How did feelings come so quickly? Feelings come and go quickly, what s going on?

You have only met twice and he has fallen in love with you, he likes you because of your good looks and good conditions first left a good impression on him, so that he has high expectations, because of your external conditions, it attracted him to want to get closer to you, and you also said that he compared you with other beautiful girls in the company, so what is he comparing? ? Your character? No way, you've only met twice, and he doesn't know your character that well.

Therefore, what he uses to compare is whose conditions are more superior, who is more worthy of him, so selfishly say, even if he really loves you, it is inseparable from material, or he likes you far more than he likes yourself, and feelings can't be mixed with too many things, just imagine, if one day you are slowly aging, your face is not there, or your conditions are no longer superior, will he still swear so much? I'm sure not, so, if you're an emotionally important woman, I advise you to think twice.

Love is one of the greatest derivative feelings of human beings, love at first sight, we can't deny him, you can't deny it because other people's feelings for you are too intense, you will deny it, but think about this boy, say it is slow and go with the flow, but his behavior, but it seems that he wants to be radical, maybe this is a way for him to show love, you should be able to try to understand, my advice, feelings or feelings, that are all inadvertently sudden, now you can't accept it, But you can try to cultivate with him, and if you get to know each other during this time, you should be able to find the answer!

Little brother's personal opinion, thank you!

Love at first sight, anyway, I don't believe it, some men look at beautiful women, they will say whatever rhetoric, and they will do what they can to ask for your opinion, but they are afraid that once they get it, they will throw it away. Ay.. Love, just like playing basketball, you will not hesitate to throw it out when you get it, this sentence is actually very reasonable, men are the same, they don't cherish it when they get it.

It's better to keep a distance from him and observe slowly. Don't take it too seriously.

It's better to be cautious, men are terrible! Rhetoric is their patent! Don't get emotional! See what the hell he can do for you! Cherish yourself!

Obviously, the boy is a child with low self-esteem and lack of love, and only this kind of person can't wait to pursue it, what use does this waste want him.

I won't believe it until I die, you calm down, and your feelings still have to be witnessed by time.

You're pretty, but everybody likes you.

He said nonsense.

Time will tell! Truth is not afraid of tests!

Take your time, and you'll know when the days go by.

If the relationship starts quickly, it means that you and she are attracted by the characteristics of the other party at a certain moment or the appearance and temperament of the other person, and hurriedly and unreservedly show their likes and loves.

As soon as the emotional love period is over, a series of problems such as contradictions and value gaps, personality gaps, and consumption concepts caused by insufficient understanding between the two parties will erupt in this period, and over time they will inevitably move towards separation.

At this time, you will say that some people just grow old from the beginning, and most of this situation is that two people run in with each other and slowly become suitable for each other, which is a compromise of themselves and feelings. And the other type is that he happened to be so lucky, and he happened to meet the most suitable one among thousands of people, everything is so perfectly matched, but how much is this luck.

We can only wander for half a lifetime, constantly searching to find a relationship that will last a lifetime.

We are all independent angular individuals, and it is because of these edges and corners that the world is so varied and interesting, we can keep our shape, or we can grind them away for the sake of those we love.

You can't be too anxious to fall in love, especially the problems in the relationship, most of them follow the principle of "slow is fast", the less anxious you are, the more you can win.

Inspect men, cold war, games, and feel that men are wrong, all slow down their pace, loose on the outside and tight on the inside, keep observing inside, calm and calm on the outside, and don't rush at the slightest wind and grass (in the vernacular: do not examine men through details, allow men to be negligent in details, and understand that it takes a while for feelings to heat up, and it is not necessary for men to behave eagerly at the beginning, and it may be ** if they are too eager and perfect at the beginning).

In the rivers and lakes, those who make rash shots have to die.

When a person has been empty for a long time, it is actually easy to fall in love at first sight, and at an ordinary time and place, he meets a person with light all over his body.

The lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi", his smile and every move exude a unique charm, you try everything to get closer, and soon establish a relationship, at this time, the emotional road begins to diverge to both ends.

At one end of the spectrum, the freshness is not there, and the hormones come and go quickly. At one end is the emotion of "indescribable", and finally it turns into the attachment between family members.

Is it too quick to determine that the relationship is not long-lasting? Can the relationship that has experienced the long-distance love run be long-lasting? None of this is absolute.

But it cannot be denied that there is a period of love in a relationship, and after the period of love, there is no "unreserved love and love after being attracted by the other party's temperament and appearance".

If you meet the right person, it's a kind of luck, and if you don't, it's also a kind of growth! Feelings are only good or bad, right or wrong!

Because they are more open-minded. Now many people want to live if they can go on, break up if they can't go on, and never wronged themselves, so the relationship comes and goes quickly.

Because the pace of life is very fast now, many people are reluctant to spend too much time on the matter of falling in love, so feelings come and go quickly.

This situation has a lot to do with the mentality of people now, many times they feel that two people are better together and will try to get along, of course, there are many times when the contradiction can not be solved well, they will choose to separate, and the relationship will definitely go very fast.

I think it's mainly because people nowadays don't care much about love, so they go together without a serious understanding, and they separate after they find that it's not suitable.

Nowadays, when young people fall in love, they feel that the other party is good, and they are all advantages, because people will instinctively show the best side to each other. After being together, the trivial things in life and the temper of the other party will lead to the reason for the two to break up.

I didn't pay sincerely, now the relationship is very hurtful, and I can't go together, I don't dare to take a relationship seriously, and I'm afraid of being hurt.

Because the modern standard of affection is beginning to change from the past, people used to consider whether the two parties were suitable before being together, but now they are together first and then then talking about whether they are suitable or not.

With the acceleration of the social rhythm, people's emotional rhythm is also increasing. This phenomenon becomes very strange, because you will find that in your circle of friends, everyone changes boyfriend and girlfriend too quickly, and it may be changed today or tomorrow. This has never happened before.

It seems that both men and women do not take their feelings as seriously as they used to.

This phenomenon tends to occur among young people today, whose definition of feelings has changed. In the past, after a long period of contact, I understood what kind of person the other party was, and then the vocabulary considered whether the other party was together, and at that time I paid more attention to whether the inner and personality of the two people were suitable. Today's young people care about these things, but they don't think about them at first sight.

Unlike in the past, young people today have identified external change as the most important element. Their identification of the conditions of love has changed to such an arrangement of "appearance-character-connotation-suitability". Because you look at the appearance first, you will start to contact directly if you meet the aesthetics, and it will naturally look unusually fast at the beginning.

First together and then followed by heavy screening, and if it is not suitable, it will be separated, because there are three standards after that, so the nine people create a feeling of starting fast and losing quickly.

In fact, some people's lives may be very ordinary, and love is not blazing, but you can always see the warmth and happiness around them from their love, their love is not vigorous, but full of the breath of life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the two usually talk and laugh, have a discussion, the wife cares about nagging, the husband is tolerant and respectful, goes out from time to time to play, adds a little gift to life, adds a little romance to life, and grows old hand in hand with the other half, this kind of love is the most precious and rare. There is crying and laughing, there are quarrels, there is friction, there is warmth, there is romance, this is the real life.

That is true. Especially today's young people function like this, the relationship is indifferent, the feelings have come and they are exposed regardless of the occasion, and the public public places have no scruples, but today and feelings may be goodbye tomorrow. This poses a great threat to the stability of the family.

Ask what it means to like someone.

Hehe.. It can only be that the other party is not your thing. Nothing lasts.

Those are just passing glances. It's possible that many of your lives will stay for you, but eventually you'll walk away. Don't worry too much about this.

In life, as long as you live happily and healthily.

Because love lasts for a short time. What's more, it's not necessarily true love.

There is no emotional foundation, and feelings come and go quickly.

In a short period of time, two people can talk about their temper, and they have the feeling of seeing each other late. I can't help it, I can't help it, and I pour out my heart with joy. Although it is wonderful, after a long time, many people's shortcomings and weaknesses that have been overlooked and even the 'dead hole' points are exposed and cannot be tolerated, so there is an emotional rift and finally parting ways.

From this point of view, 'feelings that come quickly will not last long'. The first time to pretend to be in love with men and women are rarely able to be combined, and the relationship that comes quickly is a little close.