What happened to me after the breakup, and what happened to her after the breakup?

Updated on healthy 2024-05-24
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If he is cold to you when there are too many classmates, then it is because he is embarrassed in his heart and feels that since he has broken up, he ignores you in front of everyone, and he can show the boy's self-esteem, not that he hates you;

    If you are alone with you, you may be conflicted.

    Since you still care about him, and he is sometimes very good to you, why not try to redeem it? Didn't you notice that you cared about him? Maybe you think that you can't be good friends as a couple, but many people are strangers when they meet after breaking up. He still has some nostalgia for you in his heart.

    Bless you! Looks like you proposed the breakup, right? He was very sad. doesn't accept you, on the one hand, because he feels that he can't get over his face, and on the other hand, he is also very conflicted in his heart.

    You said that he was very good to his ex-girlfriend, but that was just heard, don't believe it easily if you haven't seen it with your own eyes. Since you think he has downplayed his feelings, perhaps he wants to maintain this friendship with you. Don't focus on him, since he doesn't just pretend to be you, but also his ex-girlfriend, just keep a friend relationship.

    Don't think too much, since it's already in the past tense, just look far, if there are too many misunderstandings and break up, then two people are still not suitable. You have to put your mind right and look at him like an ordinary friend. Don't try to figure out what he thinks.

    Bless you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As a former lover, I think your breakup may be just an accident, now you, after separating from him, are still constantly concerned about him, indicating that you still have feelings for him and want to care about him, it can be seen from the fact that he canceled the family carnival He may not want to redeem this love, you call him ** He answers, sends him a text message and he replies, this is just out of some comfort for your years of feelings! I think it's impossible for you to go back to the way things were, but you can keep in touch and be friends, I wish you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe! It's that you're thinking too much about yourself, and maybe you've missed something. But you never let go, just like I love the person I'm with now.

    But I am just a shadow of another person. Do not deceive your heart. You still have him in your heart, don't you?

    The reason why he pays attention to you is only because he is used to answering your ** and replying to your messages. If he does something wrong, I hope you can talk about it. You really can't be separated if you can't be together, it's not that you don't need to be connected.

    Because you don't need to! After all, you all know each other! Your heart hurts, and so does he.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since I think so much about why he broke up, why did he drag his feet since he broke up.

    Because I don't know what you broke up for, it's hard to say about your current relationship and psychology.

    But I still advise you, since it's divided, let it go.

    Because he replied to your text messages and didn't reply. Well a lot of instructions. At first, he replied because he wanted to be friends after the breakup, and then he didn't come back because he didn't want to give you hope.

    Feelings are not just to let go, don't force yourself to forget him immediately, so you will be more miserable.

    You just have to go with the flow, time is the best healing medicine, all memories will be forgotten, maybe one day in the near future you suddenly think of him, you will say to yourself: what a fool, how could you like him before.

    No one can live without anyone, the most important thing is their own mentality.

    I hope you will get out of the misunderstanding you have set for yourself as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I still have a good relationship with my girlfriend after I broke up, I should joke with him more, use your generosity to infect him, and don't be too rigid in sending messages. Don't care what other people think, when you have a good relationship with him, they won't have anything to say, come on. You will succeed.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Broken threads, you should be decisive in doing things, and since you don't love it, don't contact it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It has nothing to do with whether it's cheap or not! He and you are both indecisive people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be decisive, don't be nostalgic anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you and the other party have broken up, and the other party is now single, that's why you posted that dynamic. If you still have the other person in your heart, you can contact the other person to see if the other party gives you a chance to get back together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What's going on with him after the breakup, after the breakup, he is in this situation, then you don't pay attention to him, what is the situation of her Leyu is that he himself should not have a good relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since he has broken up, his situation should be said to be that he can't let go of the previous things or doesn't regret it. Since he has broken up, his situation should be said to be that he can't let go of the previous things or doesn't regret it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is his situation after the breakup, then the best way is not to be puzzled, the best way is to ask him directly, hopefully.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because the two of you are in a long-distance relationship, a long-distance relationship is very painful, because you can't find security in life and emotionally. So two people are together, there is no emotional foundation, and they end up breaking up. In this case, the main thing is that your girlfriend is insecure.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you are in a long-distance relationship, the relationship must be relatively weak, he may also feel that it is not appropriate to be with you, and he may accept it if you mention breaking up, so he will say that he will be single for a few more years, which means that he does not want to continue.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is the case with him after the breakup, which means that he is really sad now, very sad, needs a hug, needs your goodness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello friends! Maybe she's used to relying on you, so she has to ask you about a little thing, but based on the state of your breakup, she still does this, which means that she still has you in her heart, and she still has the idea of getting back together. If you find mine useful, remember!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he is in this situation after the breakup, to be honest, his situation is beyond the imagination of our netizens.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the breakup, he may have been hit by the breakup, and he had **, which led to a temporary depression.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The other party's statement is mainly to say that in the other party's own thoughts, he thinks that he has somehow missed a relationship, so it seems that he will have to wait for a long time before he may encounter a relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    That's the girl's natural jealousy and refusal to admit defeat, even if you don't get together, you don't allow others to get close, or there is another reason that she still likes you and is jealous. But still observe the look in her eyes or the tone of her voice when she speaks.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In the end, if he encounters such a situation, it may be your personal problem, and he must take the initiative to solve it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She just expressed that she was already single and had no other meaning.

    If the problem in another place cannot be solved, there should be no way for you to continue, so it is recommended not to get entangled and look forward.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think because after he broke up with you, he also wanted to know if you broke up with him because you liked someone else, or if it was the reason you said, so he would go to see your dynamics, and also want to know how you were doing after you broke up? Maybe I still have feelings for you!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I just remembered you, so come in and take a look at you, it's nothing, don't be cranky, you've broken up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He writes that he has accepted your request to break up. So he's single now.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    She may have accepted your request to break up, and it feels like she doesn't care much about the relationship, and she has some minor troubles after the breakup.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Personally, I feel that he doesn't really care about you, and since you've broken up, let's break up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What he means is that he's broken up with you now, and he's single. Although he is single, he doesn't want to be like this, and he doesn't want to be single, because it's not suitable, and he can't be reluctantly together. What does he mean is that he is going to be single for a few more years now?

    Don't know when you'll find the next one?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It shows that your words have made him accept, such a result, he sees that you just want to give yourself an explanation, he actually said that he has to be in the mood again, the last few years is that he calmed down after a few years, and he will find a new object, which is normal, but he has made a plan for himself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your description probably I understand is that he broke up, he has not been calm in his heart, and he still thinks about you all the time. I still have you in my heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A lot of it is good for yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because you broke up with him, she can't find a suitable partner by herself at the moment, so saying that the other party is saying such a thing is also expressing her heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It should be that she has hinted to you many times: it's time to get married, but you are holding back or worrying. So, she doesn't want to wait for you any longer.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After the breakup, there is still interaction with his girlfriend, click on his space, and find that talking about it means that he doesn't want to fall in love in recent years, or it can also be understood as conveying to others that he is now single. And I don't have the idea of getting back together with you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Men always show their emotions in hindsight, and when they know that they are wrong, they have caused irreparable results. Boys experience an increase in discomfort over time after a breakup, mainly due to personality differences.

    Boys are born with a love of freedom, don't like to be tied down, fraternity. Girls, on the other hand, like to be clingy, like to follow, and have a long relationship. Boys' natural personality will make them slip high in love and feel that they are tied down, and girls will often ask boys to do things that they don't want to do, resulting in the idea of returning to singleness.

    The first time you return to being single is to let go of yourself and play hard. The man felt liberated and free, and when he returned to the dormitory, he immediately played games with his classmates, and he didn't feel too uncomfortable. Gradually, the game is over, and the man doesn't know what he should do for a while, because he used to be looking for a girlfriend at this time, but now that he has lost it, he suddenly feels a little empty.

    When the boy's enthusiasm for his own freedom has passed, he will think about the mistakes he has made, which is when he is sad and sad. On the contrary, Qi Liang's girls have adapted to being single during this transition period, because during the period when they just broke up, girls were immersed in good memories with boys every day, and they always felt that they would not break up and would go on forever, so girls felt like a dream, and a relationship broke down, so it can be said that girls gradually came out of their feelings and came out of sadness.

    Therefore, the boy's grief is all self-inflicted, because the letter has enough time to save this relationship, but the boy is addicted to the so-called game and is ready to spend the rest of his life with the game. When the girl came out of her grief and wanted to have a new life, the boy woke up and lost himself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to put.

    Abandon, bury yesterday in the bottom of your heart, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Just think about how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and how can he not know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable.

    What about holding on to what is truly your own?

    If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of it anymore.

    Wandering, or hitting the head.

    Breaking the blood and never waking up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    These 6 things should be done at this time.

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