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From your question, I can tell that your usual popularity is not very good, right? First of all, you have to know that everyone wants to make friends that are meaningful to them. If a person does something inappropriate when socializing with a friend, it will often make the other person not want to associate with you from the bottom of their hearts.

So there is often a phenomenon of rejection of you. And it takes an art to communicate. The qualities of kindness, gentleness, kindness, and helpfulness will make you a lot of friends.

So you need to change your personality moderately. Secondly, you need to reflect on your own behavior, see what you have done in the past, thirdly, you can be honest with your friends, say that you know that they are deliberately rejecting you, and then tell them that you now know that it is my own shortcomings, that I have done something inappropriate, which caused such a result, and tell them that I know that I am wrong, I hope they can give themselves a chance to change, remember to pay attention to expressions, feelings and words when speaking, and finally based on sincerity in later life Treat friends with a kind heart, learn to empathize, and think from the perspective of friends. Remember to smile when interacting with people.

A smile is the shortest distance of communication between people.

I guess he has an opinion about you. Or his character is someone who doesn't care what other people think. I feel like I just need to be myself. There's no need to make people care about you.

One way can ignore him, and the other you can touch the things he is most interested in and care about, and then amplify this thing, and suddenly cut in, and he will be shocked by you.

Whether it is relatives or friends, you have to remember that people have the bad nature of hating the poor and loving the rich, go and fill your pockets with money, and then the people who stink you will come to slap you, there is no other way.

This seems to have been done several times, and I myself usually shouted (of a hundred people on the ground) that someone must respond.

The more people grow up, the easier it is to be swayed by interests, if you really treat you as a true friend, it will not be like this, for the sake of money in front of you to be honest, it is really not intimate with you, and you don't have to take it too seriously, and return the money as a general friend.

Then forget it, don't ask next time;

Don't reply to her either! If he had the heart, he would explain it to you! If you keep asking, she'll find you annoying! Can we give ourselves a little self-esteem?

Don't rush, wait. Perhaps he felt that the question was a bit difficult and should be carefully considered.

Maybe someone else has something to do and doesn't have time.

And then ignore him no matter when he comes back.

You are always afraid that one of your words will disturb his concentration at work. You are always afraid that playing with your friends and colleagues will affect the time you spend with them. You are always afraid that if you disagree with him, you will be seen as incomprehensible and intolerant.

You are so careful to get along with him, accommodating him in everything, and you are afraid that your every move will affect each other's feelingsI also hope that one day he will understand your good intentions and return to your arms. Then you are too naïve.

Before doing anything, you must consider the feelings of others, and you don't want to refuse what others ask you to do, no matter how wronged you are, you will still do your best to do it well, anyway, your own things will always be put in the end. Put such a character on the emotional side, you can only play a sensible role, take care of each other like a mother, constantly tolerate, pay, and be unconditionally good to him, but you will still be afraid that he will be angry, look at his face and behave. But he will only touch your bottom line again and again, and even ruthlessly say the word breakup.

Give yourself some time to calm down and see if there is still a need to maintain this relationshipIf a man is not even willing to talk to you, no matter what you do or say, he will treat it as if he does not know. If you keep pestering him, it will make him disgusted and stay away from you. The most important thing you need to do at this time is to give yourself a moment to calm down and think about your future.

When you think about how you get along in this relationship, you may find that he doesn't really like you. He just needs to be in a relationship, and you're just the right fit, that's all.

Instead of pestering a man who ignores you all day long, it is better to find yourself again, love yourself well, and maybe have unexpected gains. If he doesn't know how to cherish it, it can only mean that your fate is not enough. Sooner or later, you will meet the one who is really good to you.

I'll talk to him once and see what's wrong? How do we need to coordinate, etc.

Giving up is the best response, and I won't continue to insist on such love.

If this is the case, I will choose to separate, after all, I find someone who loves me, I hope to get warmth, and I can't even get warmth, so what are we doing together?

Leave him decisively, for this kind of lover who is no different from nothing, it is better not to have it.

No, some men just don't take the initiative, which will inevitably make girls feel that they don't care about themselves. Offer: Interview him. Since it's a couple, what do you say, solve the problem and the rest will be easy to do! In fact, girls can't be so stingy.

I'm going to be very angry, but I'm not going to show it, I'm going to talk to him, because being angry won't solve anything.

I will take the initiative to take care of him, play with him, chat with him, and find out my own shortcomings.

The most feared thing is to ignore it, so I think we must learn to communicate.

Is it to ignore it in the first place? That's that she really doesn't want to talk to you. Talking and ignoring you? If you ignore it for one day and ignore it for two days, then don't bother her, it's just three things.

Cold salad, the sensible first snub her for a while, see if she is looking for you, if not, just die,

Cool her for two days to see if she takes the initiative to talk to you, if not, forget it, people are not interested in you at all.

It's possible that people are busy, and they will reply when they are done!

If you don't reply to your message, it means that people don't care about you.

Wait, wait, wait, wash, sleep.

Let's see if she has something to delay, if not, she doesn't want you to ignore you.

Don't talk about it, people don't care about rice at all.

1 Something is true.

2 Take a different path.

Don't talk, you're not fellow travelers.

When you are left out in the cold for a while, it will be no fun if you don't look for you, so let's die.

Maybe there's something, and there's just that I don't like you. The former forgive, and the latter blackmails.

Dead skin, send it again, and find a way to find a topic she likes.

How have you become now, I feel exactly like you, so annoying, and I have started to laugh perfunctorily with my relatives, and I feel that there is nothing to make me laugh from the bottom of my heart.

Read more books to enrich yourself first, according to the logic you send is that you don't want to talk to others first, then see why you don't want to talk to others, if the knowledge is too little, read more books, if you feel that others don't pay attention to you Think about why, I believe that freezing three feet is not a day's cold, at first the people around are also kind, this situation As long as you are conscious, yourself slowly explore, the people around you will follow your kindness to them, will also return to the goodwill behavior.

It's hard to feel like seeing anyone, not wanting to talk because you know that any decisions you have made before are wrong.

Keep a journal and wait for a friend who suits you to show up; You also have to reflect on yourself: whether you are doing something badly.

Don't think so much about letting go of your mind, if you think too much, there will be psychological problems, because if you think too much, you will get depressed, and if you are depressed, you don't want to talk to anyone, and people in the body don't like to stay with a person who is angry, so find yourself again and be that optimistic person.

The key is to have a correct mentality, I used to be like this, I feel very flustered when communicating with others, and I am afraid that others will think that I am annoying to speak, as long as you have a correct attitude and listen to others more, you will definitely be fine

Just make yourself lively, take the initiative to talk to others, I get up early every day and go out and come back late, many people can't see my shadow, and I rarely have contact with them.

It's nothing, it's best not to be ashamed to ask. Are you always afraid that others will ignore you? It doesn't matter, you just ignore him, so many people can ask, and there will always be one who cares about you. It would be nice to ask too much.

Well, I'm also afraid, everyone loves face. It's about whether or not you're asking a question that you have to ask, and you're going to put it aside and don't care about anything else.

When asking others, be humble and sincere.

Is it a problem with your personality I always feel that if your personality is okay, no one will reject you Take myself as an example Before high school, I was always afraid of making friends with others and preferred to be alone Later, I came into contact with more people I will unconsciously integrate into the circle of others, at least you should be interested in people who are similar to you Start from this aspect Then pay attention to your words and deeds Maybe you yourself will not find out what you do will make others think of you, respect others is also respect yourself Be polite to others And when it's time to behave, do something that makes others appreciate you, and naturally someone will like you, and friends are not forced to have incompatible personalities and don't need to be pulled together One day you will find a circle that suits you.

Reflect on what you are not doing well and improve it, and listen more and understand others more, so as to understand and have a tacit understanding with others, bless you.

If it's goodwill, then I don't care. But malice is different. In fact, it is not RMB, and it is normal for some people to dislike it.

1 Internally: Reflect on yourself. One person saying that he is not good may be prejudice, two people saying that he is not good may really be a little bit wrong, if many people say that they are not good, they may really have to wake up. If there is, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be encouraged.

2 From the outside: Don't be too affected by the external environment. Reflect on yourself not saying that what others say is what it is. It's targeted. After correcting yourself, you still have to work in your own general direction, rather than wavering at will.

In the past, Hanshan asked: "There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, despise me, hate me, and deceive me, how to deal with it?" ”

He said: "Just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years, and you will see him." "We live in this world, it is impossible to satisfy everyone, but we live for ourselves, isn't it, others can slander you, can reject you, for us, we may be depressed, maybe we will be helpless, but why do we bother to affect our actual mood for the subjective imagination of others, why not let go of a little, it is those who think that there is nothing, even if the world is barren, there will always be someone who will accompany you and be your truest believer, so let it go, what others do is someone else's business, and you can be happy