I m in college now and he s already working. We re getting married in half a year, will there be any

Updated on parenting 2024-05-28
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should be in the easiest period now, and that is emotion. Whether there will be a problem depends on whether there is a problem with the relationship between you, if the emotion is okay, and he is not a person who sees things differently, there is no problem. However, emotions are not static, as the environment changes, experiences, experiences, etc., the level of emotions will also change, so emotions need to be maintained.

    How to maintain the relationship between you is your task at the moment.

    It is the responsibility of both parties to maintain the relationship, because the emotions of both parties are not static. Worry shows that you lack confidence in yourself, to put it bluntly, there is still a bit of incomplete transparency between you, and you feel that he is better than you in some places, you still can't grasp what he cares about the most in his heart, and you still lack a complete sense of trust between you, which requires you to eliminate each other, and the best way is to communicate often. Don't bury it in your heart, otherwise such an obstacle will more or less affect your normal thinking, affect your learning, and the long-term accumulation will form a kind of pathology, and when it is serious, there will be random suspicions, so that people are worried about the sky and have nothing to do.

    Personally, I think that the happiest love is based on mutual honesty and mutual trust, and both parties show their truest selves to each other, so that both parties can see each other's strengths and weaknesses. Undoubtedly, it is easy to accept the advantages, but whether you can accept the disadvantages is the key, everyone has their own relative "ugly" or relative "vice" side, whether this side breaks through the other party's bottom line, in most cases is the basis for determining whether you can continue, so that you can be happy after marriage.

    Good communication is a means to maintain emotions, to achieve mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual care, mutual help, mutual consideration, and enhance each other's emotional level.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Issue? There is nothing wrong with getting married in itself.

    There is no problem with you who have not yet graduated.

    There is no problem with working with him.

    Just because there are no problems now does not mean that there will be no problems in the future.

    But you can't worry about what might go wrong in the future and compromise your happiness now.

    Happiness should be grasped by both parties.

    The landlord is just anxious about premarital psychology.

    After all, it has not yet entered society.

    went straight into marriage.

    Actually, if you can.

    You can get married after stepping into society.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Women should be confident at all times, and if you are sincere, there will be no problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you get married in college? I think it's better to wait until you graduate. Give yourself a complete and wonderful university and be responsible for yourself.

    There are a lot of different details after getting married, and I think you can't think maturely when you're studying, so why can't you wait until you're ready to think about getting married. Are you in such a hurry? Marriage is a responsibility for yourself and your other half, and now that you are a student, you should fulfill your responsibilities well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Many people have graduated from college in a messy year, and the classmates around them have begun to slowly take turns to enter the marriage hall. Many people will be distressed at this time, and they will have to pay a lot of money, and many people will begin to worry about their partners, because their parents will start urging, and relatives will start to introduce you to the object. At this age, you may have a slight improvement in your work, and you may also start to feel that you can talk to someone and get ready to get married.

    I'm no exception, in the past six months, there are about 20 friends who got married, and some of them have had a particularly good time. I also began to itch when I saw the happiness and joy of their marriage, but I began to retreat when I saw the difficulty of the wedding process. I often discuss marriage with my roommates, but every time I say, "Oh, there is no partner, what to talk about getting married, let's find a partner first".

    It's a pure noise, yes. When the people around you get married, it will affect your thoughts, at least you will feel that you have indeed reached a marriageable age, and you will feel that it is time to find a partner.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can get married, if your relationship is stable and you can further develop your relationship, you can get married, although it is difficult for college student couples to achieve positive results, but there are also those who get married.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're three years older than your boyfriend, and he won't talk to you about getting married. You've known each other for more than a year, and he just graduated and started working, so he probably didn't talk to you about marriage because of the stability of his job and his financial situation. But you are already 26 years old, you can also take the initiative to mention marriage to your boyfriend to see what his attitude is.

    The age of a girl cannot afford to wait.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you hurry up and find a way to marry him, the boy will definitely not matter, he has just come out to work, and he has few ideas and experience.

    After a while, it will not be easy to do, so you also have to be mentally prepared and think about how to go next, the boy definitely has no idea of getting married now, you need to communicate more and say your thoughts.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your situation depends on how you think about it. He has just graduated, has no financial conditions or is still crawling in society, and now is indeed a good time to get married. But your age is there, it doesn't mean that you can't afford to wait, the key is that after more than a year of running-in, how is your relationship?

    If you love each other, everything is not a problem. Whether it is worth cherishing and waiting for, or the same sentence: love is the foundation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If true love has nothing to do with age, you should be very clear about each other's age when you talk about the object. You are 26 years old and facing the age of marriage, if the other party has not given you a certain future, do you have to plan for yourself, whether to continue or leave. Marriage is not only a matter for two people, but also involves family problems for both parties.

    Have you ever met both parents? How do your parents feel about your relationship? Did your parents tell you when you could get married?

    These are very real problems, and the parents who pass the level is the problem of your feelings. For your boyfriend, he has already come out to work, and it is a matter of time to consider getting married. If a man wants to struggle for a few years, and when he is stable, he will consider getting married, then it is better to advise you to leave early.

    There are still good options at 26 years old, don't drag yourself until you are 30 years old and regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend has just started working and may not be thinking about getting married, so if you really love each other, support and encourage each other, and give up if you're not sure about your relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then what are you still doing here, it's very difficult to find after thirty.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You ask him when he will get married, and if he refuses to get married, break up with him. After all, you're not too young to waste much time with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Are you sure you want to marry him? To be honest, I admire you, but to put it mildly, this man is really not very good, at least I am not optimistic about your love. Besides, he hasn't looked for a job in three years, what is your girlfriend doing?

    Do you also have a job, gnawing at the old, or do you have a job, but let him gnaw at the old. If it's the former, then you don't have to worry about it at all, just get married directly, anyway, it's just gnawing the old, just mix together and gnaw hard, it's already so heartless, and you still care about a process, become a family, and fulfill yourself, get married, have children, have pressure, and when your children need to fill in the work of their parents, you will almost know the shame. If it's the latter case, at least it means that you acquiesced in your boyfriend's behavior and didn't do the job that a girlfriend is supposed to do.

    I ask you again, are you sure you want to marry such a person? I don't care if the rich second generation is rich or not, I just know that sooner or later, such a person will make everything in the house. He is a rich second generation, of course you will marry him, so that you don't have to worry about food and clothing, and you don't have to work hard, so it's naturally easy.

    If it weren't for the rich second generation, I don't think you would have insisted on these three years with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What to do? Such an obvious problem must be to let him find a job first, and he can find a job first.

    If he doesn't even have the ability to support himself, how will he support his family in the future, a man must first have responsibility and responsibility, if he doesn't even want to work, what use do you want him to do, do you want you to support him? You still have to tell me that if you don't work and have money, and you can live well, then I have nothing to say, do you still need to work when you are so rich? How good and comfortable it is to continue to gnaw on the old age.

    I think you are asking such a question on the Internet now, you should want your boyfriend to go out to work, you are not so rich rich second generation, if you are rich second generation, you will not ask such a question,. Now I think the top priority is not that you want to get married, but to solve your boyfriend's work first, he has graduated for three years and has no job at present, in fact, it is not a particularly big problem, maybe your boyfriend just wants to take a break for a while, maybe he is also looking for a job, you have to have a good chat with your boyfriend, what is his plan, is he just going to take a break for a while, or he has not found a suitable job, I personally think you should not put too much pressure on him, he may be more anxious now, What's more, he already has three years of work experience, and as long as his heart is not particularly high in the later period, he should still be able to find a job, and now you can still tell him that he can find a job to transition first, and wait for you to get married.

    If your boyfriend has been unemployed in the past three years, he has not been able to stabilize, I think you should not be in such a hurry to get married, take a good look at your boyfriend's work attitude, attitude towards life.

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