How can I make my boyfriend want to get married? 20

You say you're pregnant, and your parents know about it.

Can you guarantee that you'll forget about your current boyfriend if you get married on a blind date? Are you sure you can give up on him? Hehe...

And can you still have the confidence you used to have? It's not that it can't, I think it's better not to think about it, of course, now college students can get married, not to mention that he is studying for a doctorate. If you don't want to get married, I guess I don't care much about you, right?

If that's the case, it's better to find someone who loves you and marry it as soon as possible. You have to know that successful men have many choices ... If you can still look like a 20-year-old at 40, I suggest you wait.

If you can't, it's better to solve it sooner.

Of course, if you can help him, that's another story.

Isn't it the same to get married early and get married late? The difference is whether they are legal couples or not. At present, it can only be regarded as cohabitation. But isn't it the same time to live together when you get married?

I haven't changed psychologically, and I always think that getting married is another kind of life. Actually, it's no different from usual. Hehe... Take it easy.

Tell him calmly about the dangers of elderly pregnant women.

There is always a difference in the direction in which men and women think about things. Men are more realistic in their considerations. And the problems that women think about always arise in worry.

If you feel that the relationship is okay, just wait for your boyfriend to graduate. Why care about that piece of paper? Awkwardness won't make trouble anymore, but don't think that finding a doctor can turn awkwardness into a twist.

Pay attention to improving your own connotation, in order to truly eliminate your own insecurity!

The marriage certificate is just a formality, as long as the two of them identify, it doesn't matter if there is one, and the man should be career-oriented, he doesn't want to get married, maybe he thinks he wants to learn more knowledge to give you a better future...

Men are generally like this, rich people marry wives in order to make women happy. And if the ability is not very good, marrying a wife makes a woman suffer.

Now it's up to you to be that kind of woman. And men generally want to rely on their own ability to support their families, rather than relying on their family members to "gnaw at the old people". So you have to understand him.

good luck~~~

Don't force. What if it's self-defeating?

Or you just find an opportunity to sit down with him and talk about your future plans.

Maybe he has his ideas, and you have to understand his thoughts, so that he can understand your thoughts by the way.

It depends on your own choice, is it important to get married, or is it important to be with him, if marriage is important, then go home and get married on a blind date If it is important to be with him, then continue to be with him After all, he is now studying for a doctorate, and it is indeed not a good time to get married.

Twisted melons are not sweet. Men who are forced out of marriage might as well not be! You don't have to think about life after marriage.

You can also understand his mood When the career is stable, it will be reassuring. But after a long time, no one knows what will happen. But if you wait for him, if something happens, you're an older woman.

So now, whether his career is successful or not, he must be trapped in marriage. Women have to learn how to do it. When you're sure he loves you, tell us what you think.

Can't wait any longer, get engaged now. You've got to get a pass at the end and it's going to work. If he still insists desperately, you really have to think about it.

Heart-to-heart and embrace all his shortcomings with your own love.

So that he can love you more".

You must love him with your heart, understand him well, treat him wholeheartedly, accept him, understand him, trust him, and respect him. Even if he doesn't love you deeply at first, you can impress him and make him love you more and can't let go of you!

To know how to attract men, treat men like dogs, at the beginning in order to tame it to use some small tricks, the dog's problems can not be filled, at the beginning you have to correct some of his bad habits, the rest depends on yourself, women must love themselves a little more.

He misses finishing his studies and wants to marry you after he has some achievements, which means that he loves you. Maybe I'm afraid that if I get married, I will ignore my family because of my studies, etc., so I just wait to finish my studies. But are you so suitable for marriage, it's not good to delay it for too long, it's really time to get married.

You caught his knot of not wanting to get married and cracked it! Say to him, if you really love you, think about you and let him listen to you. When necessary, let him often lose the heartache and cherish.

I hope you got your wish.

Why do you have to get married? He's stubborn, isn't he? Then don't force him, because he's too sensible, a little too sensible.

I think it's useless for you to force marriage, if you want to get married, it's better to give up on him! If you love him, give him freedom and give yourself freedom, don't be bound by those so-called customs. Be strong and give yourself more confidence and charm!

There will be better ones without him.

Two opinions for you, everyone is a woman, I understand that you are so insecure, the future variables are so big, there is always some need for some commitment to appease the feelings of two people, so you can discuss with him to get the marriage certificate first, and the wedding can be held in a few years, so that outsiders will not know the fact that you are married, naturally there will be no gossip, and there is a strong guarantee between you, but before that, you have to communicate with him first: contradiction is the product of love and the catalytic squeeze of love, People who love each other must have contradictions, only people who do not love deeply will always respect each other, and it is precisely because of contradictions that people who love each other will deeply understand the position of each other in their hearts. If this method doesn't work, then I advise you to re-examine your relationship, two and a half years is not short, and you have already reached the age where you can decide your own marriage, maybe it is still a little worse financially and materially, because he is still studying for a doctorate, but this can be obtained through future efforts (at this point you must let him know that you don't care much about material life), so you have to communicate with him seriously once, find the crux of his heart, is he afraid of marriage, or thinks you are not suitable, or has no confidence in himself, Or this mountain looks at the mountain high, and then prescribes the right medicine to see if it can be enlightened and reconciled, but you have to do what you can, for example, he thinks that the inappropriate aspects are some essences, which are not worth changing and are difficult to change, so you can't compromise, or he has other expectations, then such a man is not worth your continued efforts for him.

The best time for a woman is just a few years, don't stagnate if you find it inappropriate, what we want is happiness, not waiting, maybe we can't find a more suitable person in a short time after leaving, but at least we don't continue to waste time and youth.

Give him a baby right away, and then take the child to his parents.

Find the right opportunity to sit down and have a good conversation.

The reason for this is to be determined.

1. The solution to your boyfriend's unwanted marriage.

1.Ask why.

If your boyfriend doesn't want to get married, it's a good idea to ask for specific reasons. If it is because the economic conditions of the two are not very good and they are not able to live a better married life, they can wait for a while. If your boyfriend has enough financial conditions to marry you, but he has never wanted to get married, it is recommended not to wait and break up to find his own happiness.

2.Communicate well.

The couple has been in love for a long time, and there must be a relationship foundation. So about getting married, you must communicate it well. If the boyfriend is not confident in marriage, the woman can give him appropriate guidance and let him view the marriage correctly.

If your boyfriend just doesn't like marriage to bind her, then the girl had better not wait.

3.Living separately.

If the woman mentions marriage many times, the boyfriend still has no idea, and it is recommended that the two live separately for a period of time. The woman can suddenly move out and live alone without any warning. If the boyfriend is not in a hurry, it means that he has long wanted to break up, and the woman should not wait.

If your boyfriend is in a hurry, it means that he cares about you a lot, and you can wait a little longer.

Second, the boyfriend does not want to get married.

1.Refusal to visit parents.

Visiting parents is a very important thing, generally when it comes to talking about marriage, the first step is to meet the family and call the Huai type chief. Usually boys will introduce their parents to the person they are going to spend their life with, and they will also visit the parents of the Meilu woman. If your boyfriend refuses to visit his parents, he is not ready to get married, or he does not want to get married.

2.Avoid the topic of marriage.

When couples are in love, they will more or less talk about marriage. Topics such as how old you are going to get married and how to do a wedding are usually discussed together. If the woman takes the initiative to bring up these topics of marriage, but the boyfriend always avoids them intentionally or unintentionally, it is obvious that the other party does not want to get married.

3.The future is rarely discussed.

A person who wants to get married will definitely have a general plan for the future, such as buying a house in the future, how to decorate the wedding room, etc. Two people discuss future plans together, indicating that his future has you, indicating that he is willing to get married. If your boyfriend never mentions the future, he doesn't want to marry you.

If the girl is already older, it is better to have a stable relationship and then enter the palace of marriage. If the man doesn't want to get married, it is recommended to stop the loss in time and not waste his good years.