Two women, how do I choose. Ask for help!

Updated on society 2024-05-14
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As a person who has come over, I advise you to choose the former, when you lose your freshness and interest in the latter, he is the second former, do you think that no matter how you run on the road of love, the final starting point is always at the origin, is this choice right? Feelings are nothing more than satisfying the needs of both parties If you don't need the former anymore Then separate Don't delay the girl who is good to yourself for your own possessiveness This is an irresponsible behavior and a stupid choice that is a pure waste of time and patience on both sides You can't give him happiness Please let go of your hand and let others give him happiness for you People ultimately love their own desires, not what they want! If you give up what you want for your own desires, it feels a bit more than worth the loss, if the latter is really the happiness you want, then please give the former the right to choose your own happiness, don't make a futile rebellion on feelings that have no meaning and value, there is no future, and this relationship is destined to be nothing more than a dying relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    And I think it's a tough question to decide, but it's not that hard.

    The first thing to do is what kind of personality you are.

    The second depends on what you want of your object.

    If you feel that you are good enough to think and practice something very sensible on your own, then you should choose the former, because she listens to you, and your right opinions and decisions will be implemented quickly, and your life will be closer to your own wishes.

    If you feel that your self-determination is not enough, and you need someone behind you to push you, then the latter is a good choice.

    Of course, this is my personal opinion.

    How to do it is still up to you, I just want you to choose carefully.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Please select the latter. Because even if you have the former, you will still fall in love with someone else.

    So it's better not to hurt the former.

    Are you going to be a man or a brute.

    It's up to you to choose.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, I think that the first girl may be better for you to love, but it depends on your own feelings, the second girl may be more independent, but don't let him be as open as a boy, if it's an open type, you have to be careful, but I think the latter girl should be better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Stay with the second one. Don't dwell on it anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Come on, we'll be ten years from now ... They turned around the former playground plastic runway together, walked under the big poplar trees together, and finally they came to the playground**, looking at this place that was once full of people doing morning exercises, only the three of them were empty at this time, and they couldn't help but feel excited, yes, this big playground didn't know how many joys, sorrows, sorrows, and joys and sorrows they had experienced together! At this point, the boy suggested that they do the microphone game they had done in gym class all over again, (anyway, he belongs to the kind of person who is bold and daring to take ideas about anything), but immediately regretted it, not because of the game itself, but because he felt that the form of the game itself needed to be improved at this time of day.

    In the end, he proposed to them to change the front and back of the three to stand side by side, and change the way of communication to shout to the sky together. All three agreed, and then the three of them held hands and raised their hands together and shouted in unison

    Everyone should be happy, but don't go too far! (It means that each of them has to find their own happiness, although their understanding and meaning of happiness are different, but their respective happiness does not deviate from the constraints of responsibility, morality and the meaning of life).

    We will always be good classmates and good friends, but we all have to work hard to find and build our own families and live happily!

    An inspirational song by NAS I Can. Youku search nas i know i can Chinese and English subtitles can be seen. Bless you and myself!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Plain is a lifetime, just forget if you don't understand.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First, she is accommodating enough for you. You can't do it without deep love. It is conceivable that if the two of them can't be together in the future because of work, she will definitely be willing to sacrifice herself for you.

    The second one, maybe she is better looking, has a better figure, and you like to listen to what she says. But from your description, 1, she may also have a third boyfriend, if this is the case, you have no advantage; 2. A woman will never forget her first man in her life, she has a 60% chance of returning to her first boyfriend, and you have no advantage.

    To sum up, there is no suspense in choosing the first one. Don't blame me for saying you, you are a bit hypocritical, you can't be eaten outside, and you can't be a reference standard for your wife. Maybe you continue to hesitate, the first girlfriend in 2 years will slowly leave you, to believe that a good girl is always so dazzling, like a firefly in the dark night.........

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