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It depends on whether your so-called betrayal is unforgivable, in fact, no one does not make mistakes, but as long as you can sincerely change, that is the loveliest person, that is the most lovely person, that is to start over, don't sentence others to death because of one thing, give each other another chance.
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There is no need for this, if he really loves you, he will forgive you, go and tell him what is in your heart, if he does not forgive you, it means that he does not love you so much at all, and you don't have to be sad, let alone die.
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It's useless for you to die, will he not marry for you for the rest of your life? Now it's up to him to react. If he still has you in his heart, you have to do more for him and let him know your repentance. If he is determined to leave you, he has to give up. If you know today, why bother in the first place.
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A vigorous love finally ended in betrayal, remembering how difficult it was to be together and how many ups and downs we have gone through.
When thinking about leaving.
Never, as long as you still love.
It's okay. At this time, people only have this life and no afterlife. Treasure.
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Yes to start. But it's hard to stay long!
It doesn't matter how many people can do it, if both of you can do it, that's fine.
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Yes, it depends on whether you still have each other in your hearts, as long as they are still there.
You will still be happy, I wish you happiness.
If you love, love deeply
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Yes! As long as you still love.
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You should know him better than anyone else
If so, you should pick up the last courage
Ask him, love him
It's up to you
If he doesn't accept it, he's afraid that he's hurting, and he understands
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It is difficult to heal the shadows and wounds of the past.
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OK. But there are shadows.
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It depends on the extent of the incident.
If you feel that you can accept it, you can continue, and if you can't accept it, don't continue.
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To prove his heart for him. It doesn't have to be so extreme to die. If he still loves you. He will surely forgive you.
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Then you can admit his mistake and see what kind of attitude he has, if not, it will not be too late to die.
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It depends on the seriousness of the matter, not necessarily.
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What are you doing while you're still alive? Wasting our air.
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In love, if you like it, you will chase after the breakup, and then you will reconcile when you quarrel, because you don't need face in love, sometimes we care too much about our face, and we may lose the person we love the most, some people use their mouths to love someone, and many people love with their hearts, so that they will get more love, because the other party feels their love, and they will get along with themselves in the same way, of course, the premise of this is that the two love each other. Can you go back to the past after betrayal? Why?
I think that after betrayal, you can't go back to the past, and when you betray, you completely lose hope in this relationship, and you will leave a shadow in your heart, even if you are together again, it will only be a repeat of the past, which will make two people feel guilty. <>
One. You can't go back to the old days after betrayal.
In fact, the most unacceptable thing in the relationship is that your beloved betrayed you, and at that moment you feel abandoned by the whole world, and you are the person you take care of in the world before you will be abandoned by your beloved. It is difficult for many people to get out of this relationship, wash their faces with tears every day, when they get out of this relationship, the other party comes back and makes peace with themselves, and it is impossible to go back to this relationship, because two people have left a shadow in their hearts, and they do not fully trust each other in life, they will have infinite suspicion, and the other party will feel that the other party is no longer worthy of being their lover. <>
Two. Don't love someone, and don't choose to betray the other person.
In the relationship, we should not always step on a few boats, be loyal to love, when we lose our feelings with the person we love, we must be frank and tell each other our inner feelings, rather than let the other party have been trapped in this relationship, and they have started a new relationship, which is an irresponsible performance, and it will also make people feel very disgusted. To love someone is to be responsible for the other person, not to make the other person feel extremely hopeless. <>
The above is just a personal opinion, so do you think you can go back to the past after the betrayal?
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Of course, we can't go back to the way things were. It's like after a piece of paper has been crumpled. If you flatten it again, there will still be wrinkles. When you quarrel about this later, you will still bring up the betrayal again.
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I can't go back to the past, because the relationship is broken, there is already a gap between the two people, and I care very much about this kind of thing.
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After the betrayal, I don't think I can go back to the past, because at this time there is already a gap between the hearts of the two people.
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There is no way to go back to the past after being betrayed by feelings, no matter what kind of thing you do, there is no way to go back to the way before the imitation, because there will always be a thorn in each other's hearts, you know that this person has betrayed and done something sorry for you, how can you do nothing that has not happened? Anyway, I can't be so generous, and no one can persuade me to be generous, and I will never be able to pass that level in my heart.
Some people may think that he has now known that he was wrong, and it is a good thing to be able to turn back. Why should we stand still and wait for him to turn back? He hurts us when he wants to hurt us, and comes back when he wants to come back, so why should I wait in this place forever?
Why should he suffer such a grievance? He is not the only one in the world, why should I waste my good youth waiting for him to turn back, so I am unwilling to do this, even if others propose a solution to me, I am not willing to do it.
I always feel that when two people are together, they should be single-minded, I don't require you to love me for a lifetime, if you don't love me halfway, you can choose to break up with me, but you can't do sorry, my thing, the relationship is very fragile, he may not be able to be like we promised when we got married, there may be some people who want to get off the bus, and the relationship has changed, I can understand.
If you really can't get by, you can choose to fight or divorce me, you can choose to break up with me, but you can't choose to betray me, because I think it's an insult to my personality. I've been with you for so long, I've given everything, I'm sure you gave a lot at the beginning, but in the end you made this relationship a joke, so how can I go back to the past? I feel sick to see you, and I want to laugh in my heart.
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After the betrayal, you can't go back to the past, and you want to go back to the past, unless the two Huai people put down the estrangement in their hearts, and then the bridge friends care about each other, understand and tolerate each other, so that they can go back to the past.
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You can't go back to the way things were, and if you want to go back to the way things were, the two of you have to communicate calmly and make each other swear that they will never do this again.
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It is still possible to go back to the past, but it takes both parties to work together to solve it, so that things can go back to the beginning.
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Can the feelings of betrayal go back to the way they were?
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You have to know how to communicate your expectations to the other party, and only by letting him know that you want him to concentrate on returning to the family and then be faithful to your marriage, can he really understand your needs and understand whether some of his personal actions make you feel inappropriate and unsafe. In addition, the interaction between you expressing your real experiences and perceptions as his, will also ease your inner state of mind and help everyone more likely to agree.
All in all, if you have an idea, you need to communicate, and if you have an experience, you need to express it, and you need to act more to your expectations, so that you can realize that everyone is associated with changes under your behavior, and you can't passively accept that you have been waiting to send a signal of change. Behavior will also give you a sense of control, and a sense of control will also give you the power to help reduce negative understanding.
After the tolerant rebellion, two people have a lot of common responsibilities due to marriage and family, and there must be interaction, communication, and discussion in the process. And your relationship is actually inseparable from these interactions, and I will work hard to achieve what should be done to repair the relationship in this exchange.
For example, if you have any problems getting along with each other in the past, you are too strong, or you are too independent, after you are together again, you have to change the status quo in these aspects; Balance the shortcomings between two people as much as possible, and will not repeat the previous difficult ways. Learn to let go of expectations and join in the process of tinkering, so that you can analyze your relationship more concretely along with emotional trends. In the same way, your actions will give you a sense of control, helping you to slowly stay sober and see the problems you face in real needs, rather than defining the state of your marriage with unrealistic expectations as you did at the beginning.
After doing the first few steps, you have to understand that many things cannot be carried out exactly according to your intentions, your partner may not know how to reconcile, and your partner may not understand that you will be reconciled in the form you expect, and the next thing you have to do is to accept. You have done everything you can, you have replaced your expectations with deeds and done diligence, the next thing you have to do is to accept, if he knows how to reconcile as before, you will be happy; If he doesn't know how to reconcile, you don't have to be cold, you have already done what you should do, and you have no regrets.
Treat your partner kindly, treat yourself with kindness, and by taking action and effort in the three-step process here, you are the one who changes the most. You will have a more active sense of managing your life, you will know how to be more diligent for the life you want to live, you will know how to treat conclusions with a good attitude, you will learn to let go of expectations of your partner, and you will have a deeper understanding of your life direction and quality of life.
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Read more books. Exercise more. Work hard to earn money. Enrich your inner world. Don't be discouraged, be confident. More contact with excellent members of the opposite sex.
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In the face of betrayal, don't be nostalgic, there are only two best choices: 1: If you are still in love, then find a way to make the other half turn back; 2: If you don't love it, stop it in time.
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You must first see how much property the other party has, and you also need to ask your children who they want to follow, and you need to ask for the money that your husband gave to her lover.
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Not necessarily, but you can't have a new start without letting go. We are very reluctant to give up on some people or things, but the more you don't let go, the more you will hurt yourself, so we must learn to let go.
If he really loves you, how can he like that girl's tenderness to him, he is stepping on two boats like this, he is not worthy of your love. Separate as soon as possible and find your own happiness.