Junior high school students are out of step with their classmates because of their thoughts. What to

1. Change their perception of you, let them adapt to you and accept you. This should be harder unless you have a super charismatic personality, but obviously not, because you're bothered by it.

2. Change your perception of them, you adapt to them, and conform to them. You shouldn't want to do that, because you think you're more mature and rational than they are, and they're all naïve.

Obviously, you don't want or can do both. So, the real question is how you perceive things and how you interact with people.

That is to say, you are not as mature and rational as you think, and they are not as naïve and shallow as you think, and the reason why you have many things that you "can't see" is that you actually want to enter their circle or let them pay attention to you, but you feel that you can't let go, so you take the way of "can't see" and "bring it up" to get their attention. This is the real motivation for you to "not see".

I won't dissect you, I'll give you some suitable advice :

1. It is not the event itself that affects your emotions, but your attitudes, opinions, and perceptions towards the event.

2. If you want to be respected, you have to respect others; If you want to be recognized, you have to recognize others.

3. Never think too highly of yourself, especially when you think you are in a high place.

4. The Buddha is a living being, and all living beings are perfect; The devil looks at all kinds of things, and all kinds of things are evil. What about you?

There is no right or wrong in this matter. Actually, I've felt the same way as you. What you see is not necessarily what they really think in their minds. Try to fit into their lives, and maybe you'll find that they're not that bad.

Let the three categories 1: people who change their environment.

2: People who adapt to the environment.

3: People who don't adapt to the environment.

Ending: You can't learn to adapt to where you are now, and the same is true if you move somewhere else.

The best way to do this right now is to keep a low profile and switch to an active hobby.

It's easy to change from simple to complex, but it's impossible to change back again

Try to understand others from different perspectives, only if you respect other people's ideas, others will respect you.

Don't force others to do what you say, just be yourself.

What does it matter, if others can also affect your mood, then you are a weakling, since the relationship is not very good, it is not much fun to travel together, in fact, it is good to have friends, no friends, the most important thing is to get used to it, people will always be lonely.

Maybe it's because you're more introverted, you don't interact with other people, the relationship is average, and others will definitely not call you when they travel, because you must have a good relationship when you travel, otherwise you will be uncomfortable. You can also try to invite two or three of your friends to go on a trip, maybe just because of your personality, they mistakenly think that you don't like to go out, so they don't call you.

Maybe it's because you're a little introverted, your classmates don't call you, and they call them the same, ask if they can be together! It's not very natural to get up, learn to empathize so that you don't think wildly!

Some people like to make a wide range of friends, and some people like to make friends this point. Although only two or three classmates have a good relationship. It could be that they didn't go on a tour, and if they did, they would call you.

You don't have to be very sad because of this, you have to think about facing you, about to start, a new life.

Two or three good friends are enough.

But you still have to socialize with other people.

At the very least, politeness and etiquette are still indispensable.

Otherwise, you will be isolated.

"How lonely it is to be invincible"

Want to be invincible, loneliness will be with you.

In that case, why not try to listen to others? You can only get to know each other if you are close to each other, don't you? The more you distance yourself, the more lonely you feel, and remember that there is no absolute separation between people's hearts, only each other's ignorance.

Hee-hee, even though I'm about to be in my third year of high school, Japanese anime is still my favorite.

Why bother what others think? Why don't they study hard when they are patriotic, but they pursue something unrealistic? I don't think my hobbies are the same as my friends, but I still get along well with them.

I don't think friends are chosen based on hobbies, but mutual respect.

Wrong. This statement is not true.

There's a reason for being out of place, and as for why you have to ask yourself. Thinking differently is not necessarily your fault, it may be a so-called collective mistake. I remember when I was in school, there was a math problem, and the whole class had the opposite answer, and in the end, I insisted on my opinion, and I was right, and I was really proud at the time, but there was a reason for this collective mistake.

1: It is true that everyone has a misunderstanding 2: It is one person who drives the development of everyone's thoughts.

So you have to think about whether you're right or not. If you remain skeptical, then keep your ideas, increase their ideas, and get experiments, in the end is not to change and overthrow yourself, unique ideas have pros and cons, don't think that follow the group, now society follows a lot of habits, cautious and cautious.

First of all, you have to clarify the ratio of incompatibility between yourself and the people around you, for example: how many of the 100 people are incompatible with you, and decide whether you need to change according to the proportion, second, you have to understand what kind of nature you are going to integrate into the collective, drug abuse, robbery, murder and other bad nature of distorted human nature, then do you think it is necessary to adapt to them? If you just want to participate in them and change your life norms are not necessary, in addition to my personal opinion, there is still a certain circle, the bigger the circle, it is very helpful for yourself to go out of school in the course of life, China is a society that pays attention to connections, the bigger the circle, the more opportunities you have, it is recommended that you decide to join them, do an assessment, who should enter your "inner circle", who should stay in the "periphery", and then adjust it according to the facts when establishing this system.

The above is also a little contemptible opinion, you can use it as a reference, if it helps, then I have done my part!!

People are social people, people are group animals, of course, they are advanced animals, you have to learn to change, the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, and you must learn to tolerate other people's concepts while insisting on your own point of view, since you can ask this question, it means that you must know how to integrate into the collective, good luck!

After listening to the lecture on happy life, you will know how to do it.

The way you feel is that you have grown up, you are trying to know yourself and have your own unique perspective on the things and people around you. A lot of people feel this way during their school days, and it's not just you. Don't worry too much about this problem, people are subjective animals, everyone's growth process, environment, and personality are different, and everyone will have different thoughts from others.

Otherwise, isn't everyone the same? Aren't you not yourself? As long as you think your thoughts are right, you can stick to them (of course, it may be wrong, but what you think is right at this stage).

But we must learn to tolerate other people's thoughts and characters, seek common ground while reserving differences, and be harmonious with differences. Try to do it, you may not end up like this, you will be happy, your happiness will bring happiness to others, and the atmosphere of happiness is not a collective.

If you don't change it, if you don't do it, it's better to change it.

You are already an adult, you have your own independent thoughts, your parents have repeatedly imposed on you with their own will, you must feel very tired, you can have a thorough communication with your parents, say what you feel in your own heart, they can understand the best, it is not strange if you can't understand, there is a thing called the generation gap in this world will always exist.

Feeling conceited is a state of mind that often occurs in a person. Many people overestimate themselves in various environments, believing that they are excellent in their studies and that their work is outstanding. This is often an overestimation of oneself, and neither the teacher nor the boss thinks so.

In this case, you must first put yourself in the right position and don't blindly overestimate or underestimate yourself.

Let go of your Qinggao, let go of your sense of superiority, and use your sincere heart to integrate into our group.

This is easy to do, and I usually go to bed early at night. Nourish your spirits. No more dreams in broad daylight! You can also call three or two friends, and you can wake yourself up with urine when you are dreaming!

I let you fly, fly high and fly high, and then tell you that your parachute forgot to give you ......

Brother dei,Are you out funny?。。。

hhh Look at the resumes of successful people, that is excellent, and the rest are ordinary people.

Generally speaking, people who feel this way and ask like this will not be very good, but you yourself are short-sighted and complacent about your little achievements, but you don't know that really good people will not feel out of place with others, on the contrary, they will know how to get along with themselves and others.

First: Have faith in yourself. Second:

Many people will be shy, just overcome it, be bold in the face of one thing, don't be afraid, everyone is equal in this world, don't be afraid of others laughing at you. 。Third:

Be subjective and don't always look at other people's faces, especially at school.

The reason why we exalt our spirit and belief is that in addition to our animal characteristics, more importantly, we are the spirits of all things!

Go with the flow, the problems that every newcomer to the job will have. If you can't talk about it, you won't talk about it. If you can't get used to it, don't look at it. Just like when you first entered college, you didn't know your new classmates and the people in the dormitory, and you slowly got used to it.

If you are afraid of boredom, you can chat with you, just be the ugly side of human nature, if they ask you what you think, you will say that they are still being studied, don't say that they are the research objects, so as not to be beaten.

There is no solution, and it is far more difficult for individuals to change society than to be changed by society.

Either learn Tao Yuanming, which is somewhat difficult in today's society.

Or find some***, it's okay to build one yourself, it's okay to find people with similar concepts to keep it as it is, but it's just that you will be more and more alienated by the people around you, and there are many people who live in your own world.

Do your own thing and talk less.

Don't do it, come to the construction site, the salary is high.