In the face of love, he said that he was afraid, I was afraid of facing love, I was really sad?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Forget it! My girlfriend and I ended up parting like that!

    Everyone thinks differently, but in fact, the boy is very simple!

    Additional answer: Forget it, I was like that at the time. You'll end up feeling unfree. It's very disturbing. Friends of the opposite sex around you will be far away.

    When your boyfriend breaks up with you. He'll grow up!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I can not be free, I just don't want him to be unhappy Very strong Very strong Really strong Really strong.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Simple boys, but you'll be tired! If you really love him, you should pay for him, go to school, study hard, spend time on homework, go to work, do things well, and then, learn more about other things, such as language and so ,..onSuch a boy will hurt him deeply in the future after breaking up!

    Break up also be tactful!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Have you ever quarreled over this? If you have quarreled....That's better to divide it now...It would be better....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I believe in all friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Communicate more and let him know that you also care about him and that he is something you want to cherish! If you don't get old together, you can send a greeting or a coquettish text message from time to time! Praise him more for his strengths, his benefits, and let him slowly build up his self-confidence!

    Sometimes I learn to be a little jealous, hehe believes that he will get better slowly!

    Finally, I wish you happiness in the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ask why, and everything will be understood.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It shouldn't be that he doesn't believe you, it should be that he doesn't believe you. So help you build your self-confidence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The most feared thing in love is that the other party does not really love you. Or that the love for you is not deep enough.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The woman is most afraid of getting pregnant, but her boyfriend disappears without a trace......

    Men are most afraid of being deceived emotionally and ...... money

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm not afraid of anything, I'm afraid of changing my mind.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Even now I am faced with the fact that the person I love does not love me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm afraid of quarrels, I'm afraid of parting. I'm afraid that the other party will be cold to me, afraid that he won't understand me, afraid that he will misunderstand me. ,.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A look he didn't trust, a look that was more terrible than indifference!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Obviously in love. but not together ... Sky. What to do.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It must be love to the depths of the face of separation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There's a love that doesn't stand up to waiting. There is a kind of love that does not stand up to harm.

    I don't know what kind of love is the most beautiful. Is it the unswerving love to the death, the love between the hand of the son and the wedge of the child, or the love that was once vigorous, experienced ups and downs, and finally came together?

    Along the way, I have seen so many people experience love, pass by love, enjoy love, and escape love.

    Only to find out that there is a kind of love that can't stand waiting, and there is a kind of love that can't stand hurt.

    I remember when I first started to know how to love, I liked to look up and ask L: How long will you love me? ”

    Then he would hold my face fondly, touch the tip of my nose slightly and tell me, "I will love you for a long time, a long time."

    Then I would go on to ask, "How long is it?"

    He would still tell me like a child, "It's been a long time, it's been a long time, it's been a long time, it's been a long time," and the memories are beautiful, and I know that we really loved each other with our hearts at that time. Everything about the other party is so lovely, so impeccable.

    I'm sure we really loved. Care about each other. Miss each other. But love can't help but hurt.

    When it happens, it's so sudden. All the sweetness is gone. All that was left was pain. Just hate, just blank.

    Slowly start learning to protect yourself. Learn to interpret love and find that love is the most unbearable to hurt.

    I know very well in my heart, once I pay sincerely. If you pay the most, then you must be the one who is hurt, so you learn to face everything calmly. Learn to ignore it. Learn to love yourself.

    I no longer ask "how long will you love me" as I find out. Love? You can never afford to wait, and you can't afford to hurt.

    But I still forgot my original intention when I fell into a relationship. I learned not to care, but I learned to protect myself.

    I'm still afraid to give. Fear of injury. I found that I no longer understood what love was.

    If you don't love anymore. Then I'll leave. After all, there is a kind of love that can't help waiting, and there is a kind of love that can't help hurting.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your problem is so vague, how can we help!

    But love is a kind of nature, animals are not afraid, if you are afraid, it can only prove that this is not love!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If there is love in the sky, the sky will be old.

    If a person has love, he will die early

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is very simple, a girl who has been hurt like this can only slowly infect the other party Let the other party see your sincerity This is going to take a long time Because now she is very vigilant and doesn't believe in love anymore So you have to be ready to fight for a long time Be caring and considerate But don't force the other party to make a decision This will only backfire When she trusts you and is not disgusted, you will succeed Hopefully.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Needlessly, I don't dare to love for fear of being hurt, but it's actually just because I haven't met the person I love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't pay too much attention to what others say, after all, it's the life of the two of you, and the main thing is that you all have to cherish your hard-won emotions!Don't let the other person get hurt again!Bless you all!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Nietzsche has a saying: People who are bitter in their hearts show their true colors when they are happy. They grasp happiness as if they were strangled to death out of jealousy, because they know that happiness will eventually escape them!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe you care about the opinions of the people around you, but at least this relationship belongs to the two of you, why do you care about outsiders?You know, sometimes it may be nothing, but what if it's lost now?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes. But it will go on. After all, it was not easy to get together

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Go your own way and don't care too much about what others think!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm a man. In fact, there is an awkward feeling at the beginning of contact. Women may have feelings of fear. You can't just meet him at the beginning, okay?Be friends first, get to know each other first, and have a common language.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    We're always trying to push the limits, but the biggest limit is ourselves.

    Many girls are more reserved, shy, and timid!

    When I was in school before, I always lived in my own thoughts, not because I didn't want to fit in, because I was also afraid of talking to strangers and would always be shy, so in the eyes of others, I was an arrogant Xiaoice sculpture, in fact, I knew that I was not!In fact, one day you will find that when you release your mood and communicate with everyone, you will find that I can also be so relaxed and happy to integrate into it! !

    Talking to strangers is not as complicated and difficult to communicate as you think, as long as you are confident, enthusiastic and generous, I think new friends will like you very much and will communicate with you often!

    I think you are not afraid of love, but not confident in yourself, or caused by nervousness, take a deep breath, take your first love seriously, you can start with good friends, and when you get to know each other, familiarize yourself, and get used to it, you will fall in love with love, fall in love with him and fall in love with your first love!!

    Some people say that the success rate of first love is 5%, I bless you and hope that you will be included in the ranks of these few people by Cupid!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's a matter of mentality. I've had it too. When you treat someone as a friend, you don't feel like there's anything wrong with it, it's natural.

    However, when you are in your heart and are interested in the other person, you will feel very unnatural, and even your movements will be stiff. It's as if there is a wall between you.

    Different loves, there are different ways. Some people like to go straight, others like to be hazy.

    My own way of dealing with it is that when you've had a few experiences, you're going to get better. Each time, think about why this section failed and what you should pay attention to next time.

    Also, love is still hazy at the beginning. The flower in the water, the moon in the mirror, is used for fantasy, if you really want to concretize him, then you will lose the feeling of love. Of course, in the later stage, love is concrete, and at that time, it will come naturally.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, you have to get your mindset right.

    There is nothing to be afraid of in the world, only to be afraid of yourself.

    Don't you have self-confidence?

    It is recommended that you go to see Theodore Bagwell (T-Bag) in prison to see how confident and open you are to everything.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not good to be sure that the relationship is good when you meet for the first time, and for a slow-burning type like you, I think it's better to be friends with him first, and then get to know him slowly. And when you say you can't communicate, you're not confident. To believe that you are good, of course, you can talk naturally.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you have mutual friends, you can hang out together, and then confess to her in a relaxed atmosphere as if jokingly, see her reaction, and you will have a plan! You can also ask your mutual friend to help you ask her what she means first, and then you can make a decision!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's better to be friends first and get to know Oh If that girl feels good about you, then you can confess Don't hesitate all the time, it will be snatched away by others. . .

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It depends on how old she is, if she is a student (not including elementary school and college), you tell her, let's get along? I treat you with all my heart. If she is an adult, take her and her best friend (female) to the song hall and tell her to be my girlfriend!

    Don't talk about being too big, it's only limited to about 14-20.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Take your time, first of all, you must find opportunities to contact more, create opportunities to speak, communicate more slowly, and cultivate feelings, not two choices of love and not love. With the passage of time, when the relationship between the two parties is cultivated to a certain concentration, seize the opportunity to express it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Two words are the key "brave".

    OK, it's as simple as that!

    Resist the tension, and hold back no matter how long you wait for a reply, because you're a boy!

    The final thing to say is, don't think about what the result will be, there is no point in thinking too much

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The two of us are quite similar, we have been hurt, and we are afraid to love again, love, but we don't know how to manage this relationship, hehe...In the face of problems and contradictions, calm down, think carefully, tell each other your thoughts, perhaps, there is a breakthrough.

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