Can you give everything to a good friend, friends have to give each other

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on how good a friend is, if it is a friend of life and death, you can, but if you just have a good impression of each other, you are very happy together but you don't know the bottom line, it's better not And it's really a good friend who won't let you give everything, because he will think about you, and your contribution is the last thing he wants, just like she pays for you and you don't want to.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, people don't die for their own sake.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends on what kind of friend it is, if he can give everything for you, then of course you can, but people tend to think like this, so when you ask this question, your friend may also think of this question, and is also waiting for you to give everything first, so if you want to get it, you have to pay first, good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My Maybe you're in a cold mood, just remember to be appropriate, because if you give too much, once he does something that doesn't suit your mind, your relationship will become terrible, there are no eternal friends in the world, only eternal interests.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Compare whether everyone is selfish, or keep some of their own position and can't give everything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends! You can help as much as you can, but you don't have to give everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's worth it, don't rule out that there is such a friend who can make you do this, follow your own inner thoughts, no one can make the right one!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I advise you not to do this, people can't be unreserved, then there will be a feeling of being stripped naked.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it depends on the situation and what kind of good friends they are. There are several types of good friends. You can talk heart-to-heart, no matter what happens, you will be a friend who is obligated to do so. I think if she does this to you, you should do the same, but this matter has to be grasped to a certain degree.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not necessarily, depending on what kind of person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do your best, pay, don't use everything, as long as it's sincere, more or less if he treats you as a friend, you can feel it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on what kind of friend If you don't need one set in front of you and one behind your back, you will be very sad if you give too much.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The human heart is separated from the belly.

    The heart of defense is indispensable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better not to, you can try to help a good friend, but don't give everything, the only thing that can make you give everything is your relatives and lovers.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's better not to do that unless you're talking about being a good friend yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Between friends, there are always people who enjoy each other's efforts and take each other's good for granted. Some people just like to think of themselves as the sun, thinking that the earth will not turn away from him, and some people are even more accustomed to your accommodation and begin to become more aggressive.

    A friend was indignant when he talked about a young man in their dorm. The young man had never been on duty in the dormitory, had never taken out the garbage, knew how to tidy up his bed, and always instructed his fellow dormitories to help him do this and that. Do whatever you want in the dormitory without considering other people's feelings, talk to friends in the middle of the night and don't see if your roommates are asleep, and you can't sleep in a noisy dormitory.

    His dormitory mates also reminded him, but after a few days, it was the same again. Once, he was chatting with the object **, and the two people in the same dormitory wanted to go to fetch water together, and the guy shouted to stop him, "Help me also get a pot of water" The other two people were unwilling, but they were embarrassed to refuse him. At this time, one person couldn't help it, "Are you embarrassed, our dormitory is on the tenth floor, let me go and fetch water for you on such a cold day, but you are here with your girlfriend."

    The young man's face immediately changed, "If you don't help me fight, forget it, it's still a good friend, and we still live in a dormitory." After the guy said this, these two people were even more angry, and went downstairs directly with the kettle. After the two came back from fetching water, the young man still refused to give up, saying, "I treat you as friends so willfully, who knew that you were so careful, I really saw the wrong person."

    In the end, the people in the dormitory finally couldn't bear it anymore, "Okay, you are free, this friend is okay" Finally, the young man betrayed his relatives and moved out of the dormitory.

    Willfulness between friends is not the same as selfishness, let alone doing whatever they want. Why do you always ask others to be good to you, but you don't know how to think about others? Between friends, only blindly giving in exchange for some return from the other party, they will eventually be disheartened.

    Between friends, they keep asking for it, but they don't know what to reciprocate, and they will eventually be alone.

    If you are not willing to give among friends, then don't expect others to be dead to you. After all, no one owes anyone, even if you are a friend, it doesn't mean that you can take advantage of the fire to rob. If friends are selfish and greedy, they will eventually push two people away.

    Therefore, friends have to give to each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If I were still young, I would probably you, I would be willing to give everything for my good friends, but unfortunately I am no longer young, I am about to reach middle age, I feel that in this world, only my parents, and my children are really worth everything for me, and other people are really not worth everything I pay for.

    Of course, some people may feel that their friends are worth everything for themselves, but I can only say that it is because you only have yourself, you are only your own, you are alone to feed the whole family and not hungry, so you can give everything for your friends, but as long as a person gets married and has children, but when a person grows up, grows up, and enters society, it is difficult to give everything for friends.

    You have to understand what you are paying, everything represents your work, your future, your future, on behalf of your life, you have to understand that what you pay is not only those words, if you are just a person, it doesn't matter how much you have paid for the sake of knowing, because you only live for yourself, but when you have a family, you will find that you can no longer say such a promise casually, because you are no longer only yourself, you have a family.

    Your family needs you, your lover needs you, your children need you, your parents need you, you are needed by many people, you have everything to pay for your friends, you have given everything you have, so what should those family members who also need you urgently, how should they live, is it because of your friends that they have changed their original lives?

    I think in the adult world, it is easy not to give everything for anyone, many people may not even give everything for their parents, so it is even more unlikely to do anything for friends, and then there is, if your friend is really worthy of you to make, he is unlikely to let you give everything for him, because he also regards you as his most important person, how can he be willing to watch you have nothing for him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You may give something for your good friend, but you can't give everything. Because I also have a family, and I also have parents and my own children behind me, it is impossible for me to leave these people behind.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For real friends, I do. Regardless of family affection or friendship, as long as the relationship reaches a certain point, you can't help but give everything for each other. Only those friends who play tricks will only care about themselves.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm not willing to give everything for my good friend, I'm only willing to give a third for her. Because in the adult world, there should not only be good friends, but also family and career; People who give everything for their good friends are selfish.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Actually, I know that most people can't give everything for their friends, but I think that if the friend I want is him, or a friend who is also paying for me, then I am willing to give everything for my friend. Because I couldn't find a better friend than him.

    When my phone is down, the first person who pays me without asking the reason is not because he has a lot of money, but because he can't find me, and he will be very disappointed. When I get sick, the person who buys me medicine and takes me to the doctor is not that he is idle, but that he will be very distressed when he sees me sick. Such a friend, I am willing to give everything for him.

    The person who remembers my birthday, of course, is not because of how good his memory is, but because I am really important in his heart. Wouldn't it be worth giving everything to a friend who reminds me to be careful when crossing the street, and who always walks on the left side when walking?

    No matter how prosperous the outside world is, no matter how wonderful it is, it has nothing to do with me, but everything about my friends has something to do with me, because no one will treat me as well as he does, and no one wants to do what he has my solid backing.

    When most people are faced with a choice, they will always look forward and backward, think a lot, and finally give up what they want in their hearts, never knowing how to give, which is also a part of the derivation of the golden mean for thousands of years.

    But this does not prevent me from choosing a friend I like in my mediocre life, even if only once, and giving everything for him. At that time, I believe that I will finally find that life is very brilliant at that moment.

    So I will cherish the person around me who silently pays for me, because this kind of person has always paid with action and proved by practice. So I'm willing to give everything for this friend of mine.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm willing to give everything for my friend because my friend is good to me and he's willing to give everything to me, so in return, I'm willing to do it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't want to give everything for my friends, because I think that I should be good first of all, so that I can better help my friends, and if I give everything for her, I will be affected to a certain extent, which is not conducive to my development.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, everyone has their own family and friends in this world, if you give everything for your friends, what will your family do?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, at least I have to have reservations, even the best friend can't give everything for him, this is human nature, people will be selfish, only relatives will give everything for themselves.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, I don't think my friends can make me give everything, and I feel like everything I have should be in my own hands and not in the hands of someone other than me.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm not willing to give everything for my friends. I can do for my friends, but only for what I can, and I don't push my limits for my friends.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course, I am willing to give everything for my good friend, because he taught me a lot of principles of life, I have learned a lot of experience in dealing with people from him, and he is my mentor.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on whether this friend will give everything for me, and if she does the same to me, then it means that she deserves my same sacrifice in return.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, because good friends are together, there is no way to care too much. If they need my help, I will do everything I can to help them.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't want to. I will give my part for my friends, but not everything, because I still have my wife, children, parents, and they need me more than my friends.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If I am willing, even if I die, I will be the only one in this life, a good friend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Real friends, ordinary friends.

    An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. The shoulders of a true friend once made your tears water.

    An ordinary friend doesn't know your parents' last names. A real friend has their** on the address book.

    An ordinary friend will bring a bottle of wine to your party. A true friend will come early to help you get ready and leave later to help you with cleaning.

    An ordinary friend hates you calling after he sleeps. A true friend will ask why it's only called now.

    An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles. A real friend comes to you to solve your troubles.

    An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A true friend can threaten you to speak out.

    An ordinary friend, when visiting, is like a guest. A true friend will open the fridge and take things himself.

    An ordinary friend thinks the friendship is over after a quarrel. A true friend understands that true friendship is not called when you haven't fought before.

    An ordinary friend asks first and foremost when you ask for help. A true friend will silently help you and ask again.

    An ordinary friend expects you to always be there for him. A true friend expects him to be by your side forever!

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