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In fact, I feel that you have to talk to your parents-in-law and tell them what you think, if you can get their approval and support, what will not be difficult, your husband depends on his parents, it is because his parents are willing to let him depend, what if his parents no longer let him? Will it change? Don't move out, don't turn good things into bad things, change the nature of things, it's not good, if their parents are still like this, then they will spend money in the future or something will pretend to cry poor, slowly transfer the economic pressure to the old couple, let them realize the existence of pressure, you and then talk to them to find a way, this will be better, his parents will think that you and them are of the same mind, really for the good of this family, now the parents are doting because they do not realize what the consequences will be in the future, Why don't you let them see the consequences in advance.
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Since he is your husband, you have to tell him the truth about the family, let him know the situation at home, and what about being an only child. If it's a man, you have to take the lead in the family, and if you are a family, you have to say something, if you don't say it, then you're an outsider. Besides, a man should raise a family, and no matter how tired he is, he has to let him go according to the situation at home, which is his responsibility.
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Since he and his parents are not worried about what you are anxious about, what if you really let your husband do that tiring job and exhaust your body? Don't force him, otherwise it will only make him love you less and less, you can talk to him about the family's debts and future pressures, so that he can take on the ability to be a man and a husband.
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Your husband is spoiled, he doesn't want to do any tiring work, he doesn't look like a man, he has never suffered so he has developed a bad habit of laziness, you should find a chance to make him suffer a little, experience life, maybe he will improve his current state.
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In this case, it is useless to say it. That's a human being, not a cow, let you lead it. Whatever, women, he eats, drinks, buys clothes, and others let the men worry about going into debt, and he will naturally find a way.
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You should tell him the truth about the situation at home, let him have a sense of crisis, let him know that he is the backbone of the family, and he can't be blindly lazy and not motivated.
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If there is pressure, there will be motivation, do not hide this kind of thing, work together to endure hardships, and become a superior person.
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Tell him well and tell him everything you think in your heart, but you have to say it from his point of view so that he feels that you still care about him.
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According to the actual situation, I told him that men must shoulder the burden of the family and work together for the future days of the family!
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No, how do you need to talk to him about this, he won't know his current situation. There is no mistake.
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That is, tell your husband directly, a man must stand up to the sky, and he can't be so spoiled.
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Your husband also wants to pay off his debts as soon as possible, and if he wants to pay off his debts, he has to earn more money.
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Since it's your own family, you have to tell the truth, a family is not just you.
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To put it bluntly, if he doesn't accept it, then there's nothing to say.
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This is still iyao relying on self-consciousness.,It's not easy to boil no matter how you say it.。
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Isn't it, my husband is not used to spoil, doesn't he know the debts of the family?
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1.Create a good communication environment. When you want to ask some upset questions, you need to make sure that your husband feels at ease and comfortable so that he can tell the truth more easily.
2.Use open-ended questions. Use open-ended questions as much as possible in order to make the conversation more in-depth and meaningful. Avoid using closed-ended questions.
3.Don't judge or blame. If you start blaming or judging your hubby, he may shut down and tell the truth no longer. Instead, stay as calm as possible and listen carefully to his thoughts and feelings.
4.Ask him directly. If you think your husband isn't too honest or not very sincere, it's a good idea to ask him directly. But be careful not to make him feel aggressive or forced.
5.Build trust. Building trust is the key to gaining your husband's trust and sincerity. Please show your trust in him and provide support and understanding.
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Husband to be honest may need one.
Some communication skills are open and understanding. Here are some ways to help you:
1.Listen to his thoughts and feelings with an open mindset. Don't take a preconceived or judgmental position.
2.Explain his communication style and respond accordingly according to his style. Some people prefer to tell the truth directly, while others prefer indirect hints.
3.Give him a feeling of trust and respect so that it will be easier for him to share his thoughts and feelings with you.
4.Don't show excessive emotions or reactions when he tells the truth, which may make him feel uncomfortable or upset.
5.When you want him to tell the truth, you can ask clear questions or suggestions at the appropriate time to encourage him to share his thoughts and feelings.
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It's very simple, you really won't change your attitude towards him because he said some truths, or even clean him up... It is not easy to prove that this mu Min shouts points, it takes time, you need to be patient, the key is your attitude towards your husband after telling the truth, otherwise you have to listen to the nonsense of Shanxun's ambition If you are other ways to get the answer you want to know, congratulations: you have successfully lost his trust...
Remember, no matter what happens, always be good to him.
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You believe that what your husband says is the truth, and you don't believe that everything he says is false.
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The "husband" in Sichuan dialect is usually called by his first name, or my man.
Sichuan dialect title:
Uncle --- is an honorific title for male elders;
Mother-in-law--- is an honorific title for female elders;
Old Khan'er --- is one of the names for fathers;
Old Mumu --- is an impolite term for female elders;
嬢嬢--- is the name of the women of the father's generation;
幺儿 (女) - is a term of endearment for children.
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