What is it like to marry someone who doesn t love you that much?

I don't know. I've been with my love of life for many years. May it be good, including you and me.

First of all, if he doesn't love you, then if two people are together, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions, so it's still quite difficult to get along.

Each choice for love is different, the choice of marriage is also different, some people say that they must choose the person they love to marry, proving that this life is not in vain, some say that choose a person who loves themselves to marry, and they can also enjoy the love that the other party gives themselves after marriage.

So what is the feeling of getting married to a person who doesn't love you so much, I think if he doesn't love you so much, he may not have much interest in your life, that is, life is the kind that belongs to the ordinary life, sometimes he may not tolerate you so much, because, he doesn't love you so much, sometimes you will quarrel After a quarrel, he feels that sometimes it is your fault, and then he will not take the initiative to admit his mistake.

If you marry someone who loves you, no matter whose fault it is, he will say that it is his fault, if you marry someone who doesn't love you so much, if you have a quarrel or some conflicts, he is likely to be humble to you, and then he doesn't care so much about some of your moods or attitudes.

I think marrying someone who doesn't love you so much, maybe he will, slowly love you, all say time, you can run in two people, but the two of you may not love each other so much, but after a long time you will get used to a feeling, that is, you want to say that you don't love very much, but then you may slowly fall in love with each other, these are all possible, because marriage and love are different. Marriage is more of a responsibility and some things of family, who said that love is in marriage?

In fact, it is not that important, no matter how good the love is, it will become a family relationship in marriage, so if you are with someone who does not love you so much, but loves him very much, it doesn't feel particularly bad when you get married. If you can also make him love you, I think it's also a very fulfilling thing.

It's not a happy thing for someone who doesn't love me that much to get married.

Because in my subconscious, you have to love each other very much to be together. If they don't love each other, then they must be unhappy.

Many people come back from work as a family of three to have dinner together, talking, laughing, and having fun. And when he came home from work, he was holding his mobile phone Ge You was paralyzed, you said to help me cook, it was ready, and he was just staring at the mobile phone while eating. The world in the mobile phone is his world, and this home in reality is becoming more and more ethereal in his eyes.

I think it's probably because he doesn't love enough, otherwise, he wouldn't be just staring at his phone. He must have thought that the phone was more exciting than me! It's really sad to think about it, I can't even compare to the meaning of a mobile phone.

Other people's weekends are all going out with their children for a trip. He only wanted to play games, and then he would run to call his father, and eventually he would come back to me crying. If you don't have the patience to accompany your children, how can you love me?

Other people's children are taken by their parents to the amusement park and have a lot of fun, but my children rarely go to those places, and occasionally go to one or two places, and they will end up unhappy because of his patience. He didn't put all his mind on the family, for him, being able to go home on time every day was already the greatest gift to him, and it was a very difficult thing to divide his time between me and my children, and he probably felt that it was a waste of time and energy!

Other husbands and wives go back to their parents' house to see their parents together, but every time I go home alone, the neighbors think we quarrel, and they think we quarrel every time. When I went back to my parents' house alone carrying heavy things, my neighbors would look at me with sympathetic eyes, and my heart was very sad and helpless. I thought I was married to love, but I didn't expect to lose to time.

Although I didn't quarrel with him every time I went back to my parents' house, I still couldn't help but shed tears whenever my parents asked. The accumulated grievances made me more and more unhappy. Did I really get into a fake marriage?

I felt like I was married to someone who didn't love me that much. I thought love was the whole world, but now I realize that I have created a fake world for myself. He didn't love me as much as he imagined, and I was only married to a real marriage after all, and I was wronged in this real marriage.

It feels bad, both irritable and indebted, and a little unwilling, in emotional debt, and spending life with a person you don't like, it's better to be single, at least there is a chance to find someone who shares your heart.

You're going to get tired and watch what the other person is doing wrong. I don't feel happy.

may be pampered everywhere, and if you never like another person, the other party will become more and more tired over time.

At least it can be good to you, but if you don't like it, it's embarrassing, this person has to be good to you to open your heart.

This feeling is actually quite uncomfortable, you don't like him, even if he likes you, it's useless, your heart is still very uncomfortable.

It's a bad experience to marry someone I don't love, and I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because all people know that love is definitely based on two people liking each other, and if there is no love, then there is no way for you to go on. In fact, in life, everyone will have a lot of contradictions when they get along, but because you love him and you care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between the two of you, you don't want to settle with him at all, and no matter what happens, you will feel very annoyed. So how can you spend the rest of your life with him in such a situation? A person's life is very long, he has decades of time, if you have to face a person you don't love for decades, then what do you think is the meaning of such a marriage, such a life?

Personally, I don't think that even if we don't get married, we can't just choose someone we don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with the people in the family.

I wouldn't have made such a choice anyway, and I felt that if I couldn't find someone I loved, then I'd rather be single. Because I think this kind of day may make me live a little more comfortable, so that I don't have to face a person I don't feel every day, then I will really feel very broken, and there is no way to stay with him at all.

And after getting married, you still have to have children, if you don't love him, how can you willingly give birth to a child for him? If you think about it, if a child grows up in a loveless family, and his father and mother do not love each other, do you think such a child can grow up physically and mentally healthy? I don't think so, so we can't do anything like that for the sake of our children or for ourselves.

You can not love, you can not get married, but you must not be able to compromise, and you must be responsible for yourself.

What is it like to marry someone you love, but who doesn't love you?

It's very painful to marry someone who doesn't love you, because love is the same as marriage, which person who pays the most is often the most tired, the most hardworking and respectful, and the most uncomfortable Jue Kaishen, there is no happiness at all, after all, he loves him, but he doesn't love himself, so this experience is an unspeakable pain and torture, even if it is a positive and optimistic person, after hard work, still can't get the love of the other party, then such a marriage is really an unhappy one.