If I have a conflict with my classmates, what should I do if I have a conflict with my classmates?

Updated on educate 2024-05-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Calm your mindset. Don't pay attention to him so much. He's arrogant, that's his business, it's none of your business at all, so you just don't have to pay attention to him.

    Even if he talks to you, what he says and what his tone is is his own problem. It's none of your business, you just have to be yourself. Everyone will have their own principles.

    I'm sure you have too. So you just have to stick to your own principles. Whatever he does!

    And the reason why you get angry so easily is entirely because of your own impetuousness. I can't calm down. So compared to the previous you, you have lost your normal mind.

    It is recommended that you calm down when dealing with things, treat them calmly, and think clearly about how to deal with them. Needless to say, you'll find a solution. But remember to be sincere in your dealings with people.

    If not, you might be just as hated as the one you hate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    One person will be changed by another.

    If you're a girl, the more you talk about him, the more you say you still have a little bit of it for him.

    Think about it, whoever doesn't do anything wrong is born to do things perfectly.

    After all, it's a classmate, so if you think about it, there's no need to be a sad person, and you don't see anyone who looks up and looks down every day.

    Let go of your heart and want to open up, I think it will be better, right?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard to explain.

    To put it simply, I don't like you at all! You're crazy! I don't want to talk to you (I usually just watch him sneer).I don't have time to take care of your business. Don't bird you!

    Or you can go crazy and take him down. You are crazy, Lao Tzu is even crazier than you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you're a man, go out with him and fight alone.

    If you're a woman, still go out with him and fight alone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. When there is a conflict with your classmates, you must know how to exercise restraint.

    For example, when two parties quarrel over some trivial matter, one of them must know how to refrain from it; When one party stops arguing, the other party naturally finds it boring and stops arguing. This contradiction is also dissolved.

    2. If there is a conflict between classmates, don't hit someone if you don't agree.

    Today's children have a tendency to be violent; Whether it is a boy or a girl, they will beat people if they don't agree with each other; Students must keep a clear head, and do not hit people when there is a conflict; Hitting others hurts others as well as yourself. Serious calamity to others.

    3. If there is a conflict between classmates, both parties should remain calm.

    When there is a conflict between classmates, everyone must stay calm, what can't be solved? As long as everyone sits down, communicates calmly, and seeks solutions to the contradictions.

    4. Seek help from other classmates or teachers.

    If there is a conflict between classmates and the parties cannot resolve it by themselves, they can ask other classmates or teachers to help solve it; Some students just love face, thinking that admitting mistakes in front of others is faceless, so the teacher and other students are a step, so that the students who have conflicts do not lose face to eliminate the contradictions.

    5. When there is a conflict between classmates, you can stand in the other party's position in your heart and think about whether there is something wrong with you; If the other person does the same as you, will you be like the other person? Learn to think from the other side's point of view, and the conflict will naturally be resolved.

    6. As long as you are friendly and friendly to your classmates; Nothing is in a hurry or in a hurry; No quarrel or quarrel; Have a tolerant, generous heart; In this way, there are few conflicts with classmates. If it is really inevitable to have conflicts with classmates, be rational; Deal with contradictions sensibly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be tolerant, calm, don't make radical behaviors to each other, everyone is classmates meet every day, if you make yourself angry because you see each other, in fact, you are torturing yourself, so sorry for yourself, big things can also be solved, small quarrels, can not be avoided, just let it be.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, think calmly about whether you have made a mistake first.

    If you find that you were wrong first, take the initiative to apologize.

    If you find out that it is his fault, you should think about it from his standpoint.

    If the contradiction between you is not big, you should take the initiative to make peace with him, and if the contradiction is big and it is his fault, you can communicate with him in the form of letters, believing that you will reconcile with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it depends on who's at fault.

    If he makes a mistake and still doesn't admit it.

    Then this classmate has nothing to do with him and is worth continuing to get along, so you can ignore him.

    If it's your fault.

    You can put down your face and make amends.

    That's the real generosity.

    If you apologize and ignore him, it's not your fault.

    It can only show that he has a small belly.

    There's nothing to regret about the stiffness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After a conflict with a classmate, who is the first thing you need to look at?

    If it's you who is at fault, you should choose some small gifts, such as some chocolates or some small candies to apologize to your friends and classmates. After all, sometimes if it is said that you are at fault in the first place, then apologizing is a very correct thing to do.

    If it's your classmates who are wrong, then you can also take a step back and talk to your classmates about what is causing the conflict between the two of you. After all, the Chinese are the more generous and tolerant kind.

    But if there is nothing wrong with either of them, then the two of them can still sit down and have a good talk, and then imagine what will happen to the two of them. After all, if this contradiction is not solved earlier, it is very likely that it will slowly drag on for a long time, or it is said that the two people will slowly leave their hearts because of this little thing.

    But if this classmate is unwilling to reconcile with you, you can completely ignore this classmate, sometimes if the measure is small, it is useless for you to talk to this person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you have a conflict with your classmates, you must calm down, think about what the reason is, and you can reasonably avoid it next time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think we should take the initiative to solve it, talk to him, the premise is that both parties are very calm, solve the problem and contradiction, classmates, they are all friends, it's okay to talk about it, let it pass in the past, since you can become a classmate, that's fate, everyone looks down and doesn't look up to see, don't care, cherish this friendship, see you after graduation, classmates are still very close, hehe.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Take the initiative to apologize to them, even if you don't blame you, it's okay, don't be afraid of losing face, in fact, it's not a shame at all, if you really want to reconcile with her, then go If you're embarrassed, you can write something and give it to her, or find a place where no one is to talk to him alone, but if it's not the first time he's hurt you like this, then don't apologize, such a friend is not worth making.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, it is normal to have conflicts when you are a student. The three years I spent with my classmates were the most unforgettable. You'll know when you're older.

    It's funny to remember when you have a conflict, but after all, it may be hard to understand that you haven't gone through this part yet. In this case, you'd better find out what you're doing wrong in ** first, and everyone just take a step back, there's nothing you can't get by, right? If you raise your realm and take a step back, I think things must have changed, and then everyone will smile when they mention this matter in the future.

    I wish you all the best of luck!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Think about who's wrong, and then think about whether you're doing something wrong, because somebody is always right

    And then he maintained the hard-won friendship eight.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Chat and reconcile, if you can't do it, treat yourself, don't you accompany it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dear students, our human society lives in groups, so we must have contact with people and live in people-to-people interactions. In interacting with people, it is impossible for all people to be like your parents, pampering and accommodating you, and there will always be friction and collision, especially in a group composed of only children, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts between classmates.

    Therefore, you must not be wronged by the slightest unhappiness between your classmates, and do not close yourself off because of choking. Conflicts between classmates are often caused by some trivial things in study and life, sometimes just a sentence, a look, a small bump, a small contact, and many times it is caused by misunderstanding. This person's high-quality performance will not be underestimated, but admirable.

    If you are at fault, you must dare to admit it, apologize and obtain the other party's understanding. Doing so is not "losing face", but earning back face. You can be generous and say sincerely:

    I've thought about it, it's all my fault, I sincerely apologize to you, if you can accept my apology, I will be grateful to you, I think we will become good friends. If the other party is at fault, there is no need to wait for the other party to apologize, you should be generous. If there is a conflict between classmates, first of all, calm down, think about the causes and consequences of the contradiction, and see if there is any misunderstanding here, you can find other classmates to understand, or directly talk to this classmate calmly, maybe the knots of the two people will be unraveled, and then you will find out what a happy thing it is to resolve the contradiction!

    If there is no misunderstanding in this, it will be difficult to resolve it all at once, which requires our generosity and humility. You know, a person's generosity and humility are to study and live together happily and happily. You can find him privately and talk to him:

    A classmate is fate. Classmate relationship is the purest interpersonal relationship in society now, we will go to society in the future, everyone will encounter difficulties, maybe we will become friends who help each other, at that time we are recalling this little awkwardness is not ridiculous? "I think he will agree with you and shake hands with you.

    I believe that if you are sincere, the other party will also recognize your mistakes, but they are all in the way of face, and no one is willing to be the first to apologize. At this time, who wants to be a little more generous, will the other party admire you very much? It is a very happy thing for classmates to get along with each other, as long as we find more reasons from ourselves, we will complain less; And when we give, our hearts are never out of balance.

    We will live happily ever after!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Answer: Pro, hello, I am a senior of the psychological counselor article, I have received your question here, the clearer the description of the problem, the more accurate and detailed my answer will be, I understand your mood very well, please don't worry, I am preparing an answer for you, answer within five minutes, I am not a robot, please be patient [give you caution].

    For this question of yours, after analysis, my advice to you is: first of all, if you are classmates and there is a conflict, in this case, you are classmates, you should learn to communicate in a rational way, to explain clearly, to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings, of course, if the contradiction between you is more serious, the other party does not accept your communication, you can let the teacher intervene to solve the contradiction between you, and you must not let the contradiction continue to accumulate. Or use some radical ways to resolve conflicts, which will affect your relationship and your life in school.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal to have conflicts with your classmates, first of all, you can both calm down and think about your mistakes, after all, a slap can't be slapped. Secondly, you can find a suitable time to talk to your classmates, go to dinner or do other things together. If you're too embarrassed to speak, you can write him a small note.

    That's how I did it when I had a conflict with my classmates.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Talk openly and honestly, they are all classmates, and it's okay.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's all classmates.

    In the event of a conflict, it will be fine to apologize to each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When there is a conflict, we must know how to exercise restraint. When two parties quarrel over trivial matters, one of them must know how to refrain from quarreling, and when one party stops quarreling, the other party will also stop quarrelling;

    2. When there is a conflict, stay calm. Keep a clear head, don't do anything when there is a conflict, and hurt both parties;

    3. Seek help from classmates or teachers. When there is a conflict between classmates and the parties cannot resolve it, they can seek help from their classmates or teachers. Teachers and classmates are the steps, so that the parties involved in the conflict can smoothly resolve the conflict;

    4. When there is a conflict, think about the problem from the other side's standpoint. Learning to think from the other party's point of view is conducive to the natural resolution of contradictions;

    5. Usually be friendly and friendly to classmates, not anxious, not quarrelsome, and maintain a tolerant and generous heart, which is conducive to avoiding conflicts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Reflect on yourself first, see that the problem is in the **, if you analyze that you have no problems, you can no longer ignore the classmate.

    If you have a problem on your own or on both sides, you can find a time to communicate and solve it.

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