Middle aged man for relationship problems Help me

He won't accept you for two reasons. One is that he doesn't want to bother you, or he doesn't want others to blame him. You're too young and too variable.

He can't afford to lose! However, if you two continue like this, something will happen sooner or later! You're a young girl, he's a single man.

Ay! He will inevitably be vulnerable and confused! If you really want to think about it, just stick to it!

From a man's point of view, the age gap between you is so big, he has no power and power, so you have no sense of security for him, life and love are completely different things, and the identity of a wife is not full of love can be achieved, and whether you can take on the responsibility of a wife may be the thing he is most worried about. In fact, having is sometimes a misconception of love.

He's a good man. People are afraid of delaying you. That's why I rejected you.

But if you really don't think age is an issue between you. You can continue to be nice to him, and eventually one day he will be touched by you. It's just that there are many problems that must be faced in reality, and he is more mature than you, so naturally he has considered all of them.

You first figure out why you love him, think about whether you can really bear all this, you want to be a stepmother, maybe you will be ridiculed, your husband will be much older than you, there will be a generation gap in thought, and even the body will gradually deteriorate, he will quarrel with you because of his children and even have a gap, think clearly before making a decision.

Falling in love with an older man shows that your notions have taken a step forward. I love a traditional good man, but I have pulled back the steps I have taken. Are you outdated?

No, you're contradicting yourself! What he needs to change is perception, what he needs to change is to stare at a piece of cake. We should look to the future and believe that "the end of the world is full of green grass".

Maybe you prefer mature men, but the age gap between you is so big, you should think carefully. When the two live together, there will be more problems, and maybe you haven't thought about it for the time being.

You're going to lose this game.

Divorce does not copy represents the failure of the responsibility of fatherhood. The child is 15 years old, and in a few years he will go to college and leave home, he will be to you.

The need for a DAO may be getting smaller and smaller. Is it just for the sake of the children to live with his wife who has been separated for more than ten years? Even if you return to your family, can you bring happiness to your wife?

Can you still love her? A discordant family atmosphere has a great impact on a child's body and mind. And it's a different kind of harm to your wife.

It is better to live with the woman you love, but to fulfill the duties and responsibilities of a father.

Everyone has their own home, since there is already a harmonious family, why don't you know what to cherish, waiting for the day you lose.

Belong, you will regret it for a lifetime, anything in this world can change, only family affection will not change, maybe your wife really wants to give you a chance, why not take advantage of it? The peach blossoms outside the world will eventually wither, and the only thing that will always be by your side is your wife and your love crystallization (children).

Although what she says now sounds so good, will she guarantee it for the rest of her life? You also have times when you are old, you can't be so young forever, all she values is your talent and money, if she is a good woman, will she be with a married man? Don't be stupid, say what you love you, that's fake.

Your wife is the person you can rely on for the rest of your life, and when you are sick, only she will be by your side, silently guarding you, and accompanying you for a lifetime.

You don't know how to cherish such a good wife, you are so hateful, I don't even know what words to use to describe you, you are still here and don't know what to do, what do you let your children think of you? Are you worthy to be a father? Answer: No.

Maybe it's too late to turn back, after all, your wife wants to give you a chance, take advantage of it, if you choose to leave, then you will not be happy for the rest of your life, and you will have to pay the price for what you did.

First of all, you can know.

You yourself are wrong, the source proves that you have not completely fallen, depending on your own choice, do you choose children or choose your so-called love, think about it from another angle, if you have nothing now, will there still be such a "gentle and kind" woman around you? So even if you don't have anything, will your wife and daughter leave you? If you analyze the relationship clearly, you won't be so sad.

In modern society, it is not strange for a successful man to have three wives and four concubines, but he must pay attention to principles in everything, don't provoke fire, don't hurt the family, and stick to his own principles. I replied that I deserved it.

Say a few words and understand it yourself:

1. The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant.

2. Willing to give, there is to be gained.

3. Giving up is also a kind of love.

4. People only have one heart, and they can't love two people at the same time.

5. Pain and happiness.

Complex problems are simplified.

Remember, people who love each other don't have to live together.

Conversely, living together doesn't have to be very loving.

You are old and young, don't let them down.

As a man, blame others first.

Go home! Wishing you happiness.

You are all like that.

Bai is older, so I can have my own thoughts. I am much younger than you, I'm afraid I don't have the qualifications to say what you can do. I'm a kid and I want you to come back to your family.

As a man, you should do this even more. Think of it as a dream.

Anyway, if you choose to stay with your lover, I think you'll regret it when you're old.

Oh my God, another story that can be written.

I don't know the focus of your feelings, I can't help you make a judgment, and if you make a choice, it's very cruel, but I hope you respect the people who respect you, it's best to be able to delay 1 and 2, otherwise it's too painful.

Men like you do.

Bai is not decisive, although from your age Du I want to call you Uncle Zhi. But I found out that you don't in terms of feelings.

Hui is a strong man. If you agree that you don't have a relationship with your ex-wife, I think it's better not to reconcile! After all, you now have a woman who loves you by your side, and you work and live together in harmony and tacit understanding.

Your ex-wife has been divorced from you for more than 10 years, and I don't think the relationship is very deep. I think now you pay more to the woman next to you than your ex-wife. It shows that you love the women around you a little more, but you still have to go back often to see your son.

Satisfy his material needs. Bless you.

You bastard!!Your words may be genuinely sincere and heartfelt, but your actions, your indecision, hurt all those who love you!!Your mom, wife, children, lovers.

Don't you think you're too selfish? You have lived for decades, do you know what responsibility is!It's too irresponsible to become a family but let go of your feelings.

Now that it's getting to the point where whichever you choose, you're going to hurt the other. If that's the case, you can choose to compensate with the economy. Don't go any further, you're going to go crazy!@

You have to be like a man to understand the divorce and bring the mother of the child to the side of this woman you love so much!

You can understand it, but you're not wrong if du

If your wife is all right, you don't.

That's where the DAO happens.

Return, this kind of answer appears.

Things she has a lot of responsibility in it. Who meant to live like this, I also have the pain of you, it's difficult to make any decisions, the problem is that you can't let go of the two of them by your side, there is no good result, you can only take one step at a time.

You have love for both, but your wife is this du

There are still old people and children on the side, and there is just zhi over there, giving up Mei Dao is both for you and her.

It's very painful and difficult, but you have to choose one of them, you don't want to dream that you can have both, pain is also a punishment for both of you, you are a family person, she also knows that you have a family, you did it knowingly, shouldn't you be punished? Go home! Don't make any excuses for your mistakes at the beginning, try to do everything you can for your wife, children and the elderly for a long time to come, your wife can forgive you, I think she also made decisions for the elderly and children, she is great.

Can you put a little more effort into it? Rotten man. People like you don't deserve happiness. No one to help you.

When the judgment is constantly chaotic, we all understand the truth, and it is inherently difficult for people to make this choice. Since there are responsibilities on both sides, choose for love.

You have to hurt one of them, and if you drag it on, the more it hurts, think about it yourself, and I suggest you and your wife get together again.

The road is all on its own! When you are old, your children will not be by your side, and they will even hate you for the rest of their lives, and they will not be by your side until you die! You know, what is family affection!

Since the palace, write your own "Historical Records".

Do you know where your first home was?

Do you only think about the 4 years by your side, have you ever thought about waiting for your wife for more than ten years?

Is your so-called comfortable life based on the pain of your wife and children?

If you're still awake, think about which side can bear the pain of losing you more.

You've always only cared about your own emotions, and only standing on your own position has led to today's situation, and it's time to think about others.

I'm sorry, I'm just telling the truth, life sometimes has to face choices.

But I strongly disapprove of your actions, and my suggestion is: Go back to your wife and children.

Does he have a wife, if you have a wife, I advise you to stay away from her, he won't pay anything for you, even if you do, it can abandon his wife for you, and it may get rid of you for a younger and more beautiful woman, so no matter what sweet words he says, don't believe him.

Pretend not to see, he can't do anything for you.

Nowadays, girls love old men, and they are anxious and slow.

The most important thing is to be down-to-earth, your words make me feel that you are very impetuous, because you have only been working for a year, and you are not a rich second generation, everything must come step by step, enter the society, the influence of the environment, may make you very impetuous, career must come step by step, it is impossible to climb to the sky step by step, as for the relationship, I think it is the reason for the separation from your girlfriend, you are in Beijing, she is in Tianjin, so ah, it is difficult to maintain a long-distance relationship, and you have to communicate more, In this way, you can deal with the feelings between you, as for the family, you must have filial piety, and usually call the family more

It's a low mood period.

At this age, I realize the gap between my ideal and reality, and I want to make a difference, but I can't start to release my emotions first, just do what I want to do on weekends or small vacations, and don't care about anything else and then think about what I want and whether I have a goal.

Only a life with a pursuit and a purpose is right.

Once you've decided on your goals, consider what is beneficial to your goals, what is harmless, and what is counterproductive.

In fact, in my opinion, so young, there is no pressure at home, it is the time to give yourself time to go on according to your own wishes, if you have an idea, you have to realize it, as long as you don't regret it later, don't go to your seventies or eighties, think about a lot of things in your life because you don't do it and regret it.

Scores are trivial, this kind of problem is very long-term, that is, not confident, if not adjusted will become depression, ** by external pressure, I know your heart very well, because I also have the same heart, after continuous failure and setbacks in life, first of all, it shows that after all, the number of words here is limited, and can not prescribe the right medicine, if the above is true, my understanding of you is that you should also be a person in the personality, very concerned about many things, should be honest, not decisive enough, etc. Guess, don't take it seriously. What you need is to succeed in one thing to strengthen your confidence....If you're interested in chatting, you don't need to adopt, you can listen to other people's opinions.

Family: Go back if you miss home, blood is thicker than water, and no achievement does not mean that your family does not love you.

Career: Only work, this is the stage of accumulating experience and combining theory with practice, just starting.

Feelings: It's hard to say (belief: I'd rather demolish a temple than a marriage).

1. Family, career, feelings. Here's your sort now.

2. Don't expect too much from yourself at the moment, just make a little progress every day compared to yesterday. Because, you are still young, and there is still too much time and opportunities.

3. Go back when you feel homesick and clean up your mood. Start over.

4. Love makes people mature, and everything goes naturally.

After that, it's already very good that the mind can be so mature.

It's because of this that this happened, so stir up some complaints and self-blame in your heart, it's okay, it should be better after this time. Try to enlighten yourself and give yourself some psychological hints that you can.