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We all feel uncomfortable in the face of people we hate, this is a normal psychological phenomenon. In this case, you need to adjust yourself, and take the initiative to face the people you hate in the future, which should be regarded as a kind of exercise for your psychological quality. Learn to challenge yourself and break through yourself, so that you will gradually become better and better.
Also, if you really have to face the person you hate, you can try to find the advantages of that person, and strive to look at people with an appreciative eye, so that you can feel comfortable and learn from the strengths of others, why not.
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I think people who force a smile every day are very tired, I don't know what I insist on and I have to insist, in order to get along with a group of people who don't understand me, I have to force a smile on their faces, pretending to be very good, life is like a drama all depends on acting skills, everyone is a good actor, it is really difficult to live as you want. I really hope that everyone can live as themselves, not actors.
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Being exposed to all kinds of ugly photos of you in front of many people, but I always comfort myself, and I don't care about the magnanimity shown by everyone, but suddenly I do this to others, and it is my own fault that others are angry, and I don't know how to say it in the face of these, so I just laugh and laugh and this thing is over, always, my feeling is that although I laugh, but I am very unhappy.
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I liked her for nine years, and we were together when I was about to graduate from college in the tenth year. I want to be able to live a good life together after graduation. After graduating, I went to a city and wanted her to come with me.
It may be because of the fear of the new environment, unwillingness, and wanting to take the civil service examination in this province. One day, he said to me lightly that he was admitted to the civil service of such and such a city. I smiled and congratulated her, at least the future job or something was decided.
Actually, I know everything, the boy she always liked was in graduate school in that city.
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The days when I forced my face to laugh were after my ex-husband proposed to divorce and move out of the family, and I had to play house games with my young children every night, my son pretended to be a father and I still had to be a mother, I couldn't cry but laugh, I couldn't break down but be strong.
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To be honest, I haven't felt this way in years! Once a person matures, he can see the essence of people, there are too many people he hates or dislikes, human beings are not a gregarious creature, although things gather by like, there will be contradictions over time, which may make you hate someone and see the essence clearly. Experience a lot of you in a new environment.
Will treat the people around you equally, and will not like or hate too much, even if you find that someone has a lot of shortcomings, you will not say forced smiles, just nod and say hello when you meet, unless some work exchanges will say a little more, people will have a collapse in their hearts. The feeling of forced smile is too much, I am still in my student days, I have not experienced the whipping of society, my heart is relatively simple, and I still can't wipe off the face of my classmates.
Now that I have been working for several years, I have really matured and grown a lot, and I will no longer simply hate a person and like a person. I care more about how to improve my ability, and I will never force a smile to cater to others, even if it is the boss, strong ability is king, and others can help me! The boss can't help me!
The highest level of hating people is not to force a smile but to smile with him. Maybe what he understands is that you are friendly to him, in fact, you know in your heart that there is a xx one in front of you, some things don't have to be too expressed, expressing them may cause unnecessary trouble to yourself, but you just understand it in your heart, and you don't have to care about what others think of you, go your own way.
Insist on doing a good job of your own purity, greet others with a smile, between people first have to be good to others first, whether others are willing to be good to themselves, is the freedom of others, so every day to see the people you hate, but not forced to laugh is a feeling that you don't feel.
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I've always hated people I don't like. There is only one possibility for laughter: schadenfreude. And the subject, why do you force your face to laugh? They are not Grandpa Mao.
You smile at them, do you have half a dime in benefit and gain? (If you think you need to force a smile for the sake of so-called face, don't you think your face is too cheap?) You can learn from me, and spray all the people you don't like until they doubt their lives and are powerless to fight back.
I don't care what they say about me behind my back, at least no one dares to fight back in front of me. Also, I think if people can get along well, they should get along well. If you hate each other, it's really better to tear your face, and it's best to never get along with each other.
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No, because I hate someone, I don't talk to her too much. didn't give a look, and smiled.
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Yes, I think everyone will, after all, you have to be strong, and you can't get up and down.
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Yes, because there will always be times when you can't do what you want.
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Yes. My self-esteem doesn't allow me to cry in front of people I hate.
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No, you don't have to care about the eyes of people you hate, and if you don't get along, you won't get in touch.
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Yes, when this happens, it is often a matter of necessity.
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Yes, because I don't want him to be happy because I'm not happy.
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Yes, sometimes you can't help yourself when you grow up.
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No, I don't usually do anything, I don't do anything like that.
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I will force a smile on my face, even if it is someone I hate, I will not show it, and maintaining a good surface relationship is the key to interpersonal communication.
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It depends. If it's a particularly annoying person, I won't be false with this person at all, just stay away from this person, so as not to get in the way and ruin the mood. If there is only a little contradiction between us and the person who is not particularly annoying, then we can still get along without incident.
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