His attitude, his departure, am I going or staying?

Men are cheap, it's better to separate the long pain than the short pain, don't bear more sadness in the future for a little happiness in front of you, it's not worth it... It's true.. You have to remember that a woman can love only one man for the rest of her life, but a man can't love only one woman for the rest of his life, that's the nature of men.

And you are separated from each other, and there are many things that you cannot see ...

Can you stand his temper? Usually this kind of temperamental person needs a very docile wife to accommodate him, and if you can do this, you will be together, otherwise I suggest that you give up, otherwise you will suffer yourself in the future.

You should ask your heart, do you still love him? Try to distance yourself from her and see if you can handle it yourself and how he reacts. Now men and women.

Breaking up is very simple, modern people are used to contacting feelings, once they lose their feelings, people will be at a loss, not used to contacting in a primitive way, if you change your number, don't let him contact you, if he still tries his best to find you, you will understand how he treats you.

And during the time you snubbed him, you will also test your emotional orientation, you should know whether to choose or choose!!

Today's men are very cunning Oh It's better to be careful After all, no one can predict what will happen in the future If you really like him, you pay for him, maybe you don't regret it, but if he is really to you, how is he in a bad mood, he shouldn't lose his temper with his girlfriend, because this is unbearable for a woman!

It's hard to get along with a bad temper! I've been talking to my friend for 4 years, and I don't have a good personality, so I'm really tired! I had to give up!

Since you came to ask, it means that you have thought about breaking up.

Is the answer in your mind what you want? Or do you not want it?

After separation, you can see how much you love each other how much you miss each other.

How much do you love him, can you love him enough to live with such a person forever?!

Just think about it and you'll know! Think about it!! ~

The Cold War can last for 20 days! It's not normal, right?

If he still loves you, even if you're wrong.

He'll still come to you.

Even if it's looking for you and arguing with you again!

If you're sure you're wrong, he still loves you.

Then you take the initiative to find him.

Apologize to him. If it is not advised, you should divide it early.

But the decision is yours.

At all costs. I'll give you a word.

As a woman. It is not only necessary to have beauty and kindness.

Be wise and strong, too.

You didn't say what it was because of the Cold War.

How do you look at it?

And men don't think a lot, like women.

If you tell him what you want to talk to him, just tell him, and you'll get it.

As a man, you can die.

But it can't be without dignity.

Since your boyfriend took the initiative to send a message to ask if you are getting better, although he didn't say much, he has let go of his dignity, and the man who has put down his dignity doesn't love you?

You seem to have posted your message

It's nothing, you're thinking too much, he's asking about your condition, which means that he still cares about you

Your language is too little to judge, so you should get to the point. It's nothing, maybe he's too busy, not necessarily, do you want to think about going out, can't be so sad. I thought wrong, and I was going to dismantle a pair of yin edges again.

These things are just a lot of troubles, and there is no way! Silence is golden, listening is silver! Let's talk in person! Do whatever you want!

Sometimes you should sit down and think about how your relationship has gotten! Is there any outside influence! I remember being in this state when I was separated from my ex-boyfriend!

It turns out that his ex-girlfriend is coming back to him! Although I went through it to redeem it, it was a pity that I made up for it. When I think about it, the problem has existed for a long time, it's just that I don't want to let go!

Or you should think about what your relationship really is! If it's your fault, you try to make amends! As long as you still need!

If it's not your fault, and it's not going to be resolved, then don't let this pain torment you for too long. You should always be kind to yourself!

Or you can try to ask him! Is it that I am not doing well there? Coax and see!

If he finally answers you, or points out your question, then he's still angry! If only the same attitude! Then he should reconsider whether it's time for your relationship to end!

If this is really the case, then as a woman, you must not be the outcast! Walk away generously. It may hurt, but as long as you decide, you can't turn back, and the wound will always heal one day!

It's hard to say, boys may also care differently, my girlfriend sometimes says that I don't care enough about him, but in fact, it's just not enough to express it...

I don't think so, he's probably still angry. Sometimes boys also need to be coaxed, and no one wants to break off love easily. So you're coaxing him.

Sometimes boys need to be coaxed too.

When your heart is really aching and tears are about to fall, then quickly look up and see, this sky that once belonged to you; The day is still so vast, and the clouds are still so chic, so you shouldn't cry, because his departure did not take away your world. I like and get used to keeping my distance from things that change, so that I know what is the least of the guidelines that time throws behind. For example, if I love someone, it is full of uncertainties, so I take a step back and look quietly until I see sincere feelings.

When tomorrow becomes today and becomes yesterday, and finally becomes a day that is no longer important in our memory, we suddenly find ourselves unconsciously pushed forward by time, which is not the illusion that we are moving forward in a stationary train, when we intersect with adjacent trains, but we are really growing up, and we have become another self in this matter. Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and there should be sunny weather after the rain. If it rains after rain, if sorrow comes after sorrow

Let us take the parting in stride. Smile and look for an impossible you!

Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and suppress yourself meaninglessly.

Maybe she really likes someone else, so you just let it go!

Khan = = What is the ?? of such a man left

Women don't live for men, if they are not happy together, or if the relationship is gone, only habits remain, why bother to force it. Sometimes the so-called persistence is nothing more than self-deception. Life is short for a few decades, and it's gone when it's over, think more about yourself women.

This boyfriend is still very immature in his mind, he has a somewhat biased view of your feelings and your family, you may just get used to being with him and not love him very much, and if you love him very much, you will consider his feelings first.

If you have such a good job opportunity and want to make more money for the future, he can't support such a plan, then your relationship is really not ready to enter into marriage, don't want to get married because you have lived together for a long time. It is recommended that you accept a new job offer, if he really can't stand this test, then he is not worth your life for him... Think.

Give him a chance to tell the truth, if it is not the right thing again, you should know how to do it, you have your own pursuit.

After reading your question, my first feeling is that you don't have a common language and shouldn't be together at all!

If I'm not mistaken, you shouldn't have graduated from college, of course I don't look down on you, I mean, if you don't go to college, your family will definitely let you get married early, and you want to get married early, and you have something to rely on.

However, he is a recent college graduate, has only worked for a year, and has a p money in his hand, if his family is very rich, it will be okay, he must want to do something in his career, and then think about getting married.

You said that he didn't go up financially, he just graduated from college, and he only worked for one year, how did you say that he didn't go up financially, he didn't work for more than three years, and he wouldn't have any money at all!

If you want me to say, if you want to get married right away, there is no need for the two of you to be together, as the saying goes: persuasion is not persuasion. But the two of you have a difference of 108,000 miles, he definitely won't want to get married in the past two years, even if he is forced by his family to marry you, I believe your marriage will not be happy.

Finally, what I want to say is that you don't know each other well enough, you have been together for 5 years, and you still don't know what he thinks, and he is too, I don't know what you think all day, and if you have been together for so long, I believe that the other party will know what you want to say next.

To sum up, you are not the same kind of person, you have too many different ideas, you don't know each other well enough, and you are not suitable to be together, I hope you will think about it, after all, it is a big deal to get married.

See how you feel about him

Some things don't be impulsive.

Why people who can be together don't cherish each other.

I think this question of yours will happen to a lot of people, for the sake of men, he may want to earn more money, you know that the current housing prices are very expensive, if there is no economic foundation, where do you sleep? What should I do if I get sick? It mainly depends on what aspect of his consideration, if he casually interacts with you and never has the idea of marrying you, then he is not a responsible person, you say that you have been dating for 5 years, and now you are 24 years old, you should be able to understand which kind of idea he has.

If he is for financial considerations, then you can tell him that we have obtained the marriage certificate first, and then we can work hard together, or start a business together after we have a foundation, if he says that there is no house, you say that we can rent a house first, I don't care or anything like that, of course you don't have to do this, just to see what he says, to understand his thoughts, you are not young, you should have the ability to judge.

If his answer makes you feel that he is only for occasional needs, there is no hope of getting along with you for a long time, when the interruption continues, there will be trouble, and you have been dating for 5 years, I want to say from a normal man's point of view, if two people have been dating for 5 years, the man will definitely have some aesthetic fatigue, just like getting married, 7 years of itching have heard of it, right? It is well said in the siege, inside and outside the siege, some people want to go in, and some people want to come out. Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, think clearly if necessary, love is not only that you love him, but love each other, if he loves you, you can feel it!

23 years old is still menstruating! Don't be in such a hurry to get married!

Looking at your problem several times, I always find it difficult to solve.

Now the two of you seem to be a little stiff on this issue, and your grievances may not be noticed by him, because you want him to sincerely want to marry you, so he has not pierced this layer of paper.

The whole article is to see that you are complaining, and there is only one point about the reason why he does not want to get married: I feel that now is not the time, but as for why it is not the time, there is only one conjecture of you - he feels that the economic foundation is not enough.

Since there is no very reliable information, it is impossible to fundamentally solve the idea that he is unwilling to get married, right? If you can't tell the reason for his refusal to go to the visa, then can I suggest that you find an opportunity to talk to him carefully and ask him what he thinks?

From my personal point of view, there can only be one reason not to get married: the parents do not agree. But you already live in their house, and his parents have asked you about the visa, which means that this problem does not exist.

As for the economy or something, it can't be used as an excuse at all, if he doesn't earn enough money in his life, will he not get married for the rest of his life?

If he keeps being like this, I always feel that there is something else hidden, so I might as well talk openly and honestly and make it clear.

Regarding your own psychology, since you feel very uncomfortable not to visa but to possess you. Then you can consider not living in his house, so that your own heart can also be more balanced.

You can talk to him first, just say that you live in his house without a name and no share, and after a long time, your parents will have thoughts and feel unreliable, which will be very detrimental to their relationship in the future, and hope to move out. After all, he can persuade you, but he can't persuade your parents. Actually, your parents asked a few times, that is, they have some opinions on him, but they don't want to be stiff, so they ask you from the side.

When you move out, his parents will definitely ask, and you can also take this opportunity to talk to his parents and talk about your thoughts. It's best not to talk before moving out, it can cause him to misunderstand - you put pressure on him through his parents.

That's basically all there is to it, to sum it up:

1. Find out the root cause of his reluctance to get married;

2. You can consider moving out instead of leaving him;

3. After moving out, he will propose to break up at any time (although he only vaguely feels it, but it is better to remind him).