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The shooter is more attentive, but you need a blood type to find out the personality
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Everyone has their own characteristics, and Churchill was also a man who was tired of associating with others and was a bit autistic, but that didn't prevent him from being a great man.
Personality and personal temperament are partly innate, and there is no need to force them. I think you may still care a little bit about what others think of you, and then translate it into your own evaluation of yourself, which is actually very undeserved.
Every character has its benefits. For example, I am most annoyed to deal with financial "old ladies", they are all cold, strict and cautious, but this kind of character, she is suitable for finance.
See the world with an open mind. Read more histories and biographies, so that you will be open-minded, and your natural treatment of people will also change.
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How do you look at this thing You don't think you're easygoing, but from another point of view, people with such a personality dare to love and hate, and have personality.
If you want to really change, you have to pay something. Be mindful of others and see how people you think are easy-going handle relationships. At the same time, learn to smile more and look down on everything. It's good to take it slowly.
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All kinds of personalities have pros and cons, if you insist on changing your personality, it is easy to become a danger of becoming a toddler in Handan, but as you said above, those may be shortcomings that must be changed, now that you know, there is a direction to correct.
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Don't rush to take your time, participate in more social practice activities, and take the initiative to communicate with others. Secondly, you must have a big heart!
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Is it just that you want to keep a distance from other people's relationships, so it's not a bad thing, if you're too close to you, you won't be able to distinguish between you and me, and you'll be very entangled, and feel the same way.
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Learn to be tolerant of others.
Just think more about the good of others.
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It is said that Mr. Lejia on Do Not Disturb is the originator of personality analysis, and he can ask for advice on his Weibo.
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If you want me to say, you only have to fall in love with someone, and she (he) will make you what you should be. Otherwise, don't you change, because you've been like this for many years, haven't you all come over!
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In fact, don't think of yourself so badly, no one is good. You have to try to integrate with your friends, communicate with them more, and you will find that everyone has strengths, and everyone deserves to be appreciated.
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First of all, stick to your own heart and learn to be tolerant of others.
Just think more about the good of others. Take the initiative to socialize with people.
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You have to adapt to this environment appropriately, listen more to the light**, go out for a walk with friends and slowly adjust yourself
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First of all, I want to remind you that you are not withdrawn! When you are sad or happy, you don't have the desire to talk or share with others, this is loneliness! Since you still have your classmates and colleagues, are you considered withdrawn?
You don't like to talk to people, maybe it's because you don't have self-confidence, you're afraid of making mistakes, and you're used to it alone! Now watching more movies and talking to people is also a way to find a topic! In fact, the easiest thing is to find a boyfriend, how you practice it only plays a slight role, the effect can't be adjusted for a while, if you find a trusted boyfriend, you talk to him every day, and slowly talk to his friends and chat!
The more friends you have, the more you can talk about! It's not that hard to find a boyfriend! My advice is that it's better to be better than what you can say, because guys can talk because they can do things, and girls don't talk because they're shy!
Second, find one of your own! Anyway, it's good to be yourself, change yourself tired! Let's adjust it slowly!!
Hope it helps!!
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My man, with a similar personality to you, will only let go after getting acquainted with people, even after getting married.
Personality is not easy to adjust, because it is innate.
The main thing is that the social experience has risen, so that you can see your face, your face is thicker, you see what people say, and this is how people get along with each other.
It's impossible to say that you and he must have a common language to talk about, and you can find a topic, even if it's not nutritious.
You can also learn about other things, and don't live in your own interests forever.
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Those who leave you because of your personality let them go, if that person doesn't dislike your character and still loves you, then he really loves you, you should be a test of your other half of the standard, love is one in a million, even if you change your personality they will pick on you for other faults, don't change for the sake of change be yourself.
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Don't treat yourself as one's own, others will be your one's thing; Nothing is eternal, including friendship, yes, it is important to build a long-term relationship, but how to open up the first step is more important, there is nothing to be afraid of missing and losing, but the thing is that you can never grasp the key point of maintaining a relationship; There is an equal step between people, you have to think like this, and then, you tell yourself that the mistake is the responsibility of both parties, and the apology can be taken by you first, and the sense of self-blame you have, others will also have, but everyone behaves in a different way; Paying too much attention to the other party's feelings, in fact, is no different from self-esteem, it is just a reversal of positions, self-blame or conceit, it is just to amplify your subjective emotions, you feel that the matter is serious to the point of inextricability, just an apologetic statement will disappear; The specific method, in fact, is not difficult, that is, to force your own shame, to be the first to speak, there is a fault for you, the other party is not good to be too persistent, reasonable to you, the other party is even more embarrassed to miss the opportunity to hand over again; It's not difficult to take the initiative, but it's hard to open up at the first time, and no one can help you do anything too much, because the person who finally breaks through this psychological barrier is your own firm choice, and the more you are afraid, the more distant it is; Just like a bad habit, this conceited emotion, is also an alternative behavior of rejecting others, denying yourself, but also denying others, since you want friends, you are brave to face the loss of preparation, but what you need more is perseverance and courage, few people win eternity with a single action; Finally, if you don't mind, you can continue to communicate with me, because watching the virtual world without meeting will make you more relaxed, and of course, it is not recommended to indulge in it.
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Be cheerful, let it go, haha.
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Talk to close friends and family members more often to argue (not argue) and practice expression, and then talk to strangers slowly, such as trying to bargain when buying something, and gradually train yourself. It is advisable to look at speech and eloquence. In addition, find a way to vent when you feel aggrieved, sweating is the best, running, yelling, and fighting.
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Find someone to beat you! Or take a little more of it yourself! This way you will slowly change!
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Read more books (as comprehensive as possible), communicate more with friends, reading books can calm people's hearts, and it is not easy to be impulsive after a long time. Communication is about refining language expression. It's working after a long time, so try it.
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Character determines destiny, and you recognize your shortcomings, which is a big step.
People are all angular, slowly cultivating and accumulating. You will also be able to make yourself sleek and more adaptable to this society.
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Bad temper, from the perspective of emotional psychology, refers to a short personality, and the character can be improved, so a bad temper can also be changed. But first we have to understand what the causes of bad temper are. Generally speaking, the main reasons for a bad temper are as follows!
1.Not taken seriously and concerned.
When we live in society, we will need the recognition and attention of others, and when others do not agree with ****, we will not be able to meet our psychological needs, and we will be emotional. For example, if you are at a party of old classmates, everyone else is very happy, but no one responds to what you say, then you will have bad emotions.
2.Violations and Attacks.
When we are violated and attacked, we have bad emotions and aggression.
3.Suppressing bad emotions too much.
When many people have bad emotions, they will not vent them in time, but tend to suppress their emotions excessively, thinking that in this way, they can avoid their outbreaks. But repression is only temporary, the more you suppress it, the more you can't suppress it, and if you can't suppress it, you will get angry, so a vicious circle will be formed.
4.Growing up and family.
The formation of personality is very related to the family environment and growth experience, if in the family environment and growth experience, the attitude of family and friends towards them is to ignore and deny, then they will accumulate a lot of anger, and these anger will become them when they become adults.
Big problems in relationships.
So, how do we adjust to a bad temper?
1.Learn to groom.
When we have a bad emotion, we should not suppress it, but learn to channel it. If you suppress it, it will make the emotions congested there, like a traffic jam, and the more you get stuck in it, the more you will lose your temper.
2.Acceptance. Many people lose their temper because they can't accept it, and this acceptance is directed not only at others, but also at themselves. That is, it is difficult for them to accept others, and it is difficult for them to accept themselves. Some psychological studies have pointed out that most people's anger is often their own anger.
So you have to learn to accept yourself, everyone has shortcomings, don't just see your own shortcomings, see the negative side, but look more at the positive side, look at the advantages more.
3.Communication. To learn to communicate with others, to understand more about what others think, whether others really don't care about themselves, do not value themselves, after these verifications, you can make yourself more realistic and rational, and a lot of nameless fires will be reduced.
4.Grow. We all need to grow, not only psychologically, but also socially. Play more to your strengths, work harder, and use your anger as your motivation, so that you will enter a virtuous circle, your efforts will make you affirm and satisfied, and your affirmation and satisfaction will make you work harder. Then your anger will slowly fade away and you will become more mature.
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I can only say that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, and before losing your temper, you must first calm down and think about whether you should lose your temper.
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I can only tell you to refrain from it, think about it before you break out, why be angry? Is it worth it?
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Temper is related to character, have a good temper, make the atmosphere around you better, try to control yourself, think about the consequences of having such a big temper, is it a solution to the problem? Definitely not! Or make your mood worse, and you don't want to do this, so you ask such a question, you can usually read a little book that motivates you, or chat with some people, make yourself cheerful and optimistic, so that gradually your temper will change, let your bad habits change, make yourself mature, and you can make friends with people with a gentle temper, which will also help you, come on!
I hope you can get rid of your bad temper, hehe Then think about it, it's not good to lose your temper with yourself, it means that you are very considerate of other people's feelings, so you don't lose your temper in front of others, when you want to lose your temper, you can find something meaningful to do, vent it by writing a diary, or find a good friend to talk to, entertain, find something to make yourself relaxed, I think you can definitely get rid of the bad mood. The main thing is to pull it on your own, hehe, come on.
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In a rebellious period, it's a normal heart.
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Stay away from others when you want to lose your temper. Simple yet functional.
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A change in perception is a fundamental change
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There must be a reason for a bad temper, endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky.
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How old are you and how many years have you been in a bad temper?
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Always remind yourself, learn to change yourself, learn to restrain yourself, learn to know how to be patient, learn to relax your mind, when you find that you can't control yourself, you should remind yourself to leave quickly and then reflect afterwards, learn to let go, learn to say sorry, bad temper is a character problem, understand that your personality slowly changes and slowly makes up for the shortcomings.
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Actually, ......He's being coquettish, isn't he? But it's awkward for a big man to be coquettish.
Actually, what do you care about the most? Do you feel so tired and hard, or do you think that he has hands and feet and has to imitate a severe disability?
If it's the latter, I suggest you change your attitude, I see that your husband is actually not bad, and he pretends to be tender and grinds you, and you can see that your relationship is very good - emotionally speaking, since he has such a character and needs, then you can cooperate with him, and you can also promote your relationship; In terms of efficiency, he is so able to toss, you have the time to grind with him, and things are done, and you can't change him, so why bother yourself so much.
Perhaps, he is this kind of person, he especially likes the kind of good wife and mother, like Koreans, he even has his wife to take off his clothes when he goes home, he may think that this can reflect his status in the family - or he thinks that this can show that you love him, in this regard, I think it is the same as women like to hear men say "I love you", everyone understands and cooperates with each other, and life can be enjoyable
But if you think you're actually working hard, then you can complain to him! You tell him, I'm really tired from work, you can help me too, and you may feel uncomfortable with him, but your husband is that kind of person, so the way you get along with each other has to run in!
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