How to get rid of sudden feelings trouble

Like you, I miss him when I'm lonely, but to no avail, I try to do something else. Oh yes.

Think about it, you have to study well to be with him, and you will naturally work hard.

Love in high school is beautiful, love in college life is realistic, if you are still a small high school student, it is understandable, but if you are already a mature college student, you should be very clear about the feeling thing, why do you want to go to school outside, this society is too cruel, if you always think about this thing, simply don't learn anything.

Feelings often plague people's lives, and you have to regulate them yourself. It's best to establish a relationship right away so that you can rest assured that he won't be snatched away by someone else. It's like a small couple who get a marriage certificate and have a solid mentality!

Let him encourage you more, give him a ** to make yourself feel that he is by your side!

That's love. Beauty can't help it. That way you feel is a sign that you're still relatively normal.

Then don't think about him, study seriously! The opportunity to learn is rare, and if you miss it, you miss it!

When the judgment is constantly suffering, it is chaotic! Don't mess around! If the two love for a long time, how can they be in the court!

Thinking that I can be with him after graduation will have a lot of motivation!

1.Keep in regular contact (it may be that you don't have to work hard for him, but he can't stand the loneliness and sells you).

2.Reach a consensus and work together.

Distance produces beauty. If your feelings are genuine, then why care about the distance.

Tell him, wait for you. Wait until you finish your studies.

If he really likes you, I believe he will support you.

Perhaps, it's just a time to test your feelings.

1. Let's be friends, right?

If you are hesitating whether to continue to be friends of the Circle of Friends, Xiaoju suggests that you can give more time to consider this object for yourself. Lifelong friends will not live together in the future, and they don't even need a unified life goal, but lifelong lovers need to have all kinds of trivial things to live together in the future, and they must also struggle together to have the same life goals, life attitudes, and even the three views must be similar, so if it is a sudden heartbeat, you might as well investigate him carefully!

2. What if you are separated together?

Friends who have doubts about this issue actually have a strong desire to be together. But I'm still afraid of what to do if I lose this one friend, after all, there is nothing unforgivable between friends, but lovers are far from being so generous. If the two parties are friends, we will think that it is normal for him to have his own life and other friends, but if the two parties are lovers, they will think why should they leave themselves to find friends?

Don't care what I think?

So in fact, the way to deal with it is to give a probationary period to examine the other party, but the difference with the first is that the first is that the willingness to be together is not strong enough, and the examination is the macro attitude and concept problems, while the second is that the willingness to be together is stronger, we have to examine some micro details between each other, such as if the other party is together, can it be distinguished from the state of friends? Whether you care enough about the other party's thoughts, whether you are careful enough or not, and so on.

Be careful not to do anything too intimate during the inspection period, otherwise you may not be able to become friends again.

Emotional confusion is a common emotional experience, but it can last for a long time and severely affect our lives. Here are some ways to help ease emotional confusion:

1.Deep breathing and meditation - help calm down the keys and make it easier for you to focus and reflect on the problem.

2.Identify your emotions – If you're feeling emotional or confused, try to figure out what's causing those feelings, which can help you understand yourself better.

3.Communicate with others - Talk to a friend, family member or a mental health professional. This helps you get support and comfort and find solutions to your problems.

4.Making Decisions - When you're feeling confused and powerless, sometimes the best way to fix it is to make a decision and take action.

5.Perform daily tasks and maintain a healthy lifestyle - Maintain a healthy diet, get good sleep, get plenty of exercise, and be socially active.

6.Seek professional help - If emotional confusion affects your life or lasts for weeks or months, seek professional help, such as a counselor or psychologist.

Let me decipher the emotional confusion for you! Most people who are emotionally confused will feel that the problem is the other person's. Almost no one said that they had a problem, never reflected on what they did wrong, and only blamed all the faults on the other person.

When they speak, most of them affirm their own efforts, and firmly explain that they have given so much and gained very little. It seems that in the world of marriage, the other party is lying down and enjoying every day. And I didn't think that there were problems on both sides, and the root of the problem was there, and I didn't think about it, and I didn't communicate well, so that the contradictions became bigger and bigger, the consequences were serious, and both sides were confused, so what if you got rid of the emotional confusion?

Personally, I think that, first, calm down, think carefully and carefully, whether this emotion brings happiness to both parties, whether the two sides are together, is it very pleasant, the two sides have no common language and common outlook on life, values, if the three views can be agreed, then this relationship is no problem, as long as you communicate well, the problem will be solved quickly.

Second, if both parties are uncomfortable in this relationship, there is no topic to talk about, and they can't even eat together, then the result is very simple, you are very inappropriate together, and it is a wise choice to separate, and third, if the above two methods cannot be solved, it means that you are deeply involved and cannot get rid of the emotional whirlpool, so you will find some experienced people, chat with them more, and slowly express the confusion in your heart, invisibly, has released a lot of emotional pressure, which is a way to get rid of stress by talking, and you can also play with friends, sing, and dance to release the stress in your heart, or work hard and forget about being trapped in love.

Perhaps, you don't belong to each other at all, it's better to let go and let each other have the opportunity to find happiness that truly belongs to you, and the past is regarded as a good memory

Many people say, find someone to start over, in fact, I personally do not agree with this, if you have no feelings for him, don't do it because of impulse or want to heal yourself, because you don't really like others, and being with others is unfair to him, is this another kind of harm? In the end, you will only be physically and mentally exhausted again

Maybe you still like her?..

It's not so easy to forget someone in your heart, and it's impossible to forget it completely, at most it's just to reduce the number of times you think of someone, that's all, so when you think of someone, you can miss it to the fullest, and tell yourself that you can remember it happily now, and you don't feel sad anymore. In addition, you can also find something you like to do, make yourself happy, and let your mind go free.

I think it's all about mentality

Feelings don't have to be a burden to life

Wouldn't it be better to be a wonderful self, enjoy the beauty of your feelings, and let them become the driving force for your work?!

You shouldn't spend too much time thinking about emotions at this age

Forget everything you should have forgotten.