Am I really scared

You're scared of the painful and terrible feeling of being knocked out on the head. So you're afraid of it again after you start. You try to dodge so that you don't get hit in the head again.

The more scared you are. The more you make yourself weaker. So even your defeated men know about you.

The more scared you are, the less strong you will become. It's only going to get weaker and weaker. So the coach also thinks you can't do it.

You better cheer up. Don't be afraid. Try not to let others see through your weaknesses.

Attack in other ways. Protect your head smartly. Hopefully you'll be able to get back stronger.

For your own sake. For the people you like. You have to be strong.

Get back what you've lost! Don't be afraid. Face it forever!

You will make it!

That's because the injuries you've suffered make you subconsciously more afraid of being hit in the head.

There is a saying that once you are bitten by a snake, you are afraid of the well rope for ten years.

The more careful you are to protect your head, the easier it is for the other person to see your weaknesses, just as you hold your wallet tightly on the bus, the easier it is for a thief to spot your target.

Advice for you:

1) The best defense is offense.

2) The measure to protect your head is to give the other person no time to attack your head.

3) In fact, it hurts to fight anywhere, to re-establish self-confidence, you need to choose a weaker player than you to duel, win a few games and your self-confidence will come back, but this self-confidence is still very fragile, only when you are no longer afraid of others hitting your head, you will go further at this time.

You can empathize, if you are afraid of hitting the head, people are not afraid of hitting the head? So when you are playing against your opponent, you are equal from this point of view, let go of your mind and ambition, and fight to your level. You say that your favorite person also avoids you, how do you say that?

Does she see this as your failure? Or is it something else? Is that her vanity at work, or does she think you are a weakling, and can she only see your glory but not share the pain for you?

Then you don't have to take it personally. Actually, you have to let go, you can do it.

You're not afraid, the weakness is not your head, but your own thoughts, if you strengthen your training, others may change your minds, not weak, but strong again, this is just a psychological problem, only by yourself to solve, the person next to you can only tell you how to do.

This is a psychological problem, you have to overcome it yourself, you know that you are afraid of others hitting your head, you can also use this trick to attack other people's heads, do you say that he will be as afraid as you!! You can give it a try.