Kneel and beg for a debate about ideals and love 25

You say, if any of you here can guarantee that the relationship will still be intact or smooth sailing or even survive in 10 or 20 years, then my thesis is wrong.

In fact, no one can say for sure about feelings, because you are unpredictable about how it will develop in the future, and you don't know what kind of trend it will develop in the future, which is beyond the reach of human beings. Maybe in the future, the girl will choose to leave the boy for something? No one can say for sure.

So, the world you can control is very limited, and you can only control your own future.

I think it's worth giving up some ethereal fairy tales for the sake of the ideals that we live in, because after all, the world we live in is so real.

1 The debate between real love and ideal love --- give some space and a wonderful confrontation with the clouds.

1. Give some space:

This is the second time I have read this post of "I am Athena", you are a girl who is conflicted for love, I want to say to you: girl, people will encounter a lot of beautiful scenery in their lives, we can't stay for him every time, there are some things, we just need to keep them in memory

That boyfriend of yours said that the family is unhappy, in fact, in my opinion, he is also a middle-aged man who is dissatisfied with life and his current situation You go and ask, how many people's lives are 100% happy, how many people's work is 100% smooth, we just learned to be tolerant and learn to be satisfied

Maybe you will say that between you is really a rare love in the world, but what is love, it is firewood, rice, oil and salt can be grinded away, time can make love disappear, who is the most loved by your boyfriend in his life, who is the person who touches his heart the most, it is definitely not you, your appearance just fills his regrets in some aspects, especially your youthful vitality, making him feel younger.

Lovely girl, the road of your life has just begun, don't affect the excitement of your life for such a man, how much he loves you, does he love you more than himself, if he really loves you more than himself, he will already let go of you, there is a kind of love called letting go.

Think about it again, even if you break through all the obstacles and really live together, does it mean that you will live a romantic life as a prince and princess from now on? No, you will live his previous life again, love is polished by firewood, rice, oil and salt, you will encounter more problems than his wife, can you tolerate that after marriage, your husband still has contact with his ex-wife and children, you can't. If you lose your temper with him about these things, he will think that you are ignorant and ignorant of the general situation, and may regret marrying you.

Having said all that, is he really going to divorce and marry you? I don't know.

Men are afraid of trouble, he may just want to keep the status quo, men don't like to change the status quo, men are greedy, he wants not to affect the family, but also wants you to be by his side, lovely girl, can your youth stand the wait?

Love is ideal, and as reality changes, ideals change with it, so in the final analysis, love will always be ideal. Ideals are based on reality, children are born without ideals, with the change of reality and the ideal is generated, the same is true of love. I wish you success!

I think it's ideal! There is no point in it!! 1

3. Argument and Argument Questions: 1May I ask the opponent's defense friend, should the ideal talent play a role in promoting economic development?

Yes: In today's vigorous development of the knowledge economy, shouldn't the ideal talents who contribute to economic development be based on intelligence? It's not:

Economic development is the mainstream of today's era, but the ideal talent in the mouth of the opponent's debater cannot promote economic development, can he use the Four Books and the Five Classics to send the Sixth Divine Soul into space? It is not to contribute to economic development, but to contribute to social development: social development should focus on economic construction!

Is it possible to achieve communism with a mouth full of benevolence, righteousness, and morality? 2.Should the ideal talent contribute to the development of society and history?

Who made a greater contribution to the development of history, Wu Zetian, who was mainly wise, and Emperor Jianwen of the Ming Dynasty, who was mainly benevolent? Zhu Di is not benevolent: But he has promoted the development of history, which shows that ideal talents should focus on wisdom!

3.What is the basis of a country's comprehensive national strength? Economy and technology.

Doesn't this require the ideal talent to be intellectual? 4.In China, collectivism is the core, while the West advocates individual interests.

Doesn't this mean that different regions have different evaluation criteria for people? In this way, if the talent in the East is not bright in the West, how can it be ideal? Free Debate Questions:

1.Ma Tan lost the street pavilion, Zhuge Liang, as an ideal talent, adapted to the wise military law of killing Ma Tan, or should he benevolently cover it up? 2.

We spend four years in college learning professional knowledge but only half a year to study meditation, doesn't this mean that the ideal talent should focus on wisdom? 3.The law is not merciful, and according to the opinion of the opponent's defense friend, the law-makers and enforcers are not ideal talents?

4.Why does China use the college entrance examination system of examining wisdom to select talents, instead of using the system of examining benevolence? 5.

With the scientist releasing the Brazilian turtle out of benevolence and almost causing an ecological disaster, is he the ideal talent in the mouth of the opponent's defense friend? 6.It is unkind to deceive others, but soldiers are not tired of deceit, according to the other party's argument friend's point of view, those who have used deception to lure the enemy in the march and battle****** they are not ideal talents?

7.At present, social development requires continuous innovation, is it easier to innovate for talents based on benevolence or for talents based on wisdom? 8.

Why is there a written test followed by an interview for graduate school examinations? Isn't it because the ideal talent should be based on wisdom?

The ideal, that is, the rational imagination, is an ideology that can only be fully embodied by man, such a higher animal.

The pursuit process and method of ideals: do things practically, be honest, and pursue ideals. Ideal is the goal of life, and it is a possible imagination of people to realize the future. An ideal is an imagination of the future, however, not all imagination is an ideal.

Ideals are different from fantasy as well as fantasy and delusion. The ideal is a correct imagination that has outstanding characteristics that are different from fantasies, utopians, and delusions.

First, ideals have objective inevitability. The objective inevitability of an ideal is that the ideal is an imaginary that correctly reflects the objective reality and the relationship between reality and the future, conforms to the law of change and development of things, and can be realized through hard work.

Second, ideals are social. Ideal is a spiritual phenomenon unique to human beings, and ideal has a distinct social character. Ideal sociality refers to the fact that the ideal is not the random imagination of an isolated individual who has left society, but the imagination that is conditioned and determined by society.

Third, ideals have a class character. In a class society, ideals have a distinct class character. In a class society, because of the different social status and economic interests of different classes, the goals pursued are also different, so the ideals they form are also different.

People's class status and class interests determine that people's ideals will inevitably bear the imprint of class in class society. The ideal of the unity of the classes does not exist.

There is a saying that love is the ideal person based on bread. (Self-made, no one should know it's self-made!) ）

To say that love is realistic is not entirely true.

Love, is abstract. This cannot be questioned.

Life is concrete, such as oil, rice, firewood, and salt.

It is not scientific to speak of abstract love as a concrete reality.

In fact, in my opinion, those things such as shushing the cold and asking for warmth should be interpreted as "life".

So what is love?

The concept that love is the ideal perception in an ideal state is very abstract. Love is giving, love is mutual understanding, love is the touch of the heart, which makes people happy.

You can't understand the above, so let's understand it simply.

When love needs bread, that's life.

After all, when two people fall in love, they don't talk about realistic things such as bread.

So, love is the ideal, life is the bread.

Everyone has a beautiful ideal, of course, I have it too! My dream is to be an excellent CCTV host. Whenever I see those famous hosts hosting the show, how envious I am!

I always feel that being a host is too prestigious. It's a great feeling to host a show on TV in front of all the people! But when I was studying in Shenzhen, I actually became the host of the school.

At that time, I really experienced what it was like to be a host, what a unique feeling! So, the seeds of my ideals were planted deep in my heart. Later, ** happened in Sichuan, and countless lives were taken away by ruthless natural disasters, which is a heart-wrenching pain!

At this critical moment, the angels in white and the armed police officers and soldiers are here, and while people are thanking and praising them, have they ever thought that the hosts and reporters on the front line of reporting are here? The essence of obscurity, helping the poor people, and contributing a meager contribution to the motherland. This is my little wish!

As a result, the ideal in my heart was strengthened. If I want to be an excellent host, I must work hard from now on, I want to learn cultural knowledge well, cultivate and exercise my eloquence; Be diligent in raising your hand in class and communicate with teachers more after class; You also need to learn more about news and current affairs, improve your writing level, and develop in an all-round way in order to be a good host. ** The dignified and generous of Dong Qing of the TV station, the humor and funny of Li Yong, the witty humor of Zhu Yi, and the excellent beauty of Wang Xiaoya.

If there are no ideals, coupled with unremitting efforts, will they succeed? Will you stand on ** TV station to host the show? If there is no ideal, then life is meaningless.

The ideal is so beautiful, it is a guiding light, it is the goal of struggle, yes. One minute on stage, ten years off stage. "A give, a gain.

For the sake of my ideals, lay a solid foundation, and work hard from now on! I'm sure I can do it!

Maybe it's a time-based proposition.

Some romances in the school days can make people tend to be ideal.

Married love will make people more realistic.

Personally, I think that love tends to be ideal, and many things are imagined to be very beautiful, doesn't it mean that there is no bitterness if there is love? As for the reality, does it mean how much money it represents? How much money is too much?

My point of view is that love is a part of reality, you defeat reality, love is one of the prizes, if you don't overcome reality, try love, then, cup.

You can relate to the current situation in society.

Buying a house is very realistic, buying a car is very realistic, and the distance is very realistic.

Ideal love will eventually become a reality.

Firewood, rice, oil, and salt How realistic.

In fact, this is directly proportional to a person's cultivation, knowledge, and ability. But no matter which layer you have, you must put your feelings first. People are greedy.

Ah, we're the same debate... I always feel like I can't find an example... Encourage you together...

Love. Reality. Ideal. Buy cakes. I'm so entangled.