Boredom in adolescence 20, boredom in adolescence

If you can go into college hand in hand, you will confess, and if you can't, you will always leave a place in your heart for her.

Go straight to it, don't be afraid, be brave, you're still young, the most successful thing to do is to accumulate experience or when it's a love failure experience in life, you're going to leave this school, you have to speed up the time to find an opportunity to tell her, don't delay, I don't know if you can see her after the delay, I think the sooner you fall in love, the better, don't wait until you reach the age of marriage and you can't talk about it before you feel that you have lost a lot of opportunities before, you still know very few people when you come out to work, so many objects when you are studying in school, It's well developed. But it depends on what the woman you're chasing thinks, if she doesn't like you, she doesn't want to fall in love while studying, and she rejects your love, you can find another one to develop.

Don't think about it so much, the high school entrance examination is important, the love in middle school is not long-lasting, and you will be separated soon, there is no need to waste time.

I think about it a lot. I'm still studying.,Don't talk about the conditions or anything.。。 When you meet the conditions, then she doesn't know who it is, and quickly find the right opportunity to tell her that you like her.

Girls are happy to know that someone likes them. No matter how shy you are, your heart will be very refreshed. That's when your chance might come.

It is very normal and very common for adolescent children to have such a mentality, so don't have any mental burden.

The main reason why you are shy when you see beautiful women is because you don't know her or them, and you can't help but have a sense of mystery in your heart that they are superior!

Of course, there is also a very important reason that you are not confident, you have a certain inferiority complex, you may feel that your grades are not good, you are not handsome, you are not smart enough, and so on. Low self-esteem is also a common psychological trait at this age.

It is recommended that you make more friends with the so-called beauties, talk more, communicate more, and slowly get to know them through contact, in fact, they are just ordinary ordinary people, and there may be such and such shortcomings.

Also, I hope you will focus more on your studies and remember:

Confidence comes from strength!!

I hope you can untie this knot by yourself and spend a healthy and happy youth!!

Children. Go with the flow! Don't overthink it! The most important thing is to be happy!

Everyone will have their own troubles at a stage! I understand that. But if I want to help you, I can't do anything!

I'm also from your age. You're an adolescent now, when you're older. You will find that adolescence has the troubles of puberty.

But the troubles of adolescence are actually nothing!

Listen to your uncle, whatever troubles, you are cheerful to face. Happy face. You will find that any trouble will be solved to achieve twice the result with half the effort! Think of your troubles as a kind of growth. A kind of experience! Come on!

I'm like this. There's no way, adolescence can't be escaped, and when you get through it, you'll find that the rest of your life will be fine, because there's no bondage.

What are the good troubles to talk about?

I like simple people, but I don't exclude complex people, and being with complex people is more able to give full play to your strengths.

There are many ways to improve your self-awareness, but no matter how good the method is, you must have the determination to implement it.

Mature and calm, you have experienced a lot, numbness, and sophistication, in the eyes of others, you are mature, isn't it very painful.

You will never be able to discover the ugliness of human nature, you will never know how low the bottom line of human nature will be, don't dig out, you will be disappointed, you will be disappointed in society.

It's hard to say how to improve this.

After two years in society, you will understand everything.

1 Complex people, I haven't dealt with them, but I'll try it, because some complex people are just superficial. 2. Improving self-consciousness mainly depends on your heart, and if you don't want to learn anything, you can say some encouraging words to yourself in your heart, which will have some effect. Doing things maturely and calmly still depends on your heart.

3 You can first dig into some of them, and if you find that they are really ugly in their hearts, you should think: they don't want to be like that, it's a social factor. 4. The ugliness of human nature is generally like picking up money and not changing it, people are in trouble and watching from the sidelines, and so on.

If you are confident that you can get into university, you don't need to go to school. The mentality of high school students who are about to take the exam is the most important, and it is enough to not consider whether the problem will be or not, but only whether they can persist in completing all the subjects.

Senior year... What country are you from.

Spend more time with your classmates and treat learning as fun.

Maybe it's just fear, the relationship is too complicated and intimate. It's still a simple ordinary friend who won't have too many concerns. You tell me?

One is that she is shy, and the other is that she doesn't know how to reply to you, if she really loves her, just continue to ask her, and just say it to her cheekily a few times.

My good luck is naturally good!

She doesn't necessarily dislike you, she may just be embarrassed, a traditional idea is at work, so you have to pay attention to the proportions of your interactions, slowly get in touch with each other, and eventually become a family member if you have a lover.

Maybe it's shyness, maybe he's embarrassed, after all, it's a female classmate, and it still needs to be carefully observed.

Well, to be honest, I'm from here. In fact, this kind of thinking is normal at this time, the ignorance of love, the rebellious period is about to go, and the academic pressure is great.

At this time, you will think a lot, indicating that it is beginning to mature. But you're going to be scared of why you're thinking about all this mess, and you're going to run away from it, and you're going to find that you're thinking about it more. At this time, unless you have to be sober, there is no need to force yourself to stop this uncontrolled thinking.

If you don't finish thinking about it, you will soon get into it again, and if you follow the thought, you will find that the more you think about it, the more tired you will get of thinking like this, and on the contrary, the more you keep rejecting your subconscious desire will be. Of course, this approach is a bit extreme, and I'm not a professional, so that's how I came here.

Actually, I recommend the method of distraction, which is to play with friends and do more questions, anyway, you are going to face a big exam, it will be better to distract your attention to these, if you really want to see that girl then it is useless to just say cranky. The most important thing is to communicate with others and confide in you, during this period you may lack a sense of trust in many people, and you may not get out of the rebellious period of youth and are bored with your parents, but I still recommend you to talk to your parents about this, one person is good, two people you will not be able to let go. Parents often say that you shouldn't do it, but they will understand what you do.

For example, my mother is a more traditional person, and he told me that as long as I am studying, even if I am going to graduate school, I will not have a girlfriend. But one day, after the incident, I talked to her for two hours about my past, including elementary school love, and junior high school contact with sexual knowledge, but my mother didn't scold me, but joked with me.

The same question I ask you: this is the troubles of adolescence. It's good that puberty has passed.

Remember, never make up your mind too early about yourself or anything else, because no one knows what tomorrow will bring.

It should be your hiding and can't dodge, it's not that you can't ask for it, do a good job in the present, let go of the past, regardless of the future! You can be wonderful in a light life!

I'm also going through the big exam, I'm going to take the exam next year, and in some ways, falling in love or a lot is more or less helpful to people, for example, I can make a comparison with you, help each other, my grades have improved, if I feel that it will affect my grades, you can wait, what can I do? Tell her to wait two more years ......If you are a friend, I am a big grinning person, and I usually have classmates who will laugh with me, but not all of them, with a heart that cares about others, you must have a lot of friends.

You're so busy, so tired, and your head is empty.

Actually, you don't have to think so much, you just try to do it yourself! Leave them alone! They may not accept you because you always want to be unjudgmental.

Arbitrary point!! Your girlfriend should talk to her more, and talking will not affect her studies, so talk to her more! Talk to her from the heart!!

That's it.

Go with the flow, the more you ask, the more disappointed you are.