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The story of Mencius's mother educating Mencius is also about buying meat and eating meat:

When Mencius was a young man, a neighbor in the east killed a pig, and Mencius asked his mother, "Why do the neighbors kill pigs?" Meng Mu said

I'm going to give you meat. Meng's mother later regretted it and said, "When I was pregnant with this child, the mat was not set up properly, and I did not sit; The meat is not cut properly, I don't eat it, this is all prenatal education for him (Mencius), and now he is just sensible and I deceive him, this is teaching him not to be trustworthy.

So she bought a neighbor's pork for Mencius to eat to prove that she had not cheated. For parenting, Meng's mother is not high, she is also a human, not a god. Meng Mu will also casually say that pork is for you to eat, which is very normal.

But she reflected on her actions in time. The influence of the external environment on the child is an external factor, and what affects the child's life is to teach by word and deed, and to be consistent with words and deeds.

Buying meat and eating children to raise children:

Don't be a perfect parent, but be a conscious and reflective parent, not afraid of making mistakes, and correct mistakes in time is a qualified parent. If we want our children to love learning, we love learning first, and if we want our children to stop eating snacks and watching TV, we must do it ourselves.

When we don't do it ourselves, but we ask our children, how can they listen to us? When we can't control our emotions, but we want our children to speak well, isn't it difficult for strong people, and don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself.

Meng's mother moved three times. Meng's mother was broken.

Mencius's mother was called Mencius, and the most famous story is the three migrations of Mengzi's mother. Mencius's mother influenced Mencius's development by the environment given by Zhou, so she moved three times and found a very suitable environment.

So how do you do it during the day? You are? That's a long-term question, Meng Musan asked first.

Meng's mother moved three times, and the godson of Broken Tree, etc.

1. Meng's mother moved three times.

Once upon a time, when Mencius was a child, his father died early, and his mother did not remarry during the festival. At one time, they lived next to the cemetery. Mencius and the children in the neighborhood learned to bow down and cry as adults, and played the game of handling funerals.

When Mencius's mother saw it, she frowned: No! I can't let my kids live here anymore! Mencius's mother took Mencius and moved to live next to the market. When they arrived at the market, Mencius and the neighbor's children learned how to do business as a merchant.

This time, they moved closer to the school. Mencius began to become orderly, polite, and fond of reading. At this time, Mencius's mother nodded with satisfaction and said, "This is where my son should live!"

2, the godson of the broken tree.

Mencius was born with spirituality and wisdom, but he also had the habit of laziness and playfulness common to young children. One day, Mencius skipped school and played outside for a long time.

When her son came home, Meng's mother silently picked up a pair of scissors, clicked a piece of brocade silk and cut it into two sections. A gentleman learns to become famous, and if he asks, he will be widely known, so if he lives in peace, he will be far from harm, if he does not study today, he will not be able to leave the disaster, and he will always only do some lingering little things in the future;

If the middle way is wasted and not done, how can you dress your husband and son, and there is no shortage of food? Meng's mother used "broken weaving" as a warning for "dropping out of school", pointing out that giving up halfway is a very serious consequence.

The scene of "Breaking the Weaving Inspector" left a vivid impression of both shock and fear in Mencius's small heart, and since then he has been diligently studying day and night.

Meng's mother moved three times.

At first, Mencius and his family lived around the cemetery, Mencius often saw the funeral people kneeling and crying, seeing that he and the neighbor's children looked like they had nothing to do, Mengzi's mother frowned, and felt that her children should not be like this.

So I moved to the vegetable market, the vegetable market vendors gathered, ushered in the send-off, and a few days with the neighbor's children mingle, but also learned the adults to shout loudly, buying and selling funny, Meng mother still frowned when she saw it, how can my child be like this, determined to move again.

This time I moved to a private school, and it didn't take long to find that the child had become knowledgeable and courteous, and fell in love with reading, and Meng's mother finally showed a satisfied smile.

Of the five stories of "Meng's Mother and Godson", the less popular is "Worry Qi", the most talked about is "Three Moves" and "Broken Machine", and the most gimmicky is "Killing Dolphins" and "Divorce Wife". Let's first interpret the two stories of "killing dolphins" and "divorce wives".

The original version of "Killing Dolphins" is "Han Feizi Waichu Says Upper Left" about Zengzi killing pigs for children to eat. Han Ying grafted it onto Meng's mother, but why didn't Liu Xiang tell it? Let's see how Lu Zuqian thinks that Meng's mother deceived Mencius twice.

The neighbor was killing the pig, and Mencius asked his mother: Who will kill the pig for? Meng Mu said

For you to eat. In Lu Zuqian's "Collected Records of Lize Treatises", Kai and Volume 5, it seems that the neighbor killed the pig not for Mencius to eat at all, which was the first time that Mengzi's mother deceived Mencius; Mengzi's mother bought pork for Mencius to eat, which was the second time to deceive Mencius. Many stories and aphorisms do imply logical loopholes.

People often say that "money is like dung, and benevolence is worth a thousand gold", but in fact, there is a logical contradiction. You could say that "Killing the Dolphin" establishes the theme of integrity, but it also potentially contains the theme of deception, so there will be some resistance to the spread of this story.

The story of "divorce of wives" is a small victory of the theory of sexual goodness over the theory of sexual evil in the Western Han Dynasty. Regarding Mencius's divorce of his wife, the earliest statement comes from "Xunzi Unmasking Chapter": "Mencius was defeated and gave his wife.

Xunzi believed that Mencius was divorced. Guo Moruo wrote an article "Mengzi's Wife", thinking that Mencius was afraid that he would often have physical contact with his wife and his vitality would be hurt, so he drove his wife away. In the writings of Han Ying and Liu Xiang, Mencius's divorce was not separated, because Mencius had a great mother and a mother who knew the way of his aunt.

There are many records of the divorce of saints. Han Ying and Liu Xiang were unable to alter those records, and rewrote the story of Mencius's "divorce of his wife", subverting Xunzi's conclusion, obviously to maintain Mencius's reputation, which shows that Mencius's status was rising during the Western Han Dynasty.