Give some advice, please give some suggestions

Hello this classmate! First of all, I wish you a happy high school study and life! You are not in good health and the school is far away from home, your mother plans to rent a house next to the school to accompany you in order to allow you to study wholeheartedly, this is your happiness, you have a responsible mother who loves you.

High school learning will not be the same as junior high school, and learning will be very intense, and many students will find it difficult to adapt to this intense learning rhythm in their first year of high school. With your mother by your side, at least you can be taken care of in your life, and you can concentrate on your studies. At the same time, it also plays a very important role in your healthy growth.

Thank you mom! I am also proud that you have such a mother, and turn this pride into self-confidence in learning, and I believe that you will definitely achieve your ideal academic results!

Nothing different. The key is that your "heart" cannot change.

I hope you understand what I'm saying.

Then live on campus, live on campus is the same, and then rent a house is a waste of money. There's no need, so my advice is to stay on campus and don't spend that money.

Your mother is also thinking about you High school is more tiring and intense to study Living at home can at least ensure nutrition and health The key is to depend on your own You are not used to it You just need an adaptation period Even if you used to live in school But the situation in junior high school and high school is definitely different You have to take a while to adapt whether you live in a dormitory or a day school.

I'm sorry, IMHO, she's not for you.

First of all, her personality doesn't quite match yours. What you need is a girl you can take care of and appreciate each other. But a girl like your current girlfriend is very tiring to chase now, she is thoughtful and ambitious, so if you want to chase such a girl, you must become stronger and more able to get the girl's reliance and favor.

Secondly, according to what you said, I don't think she cares much about your feelings, feelings need to be integrated and complementary, but she didn't say that she put you in a very important position, she can't understand you, you can't understand her, you lack communication in the heart, lack of mutual understanding and tolerance, this kind of getting along is not good for both of you, right? You may feel more and more tired. That's why you quarrel, don't you?

Finally, what I want to say is that you don't want to break up with her at the moment, maybe you care about your past relationship, since she chose to go abroad, and in recent years, I think you don't have much contact after all, there are great variables, and it is very likely that many years later, she will come back with another boy, so I think it will only make you more uncomfortable. Since she wants to go out, then you let go, unless she takes the initiative to tell you to wait for her, otherwise let go happily.

Maybe I'm too desperate and I'm not a master, but I know that it's very difficult to let go of such things as feelings, and sometimes it hurts, but "time will heal everything", this sentence is still good on this occasion. I still hope you can judge well.

Because I don't know your condition, I only know the image of your girlfriend in your eyes, so if there is something wrong, please forgive me.

If you feel bad, just let it go, and he won't listen to you.

Unless she decides to give up, you won't have a result, and the long pain is better than the short pain.