Why do my roommates who have a better relationship never call me when they have activities?

I think there are generally three reasons for this situation, the first is that there must be a problem from your own point of view, what you think is good, but others don't necessarily think it is good. The second type of roommate activity may not be suitable for you, so the roommate does not call you out to avoid embarrassment. Third, we don't always want to participate in other people's lives, create our own circle of friends, don't always want to participate in other people's lives, and having a good relationship does not necessarily mean that we have to share our private lives completely.

In the first case, I think you have to consider whether you and your roommate are really in a relationship with each other, or is it an empty shelf, just a superficial framework formed by spending a lot of time in one space? At this time, there is really no need to think about this problem at all, because, what you think is good is actually not good, the relationship between people is magical, some people feel like they meet each other, and some people really don't like it when they meet, these are normal, so there is no need to entangle, and your circle of friends does not have to rely on him to expand.

In the second case, everyone has a different circle of friends, and it is true, and some are really not suitable to join, and it seems out of place, and it is easy to embarrass yourself, I think if this is the case, it is really lucky that your roommate does not call you.

In the third case, you want to change your opinion from your heart, and the circle of friends is not something that can be added casually, which involves a question of whether it is suitable or not, and whether it is compatible or not, there are so many ideas, it is better to work hard to do a good job in your circle of friends.

Don't envy others, you are also the scenery! There's nothing to worry about, just be yourself.

That can only mean that the relationship between the two of you is not good enough, but it is only good on the surface, but you don't know what he thinks in his heart, maybe he just treats you as an ordinary friend or just a roommate.

My own definition of a roommate is someone who lives together, even if you don't live in the same dormitory, sharing a house outside is considered a roommate, so how good can you be to him when you are alone and just live together.

Sometimes roommates are also scheming, and what you think is a good relationship may conflict with what he thinks, so it is inevitable that there will be misunderstandings or doubts, which are very normal, don't worry about anything.

If you really want to see those activities, you just tell your roommate that you can bring you with you next time there is an event, you don't need to be afraid of whether your roommate doesn't want to see you or isolate you or something, it's better to talk about something, if it's really something that can't be solved, you just go with the flow, anyway, there is always a solution to things.

I think another very important reason may be that you are the kind of person who is more independent, maybe your roommate thinks that it doesn't matter if you go to that kind of activity or not, so I don't call you to go together, it's okay to eat and chat with your roommate, so that you can enhance the relationship, as long as you and your roommate can get to the level of nothing to talk about, your roommate will definitely participate in various activities with you.

Some problems with your roommate you have to start from two aspects, one is your roommate's point of view, and the other is whether you yourself are a little inadequate, the most important thing is not to hold back, especially this kind of thing that will affect the relationship, my principle is to be willing to be embarrassed and not let yourself be wronged! Why can't you get along with yourself, if you can play well, if you can't do well, then it's good to live alone!

Even if the relationship is very good, it is not necessary to take you with you at every event. Maybe he has an independent personality, or maybe he is in a different circle of life that is not suitable for you. As long as you get along happily, there's no need to think too much.

Hahaha, you said it, the relationship is better, the better is not particularly good, and it is not the best, and the better is not so good that there is an activity that must call you, ponder!

College roommates are a precious time in your life. We spent various occasions with them, such as the Hero Club, Exam Week, Spring Festival Gala, and graduation ceremony, sharing the bits and pieces of life, growing together, learning together, laughing together, and establishing a deep friendship. However, as college life came to an end, so did our connection with our roommates.

However, keeping in touch with roommates has an important meaning in our lives:

1.Continuation of friendships: In college, we shared life with our roommates, exchanged ideas, and built a deep relationship with each other.

Especially in the dormitory where we live together, we will inevitably encounter various difficulties, but with the company of our roommates, there is always a way to overcome these difficulties. Therefore, after graduation and separation, keeping in touch with roommates can continue this friendship, continue to share each other's joys and sorrows, and make us feel familiar and warm.

2.The convenience of social networking: With the development of social networks, we can use a wealth of social tools to contact roommates at any time.

On the one hand, it can be said that this kind of contact no longer needs to take into account the time difference and distance, because as long as there is an internet connection, it is easy to contact roommates. On the other hand, this form of connection can feel rusty, because face-to-face communication and interaction can truly experience heart-to-heart communication.

3.Sharing life experiences: Staying connected with your roommates is an opportunity to get closer to each other and share each other's growth and life experiences.

After graduation, roommates may take different paths, some continue to graduate school, some start working, and some go abroad for further study, and everyone will encounter different challenges. If you keep in touch with your roommates, you can learn more from each other's experiences, support each other, and grow together.

4.Maintain relationships: Keeping in touch with roommates is much more than just building friendships and sharing experiences, Teno is also a need to maintain a social network.

Some of us may become colleagues in the workplace or partners in the industry, and this is where the connection with roommates becomes more important in a sense. By keeping in touch with our roommates, it is possible to build a mutually supportive and mutually beneficial social network that may play a major role in our future.

Staying connected with our roommates helps us reach higher levels of life by building closer networks, sharing experiences, exchanging ideas and feelings at all stages of life. Although we chose different paths after graduation, the fond memories and deep friendships will always be with us. So, let's cherish this relationship, continue to keep in touch, and welcome the brilliant chapter of the future together.

There are a lot of such situations, for example, we were in a dormitory in Fuqingyou when we started school, Lao Tzu has people with different personalities in different cities, and there are a lot of disagreements about the three views, it is normal to have this, which is to let you adapt to some social interaction in advance.

There's nothing wrong with this, as long as you have your own ideas, you want to find someone who is related to you, and you will be happier if you are different, those who are different from yourself, you can go over with a big face, there is no need to care too much, don't let yourself be very tired.

I used to be very annoyed like you, and sometimes I always wanted to blend in together, but then I realized that this is impossible, different people, it is impossible to have a common hobby.

Therefore, no matter how much you integrate into their world, there is no shortage of Huai into it, you still have to have your own bottom line and standards to do your best, because only by loving yourself can you get the respect of others.

I think women generally think a lot, and they may think crankily about a little thing. Maybe because of a word or an act from others, you start to think a lot. But you said your roommate was going to the lecture, but they didn't call you, and I don't think it's isolated.

Maybe you're thinking too much about it. Don't think things so badly.

But I feel like maybe you're isolated too. Maybe you usually do things and talk or something, and the people in your dormitory don't like your way very much, and then slowly you are isolated. And then in the end, they may end up not calling you out when a few people go out to play.

So I think there's a certain reason for being isolated. Otherwise, why didn't you call so many people?

But I think sometimes you don't think too much, sometimes things may not be as bad as you think, but you think a lot, maybe you will find a way to solve it, but sometimes it will get worse and worse. Eventually, it will mess up the relationship more and more, so I think you just go with the flow.

Another reason is that you don't usually go when they all go out together, so after a long time, they go out to do something, and they get used to not asking you to go? So sometimes you have to reflect on your own problems from yourself.

No, generally speaking, there are several reasons why you are not called.

1. You don't have the right time, I can't call you to go with me, and I don't want you to think about it, so I just don't talk to you.

Second, you have indicated that you don't like someone or do something, and there are people and things you don't like in the things they go out to do together, so they don't call you, so don't think too much about children.

First of all, it must have something to do with you.,Either you're too good.,Or a rich second generation.,Or a lowb.,But there's a very beautiful female ticket.,Everyone doesn't like it.,Angry and jealous.。。 Secondly, it also has a lot to do with personal personality, you are not sociable, or you just don't like to talk to people... Anyway, first of all, you have fun by yourself, you can play with others, and secondly, you must really have a few good friends, and when you are depressed, you can talk, and the wine is over.

In the end, you don't have to force yourself, character determines fate, you can change it, it doesn't matter if you can't change it, anyway, you're such a person, just be kind to others, don't be paranoid... After all, it's really good to be good yourself, good luck.

School is also a small society, and you still have to have a good relationship with your roommates and classmates, but you must also stick to your original clothes, and the relationship between roommates is closer, behave normally, don't think about the bad in everything, no isolation, no isolation!

Is it important for roommates to isolate you?

A roommate is just someone who has been sleeping with you in the same house for a few years in a randomly selected situation; After graduation, they will go their separate ways, and they may not be able to meet again in the future.

Why do you care so much about what others do to you? Do your own thing, just be worthy of your heart!

Very good analysis, roughly two conclusions:

You're not isolated, it's just ignored this time, they just happened to be going and you just weren't, or everyone just happened to be gladly ignoring you, so to speak, it's a very common accident.

This conclusion is interesting, you are isolated, isolated by people with ulterior motives. Just imagine, there is only one person who really wants to separate you from the group, and not everyone consciously wants to stay away from you. Everyone else is just passively following other people's arrangements.

It's like a flock, it's good to have only one leader, and the rest are fools who will only passively follow.

Well, having said all that, what I just want to express is to strive to be a thinking person, although people are a group animal, it is not necessarily good to follow the group, and don't be obsessed with some small details, be a strong person in your heart.

This situation is generally, but you also have to think on the bright side, maybe your roommates didn't deliberately call you, they should have forgotten to call you, but don't passively want to call others every time, you can also take the initiative to go with them.

When I graduated, I went my separate ways Why do I think so much The wonderful process of life is struggling in society School is just a fragmented memory.

It depends on your usual style.

Conducting an accountant will be almost a painstaking thought, history...

What's the matter with being isolated, it's okay to care what he does; If you have something, take the initiative to go together, and wonder if it is useless to be isolated.

Don't be so cranky, a person has done a lot of good things to you and you can't remember, and if you do something sorry for you, you will remember it for a lifetime. Isn't it all like that? What should I do, what do I want to do.

It's still possible that we hate our new roommate so much that the bad habits and ways of doing things are unbearable, and we don't care about communicating with him, so that we don't want to pay attention to him, and he goes to the dormitory to talk to himself. But even so, when we go out to eat together, we usually call someone we all know but he doesn't know, and don't let him think about it, which is more appropriate.

Whether or not you are isolated, you should have counted yourself. If you really feel isolated, don't feel good about yourself as they say, talk openly with others, see what the problem is, go to the cafeteria together, and participate in activities together.

In addition, if it is a women's dormitory, this situation is more difficult, but if it is a men's dormitory, it is super simple.