certain causal link between determining the relationship too quickly and dying too quickly, but it is not inevitable.

Why isn't it advisable for two people to settle a relationship too quickly?

1. If you don't know enough, you decide to warehousing.

To be precise, the ultimate determining factor in the speed of a relationship is not the determination of the time, but the degree of understanding of the person in front of you.

But often, too quickly identify the complications of the relationship.

That is: you don't have enough time and experience to deeply understand the other person's buried life, and only after determining the relationship do you find out the true exposed nature of the other party, you suddenly feel disappointed, want to break up, and the relationship dies like this.

At the same time, the other party may be the same, and his understanding of you is also limited, and he may be with you on the spur of the moment, or he may wait for him to come back to his senses and find that you are not what he originally thought.

Therefore, the reason why we don't establish a relationship as soon as possible is not because the decision is too fast and the relationship is not smooth, but because we know each other too little and the relationship is not good.

2. It's easy to get, not enough to cherish.

Determining the relationship is too bent and fast, which can easily lead to a problem, that is, it is too easy to get.

First of all, it is too easy to obtain, which leads to the problem of feeling that it is not good enough, which is the nature of human beings;

The main thing that determines the length of your relationship is how well you know each other and how well you accept it.

On this basis, it is better to have a relationship that has been brewing for a while.

Yes, the sooner you establish a relationship with your blind date, the better, and the more conducive it is to go straight to the goal, from acquaintance to love. Most of the blind dates are older leftover men and women, and their age is not forgiving and their youth is not always there. Tease judgment to determine the relationship between the object Shan Xun early, and you can devote yourself to love.

It's not good, slowly get to know each other, but also get to know each other's parents.

A good blind date should have the following characteristics:

Honesty and trustworthiness: The most basic thing for a relationship is trust. A good blind date should be honest and trustworthy, not lying, and not cheating.

Kindness and friendliness: Kindness and friendliness are important criteria for judging a person's quality. A good blind date should know how to respect others and show a warm temperament to make people feel comfortable and assured.

Smiling Person: Whether it is a man or a woman, a blind date with a smile will make a deep impression on people. A blind date with a smile, a rich expression, and a friendly attitude is more likely to be favored by others.

Have a common topic: If two people don't have anything in common, it is often difficult to establish strong interactions and communication. A good blind date should be able to share with you some topics that interest both of you, and think and interact on that basis.

Sense of Responsibility and Planning: Responsibility and planning are compulsory courses for human growth and development. A good blind date should have a clear plan and goals, and have the confidence and courage to achieve their dreams.

At the same time, they should also be able to take responsibility and take responsibility for the big decisions in their lives.

The above are some of the characteristics that you need to have as a blind date. Of course, everyone's standards are not exactly the same, and you should choose the most suitable object according to your own situation.

The other party has a good look, a positive outlook, and a stable job, which is a very good blind date.

A good matchmaking does not necessarily guarantee a good outcome, because the success of the marriage relationship depends not only on the conditions of the other party, but also on many other factors to consider. Here are some factors to consider:

1.Matching Personality and Values: An important factor in a successful marriage is whether the personalities and values of both parties match each other. Regardless of whether the conditions are good or not, if there are large differences or conflicts between the two types of cherry blossoms in these aspects, it may lead to problems and contradictions.

2.Communication and mutual understanding: Good communication and mutual understanding are key in a marriage. The conditions for blind dates are good, but if the communication skills are poor and the mutual understanding is insufficient, it will bring obstacles and troubles to the marriage.

3.Shared goals and future plans: Whether both partners share common goals and future plans, as well as a willingness to work towards achieving them, is also an important factor in the success of a marriage. The good conditions of the blind date cannot guarantee that the lives and future plans of the two people are compatible.

4.Marital and family backgrounds: Differences in marital and family backgrounds may also have an impact on marriage. If there are significant differences between the two parties in these areas, it may lead to family disputes and conflicts.

To sum up, the good conditions of the blind date partner are only part of the success of the marriage, and other factors need to be considered comprehensively. The most important thing is to work hard to build a solid emotional foundation through mutual understanding, communication, and authentic contact. Only when both parties truly love, respect, and support each other can it be possible to achieve a good outcome in a marriage.

1. First of all, many girls encounter a situation that. The boys began to chase tightly. Later, it gradually became cold. I can't figure out why.

Analysis 1: The man likes you very much, so he chases after you tightly. But you didn't react.

Or didn't take a fancy to him. Or lukewarm. In this way, he naturally lost motivation.

He's sure to ask his friends around him. His friends would tell him that this woman was cold. Then cold her for a few days, and then talk about the royal ascension.

This may be a missed fate.

Analysis 2: Not very satisfied at first. But thinking that I am getting older, convince myself that it doesn't matter what I look like. It was decided to contact the next. Later, I found that I couldn't accept it. It just cooled down.

Analysis 3: People in the confused stage are still very serious at first. It was found out later. I don't know why I want to play a friend. What is the point of getting married? (This girl is the majority).

2. Many people think that fate is in the future, and marriage has not yet arrived. To the point where there is everything.

Actually, these are not thrown to you by God. It's up to you. Encounter the one you like. The right one must be cherished.

3. The standard to look for on a blind date is 10 points, and if it reaches 7 points. You hurriedly grabbed it.

Don't have to look for someone with a score of 10. For example, if you want to find a girl in 160. But you meet 1 girl who is 158. Good in every way. What else do you think about in Zhenzhou. Do you have to be 2 centimeters?

4. Blind dates are fast-paced. Laughing shirts, so slow heating can wait for death. There are always people who complain that blind dates have a strong purpose.

Analysis: The purpose of the blind date was originally to get married. Is it to come out and meet more friends?

What everyone says is that if you go on a blind date, you should know friends, and if you don't become a husband and wife. It is also possible to become an ordinary friend. So now you think about yourself.

Are you and your former blind date still friends? And how many are still in touch? Suddenly one day.

5. This must be a bit vulgar to say. But it's a fact.

Blind dates must depend on economic conditions. Otherwise, the blind date man has thought about the woman's parents. Parents can't be blamed for this. Parents also want their children to have a better life. Since it's a blind date. There is no emotional foundation. Why not look for a good one?

1.First of all, do a basic understanding. After all, the choice of starting the topic with a stranger must not be in-depth, otherwise it will only make the other party disgusted and have no desire to continue to understand.

For example, if you are just getting acquainted at the beginning, you can ask each other about their hobbies, past experiences, and plans for the future.

2.After an in-depth understanding, it is a run-in process. After all, teeth and mouths are so close to each other will fight, the same is true between people, the relationship is also split, the growth environment of both sides is different, the view of the problem is also different, together is not the state of looking at each other, but the attitude of both sides after there are contradictions and differences, after all, feelings are a lifelong thing, contradictions can better exercise the ability to deal with conflict problems.

3.Appropriate little love words. Sweet words of praise are undeniably good things that can make the other half full of joy, and appropriate little love words can bring Jingsen and can enhance the relationship between each other and stabilize the relationship.

Have a good impression of each other and try dating. You can go out to watch a movie, sing a song or go for a walk to increase your affection for each other.

4.The important thing is to have a positive attitude and be patient and attentive to this matter. Many people's blind dates are going through the motions to deal with errands, and a negative attitude will only destroy their interpersonal relationships even more, and treating each other patiently to show respect for each other can also increase the favorability of the other party.

5.Acquaintance is fate, it is better for two people to get along with each other, maybe you will find that he has the qualities you like. A person cannot be judged solely on the basis of a few facets.

Often to see whether a person is suitable for themselves, they generally need to slowly discover and observe from life in order to discover their true heart. There are a few more people who can meet once or twice and look at each other. Whether a person is suitable for himself or not still needs to be found out by two people in contact with each other.

First of all, you must understand the personality, work ability, and family situation of the blind date before you can decide to get married

First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.

If the man does not have a good relationship with his family, then the man is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.

Second: It can be observed in the details of life, if a man is scheming everywhere, he is not suitable for marrying him.

Third: you can look at his ability to work. If you are not motivated at work and keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if he marries.

A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.

Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If you excuse yourself for any mistakes, complain about others, and shirk responsibility, this kind of man can't marry.

Fifth, the way money is used.

One saving, one wasteful, for example, when you receive a utility bill every month, the party that may save will complain

Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do I keep the water on when brushing my teeth? One buys it when he likes it, and the other always buys a bargain ......The difference in the use of money and the difference in the way of buying things actually contains the difference in the whole value.

Sixth, family matters.

In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial things that need to be paid attention to: for example, a love to throw it around, a hanger and a hanger are almost the same distance between them; One loves to collect everything, and the other magazine is disposed of as garbage after reading it; Even as small as squeezing toothpaste, small things add up to big ones, and such details often become the fuse of a big noise.