Should I choose death or become a monk, my heart is tired, my heart is dead, and I have become a wal

The people who love me have no regrets about me, but I am willing to grieve for the people I love all my life! Who made me not understand women's hearts very well, but I also had a "SARS" trial love! Say more about love, everyone who has loved will have pain and joy, what I want to say is that in addition to love, there is also affection, now you can find someone who loves you to accept him through the current pain, you can also leave time and life to your family or confidant to slowly calm down your heart, and be a person who can afford to let go, and do what you like with all you have, maybe true love will come again at the right time and place.

That word is terrible! Because what you want is the meaning of life, since you want meaning, you have to live meaningfully, see that there is meaning, and then say that word, okay?! I hope you can get out of the sadness as soon as possible, find the meaning of your life, and listen to less songs and more sports in the near future.

In fact, you have already lost yourself, but you don't know it now. If life remains the same then you will be more sad, you used to live someone else's life, this is the first step for you to find your own life. It's just because you're used to having a person, think about it tomorrow when your new life comes, your heart is dead, what are you afraid of, tomorrow you will be reborn, a new life of your own, a new world, a new life, embrace your new life, its beauty is up to you.

The dream is shattered, change the dream and continue walking. Choosing death will grieve those who truly love you! As for being a monk, it's not realistic, if you can't fight your broken heart to love for the time being, it's okay to take your time, everything will pass.

The princess has no knights, and slowly wants to become a knight herself, protect herself, and make her heart strong and beautiful. For the time being, you can also go home to accompany your parents, that is the person who loves you selflessly.

Alas, I deeply sympathize with what happened to you, I am a boy and have been hurt like you, and I have had the same thoughts as you. We have been together for 4 years, and at the beginning of this year she said that we broke up and left immediately. Calm down and don't do anything stupid.

It seems that you must love your ex very much. Otherwise, I wouldn't have thought about it so desperately, and I wouldn't have to think about it when I became a monk and died. I'm sorry for my relatives and I'm sorry for my friends.

I'm even more sorry for myself. Don't take things to extremes. You can go listen to ** or go on a trip with friends.

Relax by doing what you love, and feel better for two more weeks. I wish you a speedy escape from the troubles of falling out of love. And falling out of love, it's not a big deal.

I hope you've seen it all over mine.

First of all, death must be terrible I really understand your situation But life is like a big dream Karma is destined in the previous life Don't be too attached to everything Your parents gave birth to you and raised you once You don't want to be filial but look for a dead end You can ask yourself how your parents feel.

Secondly, life is meaningful, maybe after you have experienced this imperfect relationship, but you have found another transparent and bright road in life, I have read a lot of articles, all say that people are in the moment before death, their hearts regret, but the time to regret is too late, when you can still see the sun and the moon in both eyes, don't talk about life and death, I think when a person's life blueprint is too messy, it should be erased, leaving pure and white thoughts, looking for the true meaning of life, is it a happy thing for the two of you to finally become married.

One flower, one world, one tree, one Bodhi One person is a small world, don't do it again, if you don't dislike it, you can contact me more and communicate more, and I will make you cheerful as soon as possible, because I have helped many girls like you.

1 Contrary to all appearances, all appearances are false, although everyone in the world has causes, but since he does not know how to cherish them, then he is not the person in your life. Time will heal your wounds.

2 Life and death are impermanent, and unenlightened beings will sink in the sea of suffering, and there is a lot of karma for suicide when you are not enlightened.

3 Many causes and effects are burdens in your heart, and if you don't let go of them, what's the use of becoming a monk? And it can be seen that you don't believe in Buddhism, so is it necessary to become a monk?

So here's a suggestion for you: in addition to him, you must have other sustenance, such as earning a lot of money, so that you and your family can live a good life in the future, so firm up a belief and work hard, it will soon fade.

Sister, in fact, I also want to know what people live for? But it must not be for the sake of a man who will make you fall! You are for yourself, for this society!

And not for that man, so you're going to re-lock the target! Shoot your first shot if necessary! Hitting that goal is what you call the meaning of life.

What a silly girl!

A person who has seen a strange idea and left with inattentiveness should feel happy and afraid!

Fortunately, his true colors have been exposed as soon as possible, what if it is after marriage? Wouldn't it be even more difficult to control the consequences!

How can you still be reluctant to give up on this kind of person. You should spit on and despise this kind of man.

It's not terrible to have a frustrated relationship, it's terrible to spend a lifetime paying for this relationship. If you keep going like this, one day you'll regret it! There is no feast in the world, and after it is over, it is over, and after the pain and crying, it is necessary to walk through it strongly.

Now is not the time to let yourself make a choice, learn to let go!

Distract yourself by doing something light. Or take a break and get some sleep and listen to some light **.

Becoming a monk is not about dodging, it is about facing life and death, unlike what you watched in the TV series, ordinary people can't make up their minds!

Only if you have been hurt can you go further! If God doesn't give you what you want, He will definitely give you a better one.

If you want to open it, you will go to Yan him, and if you can't think about it, you will Yan him.

Author:Good Friends 丨Level 1 丨 2011-3-26 21:45

Wow! Good answer upstairs, advice to the landlord. On the top floor.

After seeing what happened to the landlord, I really didn't know what to say. "From love to sorrow, from sorrow to fear. If you are separated from your loved one, you will have no worries or fears. "Lust is the foundation of life and death, landlord!

Nan no Guanyin Bodhisattva!

When I had suicidal thoughts, I read "What Life Means to You" by the Austrian psychologist Adler.

May you be auspicious!

If you really don't know what to do, become a nun. Practice peerless martial arts, go fight monsters, and then he will worship you and want to get back together with you, and then you will fly him. Let him understand the feeling of this broken love.

When your heart is tired, just rest well, talk about your pain, and there will always be someone who can help you

Never bow down to fate, this is my consistent style.

There is no direction, there is no goal, in fact, you should think about what you want? What are you missing? How hard should you work now to find what you want.

When a person is facing setbacks and cannot be relieved, when a person is facing pain and cannot extricate himself, in another place, a person stands up in deep pain, stands up in difficulties, anyone will encounter heart-wrenching things, but the more this is the case, the more we have to face it, because there are no relatives in that place, there is no freedom, you can't get relief at all, the best way is to live better and let the difficulties succumb. The more we can't accept it, the more we have to accept it, the more we have to face it when we can't face it, we still have good memories, death will make us fall into hell and never turn our heads back, but being alive can make us think of them, they are laughing, they are crying, we can only help them continue their life if we live, because they will always live in our hearts, and when we die, others will never remember him again.

You're happy enough.

At least you're well fed and warm. With those who don't have enough food and clothing, and who don't have money to go to school, they are boundless. Be content!

Try Ah Q's Spiritual Victory Method!

People are alive, everyone has pain, but the pain is different, we must maintain a good attitude to face it, some pain can be talked to someone, and the heart will be better.

If you don't belong to you, let go. May you live each day happily.

You can take a look at Yuan Lifan's life, maybe I can help you, good luck.

I never believed in orders before! But every year it fails! Then one day I suddenly felt! Destiny! It can't be violated! And then he believed in his fate! Slowly, I realized that people can trust their lives! But don't admit defeat!

How to say, I have been living with the flow of life, I will work hard when I encounter difficulties, relax when I cross the difficulties, and then repeat.

No matter what, if you live well, there will be hope for everything.

Hang on! Believe that happy and happy days will soon come.

Well, I believe I'm trapped in grief.

What's wrong. Let's talk about it.

Everyone has a story, we just see ourselves, look forward, be strong.

There is no hurdle that cannot be passed, persevere!

There will inevitably be some setbacks in life, and it is better to change the reality if you have to work hard.

Life will inevitably have ups and downs, it will get better, don't give up!

When the heart is dead, it can be brought back to life, but when a person is dead, he is really dead. So no matter what, live well, not just for yourself.

No! Just think about it! Let it go! Everything will pass.

There is no greater mourning than death. If you want to live, you need to be nourished by love, and you also need to have enough courage and desire to survive.

Do more fun things, hehe.

Life is like a relay race, there is no smooth sailing, the road is not flat, the road in front of you is very rugged and bumpy, you have to have confidence in yourself, everything will pass.

Mentality determines fate, some people face setbacks, complain about the sky, life is sluggish, some people rely on enthusiasm, climb to the peak, only people who are interested in life, will fight for life, will not be abandoned by life, turn setbacks into strength, with a smile to meet the next challenge.

Do what you want to do, don't think about others.

Fall in, get up in, because you can't be so sluggish all the time, you will only make the relatives hurt and the enemies happy. You're always hurting yourself!! Find a way to solve the problem.

As soon as people are born, they bear a great responsibility, and often people don't know, why do they live? This question has been pursued all their lives, and until they die, they have not been able to understand why people live, and people live to die. Everything in the world is born together, there are birth, old age, sickness and death, so when people are alive, don't complain, because at the moment you are born, you have already taken on the heavy responsibility!

So, live well and cherish the time.

Only after a major accident, such as the sudden departure of a beloved relative, the change of deep love without warning, the destruction of the only hope in the heart, the devastating blow of the dearest and most trusted person, the crazy cold-blooded cannibalism of seeing the children fighting for the inheritance, the huge grievances that are irreparable, etc., the irreparable tragedy caused by their own mistakes, etc., will make people mourn more than the heart dies, the living is the body, and the soul is on the verge of death, like the walking dead, and get by; After this phenomenon occurs, it is generally difficult to recover in a short period of time, and the following ideas are provided for reference;

1.For example, in terms of emotion, in order not to extend the consequences and cause long-term pain, you can think calmly and introspectively behind closed doors alone, take self-help methods, eat a trench and grow wise, and do not have to let your heart die. Or join a tour group to go outside to relax, let the beautiful scenery outside dissipate your depression and pain, get rid of the shadows, regain confidence, and move towards a new life, you can't give up the whole forest for a tree;

2.No one can predict when there will be an accident, which is not at all controllable by human beings, only to do good deeds and accumulate virtues, burn incense and worship Buddha, and pray for the protection of the gods; People can't be reborn, and people who live can't live in pain and self-blame, which is not what everyone wants, life is long, and you still need to go on, abandon entanglements, and be yourself;

3.In terms of career, the ups and downs of the world are inconclusive, once the people are happy, he is frustrated and helpless, and looks at everything with a plain heart, glory and wealth, in the end it is just a passing cloud, what about the rich party, the power of the government and the opposition, the fallen leaves return to the roots, and the death of people is a cup of loess;

4.If you block things in the same place, you really can't completely get rid of the knot, try to go out and change the environment to live, travel lightly, abandon memories, start from scratch, and create a new life;

Your heart is overloaded! Know how to release and open your heart! If it still doesn't work, go to the beach, go to the mountains and shout, call ......Talk more to netizens about what is in your heart and what you think! Everyone is a trendsetter in front of life, mainly depending on what kind of attitude we use to face life.

I think this way sometimes, but I feel that it is too tiring to live like this all the time.

The heart is dead.

Why should a man die again?

Body and mind: It's enough to die one!