Should I choose to accept someone who loves me or choose to continue to pursue someone I love?

In my personal experience, if I had to choose again, I would definitely choose the person who loves me, because I think it is easier to enjoy love than to love others, at least in married life, what woman doesn't like to be coaxed, hurt by others, and held in the palm of her hand? So I think you should choose someone who loves you, but only if you don't hate him very much, otherwise you won't talk about it. I wish you the happiness that belongs to you soon!

I think it's best to pursue the person you love first, if you can make him (her) fall in love with you while chasing him/her, but if you can't make him (her) fall in love with you even if you chase him/her. I love you and should consider giving up. At this time, you should accept the person who loves you and learn to make yourself fall in love with him/her.

This is just my personal opinion.

If the person you are pursuing has been trying hard for a long time without results, then I suggest you accept the person who loves you. After all, you will feel a little happier to enjoy love than to give love.

Accept the person who loves you, there is nothing difficult to explain, find someone who has you in your heart is better than anything else, maybe you like the person you chase hard, but maybe you are not his favorite, if you don't completely occupy his heart, even if you chase you, you won't be happy, right?

Men should choose the person they love. There are too many unstable factors in the people who love you. Not necessarily for you.

If you're always hesitant about this, you'd better not choose either of you, and the three of you will be hurt, and I've had an experience of believing me. You'd better talk about it later.

If you're a woman. Then advise you to choose the person who pursues you.

Women can't afford to be hurt.

If there are only 2 options in front of you, it's best to give up!

Don't be unwilling! Some things have to be done to protect yourself!

Being with the people you love the most is the most enjoyable thing for you. But sometimes I can't be with that person even though I love that person deeply, and when I am in this state, I need to give up rationally, specifically, when I find that the other party is not suitable for my loved one, I can't stop myself from being together, and when I try to pursue it but it is fruitless, I should really give up.

First, when you find that you are not suitable for your loved one, you should give up. The person you love is the one you give your true heart and true love, but when you rationally analyze the relationship between each other, you find that the other party is not suitable for you. Or if it is not suitable between two people, when you find out that this situation is balanced, you should give up the relationship rationally and choose to quit, although it will make you feel very painful, but it is still the only way to get yourself truly liberated, and you must do it.

Second, if you can't be with your loved ones, you need to give up reasonably. Sometimes, although you really love someone but can't be with him, this state will make you feel painful, but you need to seriously reflect on this relationship, specifically, if you find that you can't be with your loved one after rational analysis, then you need to give up rationally, only in this way, can you end this doomed relationship, so that you can pursue your true love.

Third, when you try hard to pursue your loved ones but have no results, you should really give up. When you really love someone, you will try to pursue her, but if you still can't get the result after hard work, you need to choose to quit rationally, for yourself, this relationship is destined to be fruitless, and there is no point in continuing to insist, at this time, you need to give up this relationship rationally, so that you can pursue love for yourself and the person you love with a positive attitude, so as to harvest the love that really belongs to you.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

Should I choose the one I love, or the one who loves me? Depending on age, gender, and marital status, the answer is different.

Love you. This is an ironclad fact. This is the guarantee of your future life.

It's very unreliable for you to rely on a love word to present your other half. There are many factors to consider, don't be able to be together just because you love someone.

You should find someone who loves you, and you have been looking for someone who loves you for a long time, so that you will not be hurt.

It depends on your own personality

It's a very simple question, and I've learned it recently, if you think you're strong, you choose what you love, and if you don't think you're strong, then you choose to love you.

Choose what you love and love yours too.

Personal opinion, since you have someone you love very much, then choose the person you love, even if there is no result, then you will not let yourself have a very heartache regret on the road in the future, with the person you love, you have to choose the person you love.

You don't want to be hurt in the future, you don't want to work hard, so you choose to love you. If you want to continue to pursue your happiness, you go after what you like.

In fact, I personally feel that if I am the landlord and know that the person I like has someone I like, then I will let it go. Because since she is the person you like, you must hope that she can be happy, not to destroy her happiness. You can try to accept the girl who loves you, and even if you give the girl who likes you a smile, a girl who cares about her, and the girl who loves you will be happy and can't sleep all night.

Don't be stingy with your feelings, since the feelings you give, others don't want, why not put your feelings on the girl who is dedicated to you?

Of course, this is my suggestion, and it is better to build a large building according to your own ideas. Because I'm not Lou Da, I don't know what Lou Da thinks, everyone's thoughts are different, I'm a girl, Lou Da, your current thoughts, your current mood, it is estimated that the mood of the girl who likes you is the same. Both of you go after the person you like, but the person you like doesn't like you.

Isn't it?

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop him/her, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him (her) anymore, and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing your mind?

Love is not possessive!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is rotten, and the earth is desolate, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Go first to pursue the person you love and sell your reputation, if you can't pursue it, then accept the person who loves you, Sun Duan, so that you will be happier. The person I like, she has loved me deeply, but she is not very good to me now, I used to contact every day, but now I haven't contacted one for a month, so cold, now there is a second confession to me, but I still love her very much, what should I do! I'm still waiting for her, and I'm still going to accept her who confesses to me! .