He proposed to break up, I want to redeem it, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's me, and I'm going to give up on you.

    It's already 30, even if it's a man, you have to think about the happiness of the rest of your life!

    You're only 22 years old, and your heart is still undecided, and it can change at any time. At that time, he will be too old to find a satisfactory partner!

    If you really love him and really decide that he will be your support in the future, then you should work hard to keep him.

    Get engaged, go back to meet your parents, and you can continue your studies!

    But you just feel like him, and you don't think about the future, so I suggest you let him go.

    It is said that women can't afford to wait, but in fact, men can't afford to wait!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe your history proves that you are very casual about love, or what, your consciousness, is love a bargain, maybe, many times, two people live their lives, and they need the right space, not so sticky, and not without affection.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, to your question, give the following answer:

    If you follow him on the grounds of dropping out, you won't believe it. Besides, you can get married now, and now you can get married at university. Tears are a woman's natural **, strengthen the firepower. Younger sister!

    Please refer to it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The heart is absent, no matter how much you want to redeem it, it's useless, I wish you to find a better one.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Break up, break up, there's nothing remarkable, the more you keep the more you can't keep his people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    yes, it's over 30 and it's not very good if it goes down.

    Give him a guarantee, let him have a top in his heart, you will definitely marry him, and he should wait for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If that's the case, then it's only divided.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Alas, if you love him, keep him, look at your own heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He loves you very much, it doesn't mean that you love him very much, and a 22-year-old girl really has a lot of variables, and it's normal for him to have such thoughts, and the age difference between the two of you is a bit big at your age.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to distinguish whether there is a real or fake breakup between you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After a breakup, learn to communicate better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    See a psychologist.

    I can only think of a point.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's no need to ask the other person to gamble on an uncertain future on their own time, which they can't afford to gamble.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I understand him well because the large age gap between you doesn't make him insecure. Yes, boys can also be insecure. You're young, and you've got a lot of youth to squander, but he doesn't.

    Maybe when you enter the society, you will be confused by this materialistic society, and he, maybe at that time, he no longer has any advantages, and age is his biggest weakness. For him, two people together is a lifelong thing. Your breakup is not because there is no love, but because of reality.

    If you want to win him back, please give him enough security to let him know that you are worth his life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As the song says: If you are willing to peel back my heart layer by layer, you will find that you will cry and you will be depressed, because my heart is all about you. After clearly apologizing to her and stating that it will be corrected.

    What you need to do is to show her your love, express your desire to recover your relationship, and at the same time prove with your actions that you want to restore the relationship between you. You have to be prepared to fight a long battle. Because a woman's heart is not so easy to pry into her pants.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When your boyfriend proposes to break up, you may feel heartache and helplessness. But what you need to know is that this is not the end of the world. Don't panic, and don't give up.

    At this time, you need to calm down and think well. The first step is to talk to your boyfriend about why he broke up. Don't accuse, don't think alone, have a real conversation with him, be honest with him and know what he really thinks.

    After understanding the reason for your boyfriend's disagreement, you need to negotiate and communicate to find the best solution to the problem. Listen to your boyfriend and show him your support and understanding. If the problem is because you did something wrong, then you need to admit your mistake and commit to correcting it.

    At the same time, in communication, you also want to show your love and commitment to him to prove that you really care about him and are willing to work hard to salvage your relationship.

    Finally, you need to give your boyfriend time and space, and at the same time, you need to be firm in your determination. This can be a long process that requires a lot of patience and perseverance. Stay positive and optimistic during this process and ask your friends and family for their opinions and support.

    Remember, your boyfriend's breakup is not a sign of your failure. You need to believe in yourself, in your feelings, and in the effort you have made, and be willing to put in the effort to save your relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A cliff breakup is a sudden and violent way to end a relationship, which usually brings a lot of emotional shock and distress to both parties. Putting this breakup into perspective requires consideration from the following aspects:

    1.Respect the other person's decision. No matter how the other party chooses to end the relationship, we need to respect their decision. While this approach may be painful and disappointing, we need to understand that the other person may have their own considerations and reasons.

    2.Don't blame yourself or the other person. A cliff breakup is usually a decision between the two parties, not a one-sided responsibility. Therefore, we should not blame ourselves or the other person excessively, and we should not try to salvage a relationship that has already ended.

    3.Accept your feelings. Breaking up is a loss that can make people feel lonely, sad, angry, and other complex emotions. We need to accept our feelings and find appropriate ways to deal with them, such as chatting with friends, doing sports, writing a journal, etc.

    4.Learn from breakups. A cliff breakup may bring us some pain and lessons, but it can also be an opportunity to reflect on our actions and thoughts, as well as find a more suitable relationship for us.

    In conclusion, looking at a cliff breakup correctly requires staying calm and rational, respecting the other person's decision, accepting your feelings, and learning and growing from them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Take the initiative to contact to show your sincerity and hope to have another chance to get along.

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