To leave or not to leave??? Please give us some advice!

Let's go! There are several types of men that you can't want: men who hit women; The man who never returned all night.

And listening to you, he still looks down on your mother's family, but his family doesn't seem to be very good, and the house is yours, such a man is still self-righteous!

Marriage is not a matter of face, it is a matter that determines your life, and divorce is not a shame, there are so many divorces now! It's nothing, you have to think about your own happiness in the future, if he continues to do this, even if he gives birth to a child in the future, the child will be miserable!

And importantly, I feel like he doesn't love you, maybe he came back just because of his pride.

Men are like this, my former boyfriend, he was going to break up with me, I kept him at first, but he still said that he could only be friends, okay I accept! After a few days, I didn't bother about it, and he came to me again and said that he loved me deeply, and men are like that! I can't see you!

According to your conditions, you can find a good man, don't wait until middle age, a good man is not easy to find, what you decide, don't because he promised you something later or admit his mistakes, I think this man is unreliable, so, if it's me, I don't want to love me anymore, marriage is not just love, but also life.

Alas, after seeing your business, a sigh.

If I were you, I would choose to leave.

But you said you still love him, and I think it's because you've been attached to him for three and a half years.

I want you to leave the reason is.

One: He beats you This kind of man is so hateful It's just rubbish I'd rather be beaten than beat the woman I love.

Two: Not only did he betray you before, but he also had an extramarital affair after getting married, even if you reconcile, he will definitely fall ill again in the future, and he is unfaithful to you.

Three: The car and the house are all yours This man has nothing Isn't this a manifestation of eating soft rice What is the use of this kind of man If the divorce can not share his property I support your divorce.

Four: The most critical point is that I think this man doesn't love you, he splits his legs, he beats you, he eats soft rice, he can't tolerate your family, it's really hateful, you are still reluctant to let go when you meet this kind of man.

I know that the more I persuade you, the more rebellious you become, the more you don't want to be separated from him, but I want to tell you that you don't marry for others to see, and that the key to happiness is your own feelings, not your face.

And it's also important that if you're pregnant, and you have a baby, and then your child sees his dad beating his mom, what he's going to think, how he's going to grow, and if his dad finds another woman, he's not going to cry.

For the sake of the healthy growth of the children, resolutely divorce.

Finally, bless you, I hope you can find a man who is good to you, since you are financially independent, I believe this is not a problem, and there is that if you offer a little more bounty points, more people will be able to see your story and help you.

With so many questions, I'm most angry when I see your questions, it's just like the plot of **.

If it's true, this guy is so bad that I want to beat him.

Sympathy for you! But I suggest that you communicate with your parents, after all, one person marries and divorces a matter of two families. You should also think carefully about yourself, think more about your future, and be neat!

A moment of hesitation will hurt you for a lifetime! Be strong at the critical moment! Be resolute!

Men can correct any mistake, but if you hit a woman, then don't hesitate! There is a first time, and it will definitely be endless!

It seems like you're talking about his fault, heh, but if it's like what you say, let's leave.

This kind of man is the scum of men, and it is good to divorce. It's always yourself who doesn't get hurt.

What else is this kind of man hesitating about?

Divorce!!!

The so-called "I would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage" makes sense, but the premise is that both parties must have feelings.

According to your statement, your relationship has already broken down, and the three children are a very big test for your divorce, and if you choose to divorce, your behavior will undoubtedly be selfish for the three children.

If the relationship is broken, it can be repaired, and if the family is destroyed, it will be difficult to reunite.

Women really need to be self-reliant, so that they can have the initiative, they can rely on their relatives or friends, and develop their own careers without delaying taking care of their children.

Careers are all made by hard work, not waiting.

It is not advisable to choose divorce, it is recommended to choose your own career and raise your children.

If you do leave, be sure to take the child with you. A selfish man like him. It will ruin the child's life.

You should have your career, circle of friends, don't let a man feel that you can't live without him, divorce, live a wonderful and charming woman, and make him regret it,

I really don't understand, why do you have so many children if you don't have feelings, it's easy for you adults to divorce, but you have to think about your 3 children, it's the children who suffer when you get divorced. Think about it, after all, life is lived by yourself, and others can't help anything.

I feel that marrying a man is marrying a life. There are some personality things that are difficult to correct, but I think it is scary, tiring, and insecure to marry an unmotivated man.

I don't think you want to get divorced, at least not now. Because.

1. You still call him "husband". Especially in such a state of mind, it is called the same way, which shows your usual feelings.

2. Don't let him drink, mainly because he is worried about accidents, this is care, or just want children, this is the crystallization of love.

You see, you have discussed not drinking in the past few months, and he agreed, but he still persisted for so long, and the month before he was ready to have a child, he was drunk and improved, do you expect him to change it tomorrow when he says it today, there is a process.

3. It is normal for men to drink with caution in my opinion, mainly to control it. You can try to ask him not to get drunk, but to keep it under control.

4. Look at the mainstream to see people, everyone has shortcomings!

In the family's opinion, it is difficult for a clean official to decide the housework case. You have to grasp it yourself! Final advice: everything in the world is a cloud, only loved ones and love socks are real!

I wish you sweet love and a beautiful and healthy filial piety baby!