Think it s boring, huh? It s so boring, what are you going to do now?

Relationships are not as complicated as you think, in fact, you are connected in this society from the day you were born. It's a relationship you can't escape.

And interpersonal relationships, you don't have to think about it, think about it when you meet, whether this is good for him, and what should I do with him like this. So, you have to have your own principles and beliefs. In this case, then the relationship will not be so cumbersome.

And the same is one more point, that is:"When you can't change your environment, you have to adapt. "This is the principle of survival of the fittest in nature!

The same can be applied to our lives.

Benefactor sometimes wants to be quiet, and so do I! But it's impossible for people to sort out groups!Interpersonal relationships still have to be faced!

People who consider interpersonal relationships (here refers to people who do not interact normally, but interact for various interests) are people who are more tactful and not easy to offend, and this kind of person has a stronger ability to adapt to the environment, is not easy to be eliminated by society, and is also a person who is more urban.

And you seem to have just entered the society, and you are not yet adaptable. But don't rush, it'll be okay slowly. Don't rush at every turn.

Depending on the work you're engaged in, if you're doing development, as long as you're in front of a computer or a circuit board, what project is given on it, you do it, you don't need to have complicated interpersonal relationships, as long as you're very skilled, and there are a lot of people who look at you differently, but if you're doing administrative work and other work that deals with people, hehe, then grow up quickly.

This is not true. Because after all, we don't live in a vacuum, isn't there a saying that we are fit to survive? Only by learning to adapt to all kinds of environments, all kinds of people. Your life is wonderful. You can feel the joy of life.

Very good, very good, different people have different ways of living, and my interpersonal relationship is not very good, but my work environment does not allow me to ignore these, alas, my buddy is really luckier than me!

Don't you think that with interpersonal relationships, the whole person is a little more energetic, and if there are no interpersonal relationships, don't you feel bored alone?

I advise you to think clearly before doing it.

You better think about interpersonal relationships! Don't be angry, it will hurt you, I am just like you, and I fell down again and again! If you don't get along well with others, you will suffer in the end!

What a few people upstairs said is very reasonable, listen to them all, it will be beneficial!

Hehe! You still have a lot of personality, don't you? Hopefully you will always be like this. You have too much personality, and think about what others think of you!

Interpersonal relationships are the most basic requirements of being a human being, and if you don't want to engage in interpersonal relationships, it's okay, then don't be a liar.

You can experiment! But you'll regret it. The current society is like this, and it is not something we can change.

If you find something boring, you can find a solution from the following answers:

1.Change your attitude and mindset: Different people may have different views and feelings about the same thing, try to look at things from different angles, or look for interesting aspects to see things.

2.Explore new ways or methods: If you're bored with something, try finding new ways or methods to make it more fun and challenging.

3.Revisit your goals and motivations: For some things, it may be that you're bored because you don't have a clear goal or clear your motivation. Rethinking your goals and motivations may give you new revelations.

4.Try to learn new skills or knowledge: Learning new skills or knowledge not only expands your horizons, but also gives you a new sense of challenge and achievement.

If you don't split the world, you will be embarrassed to ruin your life in the world.

Are you cautious that your pants are not good and pure?

In fact, everyone will have a moment of this kind of thought, because each of us will have negative times, and we will have times when we feel bored, this kind of thinking is not terrible, but we should also learn to properly guide the expression of this emotion.

I remember watching a cartoon with such a plot, and there was an episode of "Big Ears Tutu" about Tutu's father feeling negative. Tutu's father was listless and unenergetic every day, Tutu's mother and Tutu thought something was wrong with him and asked him what was wrong, but he said that he felt that he was very bored every day, woke up at a fixed time every morning, took a fixed route, went to the company to do the same work, and then had lunch, went to work, got off work, went home, had dinner, and went to bed. It's like this every day, receiving a fixed salary and doing fixed things, and he feels that this kind of life is very boring, so even if he is paid a salary and has a bonus, it doesn't make him optimistic.

Listening to his words, Tutu and his mother also felt that their lives were very boring, repeating the same things every day, without any freshness, and feeling that nothing was interesting. And just like that, the negative effects have been spreading. So I think it's normal for each of us to have this kind of negative thoughts, and it's important that we learn to get rid of them properly.

In the cartoon, they help Tutu's dad to become cheerful and give him something new in his life, let him learn a musical instrument, so that he will feel that he has something interesting in his life, and will not let his negative influence dominate his life. Only when we get out of this negative thinking in time can we better have our own life and future.

It may be because you do something repeatedly for too long, and then your heart and body are tired, so you feel that what you see and what you encounter is meaningless and meaningless. But it's just an occasional thing, it's also a momentary thing, and after this stage, you will feel that the world is still very exciting. That's why people often say you're there.

When you try to do something repeatedly, you must learn to relax properly, otherwise in the long run, it will be like iron will rust, your head will become sluggish, your body will be tired, your heart will be tired, and you will not be interested in doing anything.

There is also the possibility that you were seriously hurt, whether emotionally or physically. Emotional damage will make you feel that everything is lost, that is, the heart is like a knife, and physical damage, such as what terminal illness you have, when you are very close to death, you feel that you have seen through everything, and of course you feel that nothing is meaningless. But I think it's very unlikely, because you don't feel like anything is interesting, and it's not just once or twice, it's in your mind all the time.

The human brain is a magical thing, your emotions, your thoughts all come from the brain, and even sometimes you will be in a bad mood for no reason, because of an object in the outside world, any little thing, there will be all kinds of psychology, which is the same as Mochizuki homesickness. All I can say is that this kind of thinking is normal, but you can't be in this kind of thinking all the time, you have to learn to adjust yourself in time. Maybe many people who commit suicide start from the starting point that they feel that nothing is interesting, and then they have not adjusted, and finally cause tragedy.

I feel like I'm bored with anything, and I feel like you've lost interest in life. I also had such a time, I felt really boring, I don't understand why to be a person, on the one hand, it may be related to my interests, others have at least one interest, playing the piano, playing football and basketball, but I don't know why I don't want to do anything, very annoying, in addition, every summer vacation others will go to other places to travel, climb mountains and wade through water, see the beautiful scenery, and I feel that there is nothing to see, rather than go outside to play it is better to stay at home, It's okay to play on my phone and watch TV, I just want to stay at home, so I won't go.

This is especially true in high school, because it was my first time to live in a dormitory, the first time I lived so far away from home, I was always homesick, so I was depressed every day, and slowly my grades began to decline, I felt that the whole world was dark, and for three years I felt like a year, life was really boring, and slowly I became unconfident and withdrawn, but after graduating from high school, I came to college, and I wanted to change myself again and make myself rejuvenated.

When I came to the university, I joined the student union, ready to exercise myself, the department I joined the student union is the office, this department is mainly to contact with the teacher, help the teacher to work, send documents or something, to be able to communicate better with the teacher, exercise their communication skills, the student union has a lot of activities, Arbor Day nursing home condolences and many other interesting activities, slowly I found that life is not gray, he is also colorful, if you want to do this, you have to dare to go outside to see the world, In addition, I joined the club, went on picnics with the people in the club, and communicated with more people, and life was really exciting. So if you feel like you're not interested in anything, I think you should find more things to do and nurture your interests, and you'll find out.