Are people who want to break up as soon as they fall in love unworthy of love?

People who have been lonely for a long time, just like people who have been thirsty for a long time, are very much like they want to drink a sip of water, eager to have a dependence like a couple, a person who can appear as soon as you want to talk, and a person who can accompany you to the wasteland, so people who have never been in love or have been in love are looking forward to the appearance of a person who wants to talk about a relationship, but the imagination is different from reality after all, he may refuse your request to go shopping on the grounds of playing games, he may feel that you are annoyed and prevent you from continuing to talk, You understand that he is him, not the person you imagined, you are like a happy online shopping and opening the express box and it turns out to be a fake and shoddy product, and you miss the days when you were alone.

Now that I'm in college and in love again, I'm slowly changing some of my thoughts, and I hope that friends who have the same worries as me will also meet the right person and have been in a few relationships, and every time it's like this. At first, I felt that I was very bad, but in fact I found out that I was "love-phobic". I lost my freedom.

After falling in love, both parties can not only think about themselves, they have to consider each other in many things, and sometimes they have lost their freedom and space when they meet a very clingy or possessive object.

I'm about to doubt life, I've talked about 3 boyfriends, up to three months, but without exception, these three ex-boyfriends are all I took the initiative to approach, before I was together, I felt very comfortable and happy when I chatted with each other, but as long as I was together, I felt uncomfortable and even disgusting, the boy who talked for three months had just been in love for less than a week, and I broke up with him, at the time it seemed that I was doing very unreasonable, and I don't know if there was anyone like me, Whenever a guy you have a crush on says he wants to be with you, he feels sick.

My first love had a new girlfriend, and I was unwilling to spend the night, and even wanted to warn his thoughts, and I didn't have this idea when we met again. He broke up again, and the reason for the breakup was basically the same as mine. I felt sorry for him for three minutes.

It's too clingy, but he says he's nice to her, so that's fine, he's not that nice to me anyway. I comforted him for a long time, hoping that he would meet a better girl, and he said that he still had me in his heart before, and he didn't know what he was thinking now.

In fact, the boy who talked for three months talked about a lot of girlfriends after breaking up with me, but I can't get over this hurdle until now, he came to me a year after the breakup, saying that I went around and around so many times and found that it was still my best, and I wanted to get back together, and the clothes to go out to the movies with him that night were ready, and when he came to pick me up downstairs at my house, I suddenly blocked his **, deleted WeChat QQ, and calmed down for an hour, because I had that disgusting feeling again. We still didn't get together.

If you find someone who hasn't seen him in a relationship since they broke up, it's because they may have been deeply hurt in the relationship. He can't get out anymore, he doesn't want to try the pain of love anymore, he thinks that anyone who falls in love with him will eventually break up, or that he has not completely come out of the previous relationship, and has not forgotten his ex, so in this case, he has no heart to find the right person again.

Because these people gave their hearts for their love, but they didn't get the love they wanted, it was difficult to trust people after breaking up, and they didn't dare to give as before, so they became afraid to fall in love.

Some people don't fall in love after breaking up, this is because this relationship really hurt him, and the feelings he sincerely gave ended up in a breakup, so he was scared and didn't want to fall in love anymore, and he didn't want to hurt himself anymore.

Some people stop falling in love after a breakup, and they may feel that falling in love is not interesting and easy to get hurt, but these people obviously haven't come out, in fact, there are still people who can come out.

Maybe these people didn't have a good sense of experience in love in their previous relationships, and even felt that it was a burden, so they didn't want to let such troublesome things or negative emotions surround them, so they avoided talking about it.

That's because there are two reasons, first, falling in love hurts him, so he never wants to fall in love again.

The second is that he gave so much in the next relationship that everything he had been given to the person he was in love with last time, and after the person in love gave up on him, his heart died and he no longer thought of other people, so he never fell in love again after breaking up.

But such a person can also be repaired, when another person walks into his heart, takes care of him, gives him too much love, and makes his heart fire again, he will also fall madly in love with another person.

After someone breaks up, he really doesn't want to fall in love for a while, this is because he didn't come out of the previous relationship, and he has been hit by this kind of emotional trouble, so he has been rejected from falling in love, so it should be a long time, and he is no longer willing to fall in love. Unless there are better suitors. If you can give him in a sad relationship, he will fall in love when it falls.

It may be that you have not fully accepted the failure of your last relationship, and you think that you have fully accepted the result of falling out of love, but your heart is always unwilling, and you still think that it is your true love, so you will think that it will be difficult to meet love in the future.

Because these people were hurt a lot when they broke up, they gave sincerely and loved someone, but in the end there was no good result, so they no longer believe in feelings. Because he is afraid of being hurt again, he refuses to fall in love.

So they couldn't get out of the pain caused by the previous relationship, which caused them to suffer a very serious blow mentally and psychologically, so they stopped falling in love after they broke up.

Some people stop falling in love after breaking up, probably because he hasn't come out of the previous love and still loves each other, and the other possibility is that she was hurt by the previous love, no longer believes in love, and won't fall in love easily.

There is indeed such a person in reality, he doesn't want to fall in love anymore after falling in love, which shows that he is very serious in the process of falling in love, he thinks that the feelings he has invested have been hurt, and he sees the problem of feelings very lightly, because there is no real feeling in the world, so he doesn't want to fall in love very much, maybe he didn't meet the right one, and his hurt psychology may only be in love here, in order to arouse him to ignite his attachment to feelings.

In fact, the main reason why some people don't fall in love after a breakup is because he wants to give himself a period of time to empty himself before welcoming a new relationship.

The reason why some people stop falling in love after breaking up is because they feel that falling in love is too tiring and hurts people too much, so they dare not step into the circle of love again.

Because these people have been hurt a lot in this relationship, they don't fall in love anymore, and I can actually understand how they feel.

Some people stop falling in love after a breakup, and that's because they are hurt and have no self-confidence, so that's why they do this. It may also be that he didn't come out of the previous relationship. In any case, you should learn to look at it correctly, and understand that it is normal for failure to be connected, and it is a good interest for yourself.

Some people don't want to fall in love after a breakup because the relationship consumes too much of her emotions.

Because these people must have been hurt a lot in the process of breaking up, and at the same time, they have also been hurt a lot in the process of their relationship, so they no longer believe in feelings, and they are not willing to fall in love again.

These people no longer fall in love after breaking up, which shows that they were hurt a lot in the last relationship, and they still can't come out of the previous relationship, feeling that the relationship has taken too much time and energy, and there is no good result, and they don't want to pay sincerely.

In today's society, people tend to seek long-term and stable relationships. However, sometimes we meet that special someone, and even though we know that the relationship is destined to end, we are willing to try.

Some people may think that this behavior is irresponsible, but in fact this experience can give us a better understanding of ourselves and the other person. During this time, we can let go of all our protective shells, really show ourselves, and enjoy the joy that each other brings.

Of course, before talking about such a relationship, we need to have a clear understanding of ourselves and the other person's thoughts. If both parties agree that this is a short and beautiful experience that will not cause harm to each other's future, then it is okay to be brave and try.

However, after this relationship is over, we also need to learn how to deal with the breakup. While a breakup may bring pain and a sense of loss, it can also make us cherish the person who truly belongs to us more.

In short, before we talk about a relationship that we know we are going to break up, we need to clearly understand our own and each other's thoughts, and make adequate plans for the future. In this way, even if we end up breaking up, we can learn a lot from it and cherish the person who really belongs to us even more.

In this candid relationship, we should enjoy each other's happiness as much as possible, and not let the uncertainty of the future affect our happiness in the present. No matter what the end result is, we should be brave enough to try, because only in this way can we find the one who truly belongs to us.

Conclusion: It is not irresponsible to have a relationship that we know we are going to break up, as long as we have a clear understanding of ourselves and the other person's thoughts, and we plan well for the future. In this relationship, we should enjoy each other as much as possible and learn more from it.

This is a very real problem. My opinion on this is:

1.It depends on the mindset and needs of the moment. If you just want to fall in love easily and experience the sweetness and excitement of love at this stage, instead of seeking long-term development, then it doesn't hurt to fall in love knowing that you will break up.

But if the current mentality is to find a long-term stable partner, then it is best not to step into such a love stance.

2.Love will eventually come with pain, and being mentally prepared in advance can reduce losses. The termination of any relationship will bring more or less sadness and pain.

If you are mentally prepared for the breakup in advance, then the damage later will be lighter. Because there is no pessimistic view of eternity, there will be no sense of loss. This can be one of the reasons to choose this type of relationship.

3.You can gain valuable love experience. A relationship, no matter how long or short, can teach us a lot.

Knowing that we will break up is no exception, it can help us understand ourselves more clearly, understand the fit of getting along, master the skills of love, and accumulate valuable experience for our future love life. This is also a reason to consider.

4.At the end, you can also "act as if nothing happened". If you don't take this relationship too seriously or for a long time at the beginning, then you can also face it more calmly when you break up.

Because there are not many expectations at the beginning, there will be a lot less regret and sadness at the end. This can be considered a benefit of choosing this form of love.

However, this kind of love is not for everyone. If you're a person who is emotionally invested and long-term, choosing a relationship that you know you're going to break up won't necessarily bring much positive experience. Any form of affection needs to match the individual's personality and needs in order to have the best experience.

Therefore, whether you will choose a relationship that you know will break up, it is still up to you to weigh and judge. Look at what your real needs and pursuits are right now, and you can find the answer that works best for you. Whatever you choose, learn to learn from it and have a good time.

It's better to drink tea.

A love that is destined to break up must have been subject to all kinds of resistance, or not understood, from society or family, or from both parties' own reasons, in short, that is, you can't get married, and it won't last forever.

I care, of course I will. But it's even more regrettable that I haven't loved you in my life, or I can only love you secretly, and I haven't been able to love you vigorously, so I will cry all night after half a life, or when I'm dying. In other words, even if it doesn't last forever, it's good to have one.

Those sweetness and gentleness must be enough for me to reminisce about my life, it is with others, with people who don't pretend to love and settle so much, people who look at the conditions, completely different feelings, and they can't give them a feeling at all.

Love, you must love, bravely change the stove, love with all your might.

We are in a favorite city, I get along with you day and night, I can't wait to stick together 24 hours a day, I want to hold hands with you, hug, kiss, do all the sweet things. As long as you are there, everything is good, or even do nothing, I just want to be with you all the time. I'm afraid that these sweet possessions will disappear in the blink of an eye, they are not deep enough, they are not good enough, and they just want a more intimate relationship with their lovers.

Because I know that my dream will be shattered, because I know that there is a deadline, but I still want this dream, and I will cherish and cherish this even a moment of joy.

I know that we can't be together, so sometimes I will have this impossible dream, hoping that in some time and space, we have loved, and it will give me some strength to face this hard life.

I am also envious and jealous of those who are with you, they can have you for so long and so long, and I like you, I love you deeply, have a long talk, and cut the candles in the west window. I hope I can stay with you a little longer, a little longer, and you can give me a little more love.