Why is life so full of blindness and helplessness?

In fact, you don't need others to say that you know that the problem lies with yourself, mainly caused by your inner confusion. I think you may think that a large part of this inner confusion comes from society, you have expectations for the future but you feel that what society can give you is far from what you hope, you have too many sad things in your vision after graduation, you don't even want to grow up, you don't want to face an independent social life in the future, but the current study is also boring and boring, you don't know if you learn in the future, you don't know if you learn in the future, and you don't know what you can do if you don't study now?! I don't know if I'm right, but if you do, I think you came up after a year of school.

If you don't have the confidence to do anything well, what does it matter to you, you have time, you have cognitive ability, you should know what is right and what is wrong, you don't have to finish what you think is right, you don't have to do what you think is right, you don't have to pick what you are interested in learning, or learn something that you think can be used in society in the future. In fact, sometimes in the society, you don't need to do too much, just a little bit more than others, your future is bright, proportion, your company will say two words in English, "welcome" and "goodbye" you use it at the right time, the boss may give you a new platform, you are driven ducks on the shelves and don't you go home and steal your own learning?

So I think what you lack is not the motivation to move forward and something else, this kind of motivation is the most effective only if it comes from yourself, since you give up everything halfway, then you do that half, half and half more, and a new comprehensive type of you is born?! The key is that you don't waste your time! My heart aches for you.

Think about it.

Looking at your text, it seems that you have only been in college for a long time, in fact, college is the most important stage of life, don't think that you can't learn things here! Don't think that those who become enlightened are worse than others! It's all the same!

You have a lot of opportunities now. When you come out to read, you will meet a lot of people and see a lot of things. Slowly, you have to know what you really like, not necessarily the major you are studying now.

Then decide on your own direction and work hard for it!

In fact, there is nothing to be poor at home, how many people are poor at home! Uncountable! It's important to work on change.

In college, you still have to study things on your own, and the textbooks and courses offered by the school just mean that you should have ideas and research in this area.

Don't just know how to play like many people, work hard, only you can change yourself!

Ten life goals for the year of establishment.

First, the most important thing is to set your own career plan.

Give yourself a clear, scientific and objective career positioning, evaluate your professional temperament, career interests, career tendencies, professional abilities and career potential, etc., and then take this as the goal to make your future career in a state of steady development.

Second, the network of interpersonal relationships has basically taken shape.

This network includes teachers, friends, relatives, classmates, colleagues, and everyone who can help each other. The interpersonal network shows the level of a person's emotional intelligence, which can not be established overnight, it needs to be open-minded, open-minded, kind to others, and helpful temperament, and make a lot of friends one after another.

Third, higher education, profound knowledge and rich practical experience.

At the beginning of the year, you should have your own knowledge base, and divide it into several storage units in a hierarchical manner like a memory, and store them in your own brain in different categories, so that you will be competitive in the workplace. Cultural literacy is the most basic knowledge requirement, to learn all the knowledge required by the industry and develop.

Fourth, develop a personal style.

Before the age of 30, find out the role models you like, often take them as examples, learn their ideas and thinking, keep imitating, constantly trying, constantly changing, and develop a style and demeanor, you will get twice the result with half the effort.

Fifth, pay attention to quality and behave with good morality.

That is: integrity establishes credibility, and modesty makes people improve; Consolidate the career pyramid and take the road of healthy careers. If you don't have a rock-solid reputation for loyalty by the time you reach 30, this shortcoming will haunt you for the rest of your life.

Sixth, be good at sorting out and concentrating your own strengths and strengths.

No matter what role you're currently in, knowing your strengths is important for success. Be sure to focus on what you love, play to your strengths, do what you do best, and make the most of your strengths and avoid weaknesses in your career.

Seventh, peace and stability in their emotional life.

When climbing the peak of your career, family is your strong backing, and you need a lover and family who understand and support you.

Eighth, break through the predicament and accumulate successful capital from failure.

Life always has to face the challenges of various difficulties, so that you can always maintain a healthy attitude and enterprising faith. Don't let your emotions hurt you, people with a negative mindset can't carry the burden of life no matter what.

Ninth, reserve savings to prepare for starting a business and finding another way to make a living.

In this ever-changing professional world, you may not always work in one place or always perform in one position, but if you save enough money beforehand, you have a safe back.

Tenth, learn to keep silent at all times and speak carefully.

More people ruin their future by talking and talking more than they do for any other reason. Learn to be silent, think twice about everything, and keep your mouth shut about what you shouldn't say.

I'll just say one thing: what you think you are, you are!

If you look down on yourself, others will look down on you even more

You should know how to do it!

It can be seen that you are very low and have low self-esteem, but I will tell you a sentence: "Anyone can look down on you, but we must respect ourselves". Think about why we came into this world, why we learned.........All for the sake of being able to live better, because "living is wonderful"!

I'm not a college student, and I'm not very rich, but I live a very fulfilling life, doing what I love, smiling at every day, everyone, and I feel that this kind of life is really beautiful and sweet.

If reading makes you tired, why bother to keep your promises, be your own master, and you will live a easier life!!

You use a lot of the word "I", it should be some psychological problems, find a school counselor to talk to your heart, don't be embarrassed, just take medicine for a cold!

There are many people like you, don't be discouraged, just do what you think is right, and good fortune will always come to you.

I think you shouldn't have found your advantages, just a meaning to see your own shortcomings, some things don't care too much about other people's opinions, you have shortcomings you know, then you go to change, everyone's tastes in life are different, people don't like you because people are not suitable for you, not your fault, why not be calm, in your life you have to be clear about what you want, feelings, or grades, if you are clear you will work towards it, don't chase what you can't get, Deliberate pursuit will become a burden, no matter where you are you can learn something, you learn we will not, people are a process of mutual communication!

There will always be many unsatisfactory in life, isn't there a lyric, the more frustrated you are, the braver.

I read a very good book the other day, "Success is a Mentality", and I believe you will change after reading it. It is mainly about facing life and difficulties with a positive attitude, as well as some ways of doing things and mentality.

In fact, everyone will have your mentality, including those who have gone to work now, but this is only temporary, and then at this stage you just need to do something very easy to do, so that you have a sense of accomplishment, this mentality can disappear immediately, the important thing is to correct the mentality to face the society.

I may be similar to the landlord, I like what bobo996321155 said. You have to work hard, you can't just sigh on the sidelines.

In fact, to be honest, there are many things in the world that cannot be answered, and even if you know everything, you are helpless. Maybe only when we are the farthest away, can we see the days that have passed the most clearly, perhaps, when we have some of our own wishes can not be achieved, we will feel a kind of sigh, perhaps, when we see others everything as they wish, there will be a kind of envy, a kind of helplessness, I also want to work hard, I want to succeed, I have tried all my strength, but I can only be helpless, or still standing still, a kind of helplessness, but also just discouraged、、、 helplessness of life, maybe never need to remember, but, Never forget, those who can't choose the origin, helpless forgetting, inexplicable loneliness, other people's ridicule, incorrigible likes, people who have left you, eternal past, passing time, inevitable death, and so on, perhaps, this is life. I absolutely experienced this tiredness, but also experienced this helplessness, there is not much to say, I hope everything will be okay!

Perhaps, an ordinary life is enough. Whoever can understand others will be able to save others, and whoever will be able to save themselves, although the reality is cruel, but we still have to face it. I just want to live a more exciting life, live a happier life, and be happier forever.

Life is a journey, and happiness and sorrow are the two long railroad tracks that follow closely behind me. Life is a chapter full of regrets, because they don't have a chance for you to revise your sentences! This is helplessness

Because you are alive, the road of your life cannot be smooth sailing, otherwise it will be boring. Life is always frustrating, but aren't everyone else just like you?

There are more desires, comparisons, let it be

That's because I don't know how to be satisfied, maybe I'm really rebellious, but I don't know what I do, and I have a lot of sympathy with you.

Because in addition to living, you must live. It's not just about survival!

Because I pursued something that did not match my ability.

Because his ability cannot adapt to this society, he will not take tricks and curry favor.

Alas, life is very helpless, the more mature you are, the more you feel that your ability is limited, and the more you watch, the more you feel that life is pathetic, and there is always injustice in the world. But we still have to be strong to live, maybe helplessness is also an indispensable part of life.

Life is over the ups and downs, of course, there is helplessness, or how to experience the colorfulness of life. Everyone has their own helplessness, and there will be gratifying things after suffering, or how to reflect the value of good things.

That's your problem, it's that you don't face life well, but life is beautiful, you have to have a good mind! To touch life, don't think about unhappy things when you have nothing to do! In this way, you will not feel the helplessness of life!