My girlfriend is not NC, who can enlighten me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You will never forget.

    But the advantages can always make up for the shortcomings, and when she is young and curious and excited, if she is wrong, she will not be wrong. Treat you well, and you have to accept her like a man. Be generous, if I don't treat you well, then I'm sorry, you have lost too much.

    Just say goodbye

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you care about this? I know you'll pay attention, after all, the one you love is given to you. It's going to feel bad.

    So will I. But I'm a woman. The first time my boyfriend gave it to someone else, in fact, the man will pay attention to the woman's one, in fact, the woman will also pay attention, but I also broke up with him, not that I pay attention to that.

    Instead, I asked him if he had done that before, because I think he was always that skillful ... Oh. But he said no.

    It wasn't until I finally asked him one last time that he told me that he had been. Any idea what I was feeling at the time.? I hate.

    It's not that I hate who he gave the first time, but that I don't like being deceived by someone. Didn't your girlfriend tell you about it? And it's not the first time for you, either.

    And she didn't. I think she also wants to find someone who doesn't dislike herself to live her life. And there are a lot of people like you now.

    I think you. Love each other well. Loving each other is the most important thing.

    It's not that thing that can separate you! Isn't it? Take advantage of it!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You want to figure out whether you love her as a person or her membrane!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You still care about this, it seems that she loves you more than you love her!

    It's better to persuade your girlfriend to leave you as soon as possible.

    Such an unbalanced love will collapse sooner or later!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't care if she loves you, don't think too much. The more I think about it, the more annoying it becomes...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are awkward in your heart, for sure, I remember that many of my classmates (men) have said: Actually, let me tell you, men say they don't care about this, but to be honest, few of them really don't care, even if they say they don't care, it's false!

    Your mood is understandable, but have you thought about it? If you really like her, don't care about her before, if you think she is a person worthy of your love and a person who can live a lifetime, then forgive her, after all, she told you personally, which means that she has not hidden it from you. I think she really likes you, otherwise she wouldn't have told you about things that were private.

    I'm also a girl, but from a fair point of view, either of you have a hard time, so don't make each other sad anymore. Sometimes it's not a bad thing to want to open a little. Take your time, it's normal to not be able to accept it for a while.

    But men, have a tolerant heart. If it's true love, don't think too much about it, and if she's worthy of your love, protect her with your heart. If not, I advise you to think about it!

    If you figure it out, you can tell her: I don't care about your past, but you promise me that from now on, we will be fine, and I hope you belong to me alone. If you say that, I think she will be touched and will cherish you even more!

    Having said all that, I hope you can think about it and wish you happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your last thought was right!

    If you're always focusing on the rocks, then you won't see the beauty from above, and if you're always struggling with one thing, you're probably going to do only one thing in your life. Friend

    Life is too short to cherish everything that belongs to you.

    You should care about her and love forever.

    You are happy.

    The key is whether she will change her mind, whether you have common pursuits and words, other than a heartbeat, whether she will treat you as a lifelong friend or a lifelong promise, this is the main question, you have not explained clearly.

    In short, don't give up! The future is bright!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I want to ask, do you still love her? Everyone loves each other to be together! You're really not mature yet, learn to let go! Is it difficult to understand each other, in fact, she is also sad! If everyone loves each other, why make both parties sad! Hope you'll have a better time!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    With you, there is no point in pursuing before.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is together, don't love.

    Men have to be responsible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Are you looking for a girlfriend, or the membrane you're looking for? Graduate students, this kind of conceptual problem cannot solve the fundamental problem by seeking only persuasion and comfort. Your education is not low, think about it yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As long as you truly love each other, all problems are not a problem!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you love her person or her body, you figure this out first and then come to me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no enlightenment, second-hand is second-hand. You can only choose whether you want or don't. Don't do things that deceive yourself. If you can tolerate it, you will continue, and if you can't stand it, you will pull it down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This question may be very important for a person in the 60s or 70s, for people in the current era, as long as they keep the festival and keep the way from you, men should carry forward their high demeanor and high attitude, and the important thing is to cherish your future life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love her well, the process is more important than the result.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you really like her, you will tolerate her, and time will tell you what you want.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Suggest that she repair the membrane a few more times and let you unify it a few more times, ok.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The next time she compares you to you, ask her why is it me and not him who is with her? See what she says!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can't compare her to your ex-girlfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, you have to have self-confidence, and secondly, you have to conquer her with your own strength!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I can't tell if someone like your girlfriend is smart or stupid lately.

    If I talk about you again in the future, you will be confident and say, why did you break up if you are so good?? Is it because someone else is so good and abandons you, or do you think he has some other bad problem and broke up?

    And then you are stupid, you think, why did he choose you now, it must be that you have something she likes. Every time she compares her weaknesses to her ex-boyfriend's.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There will always be comparisons. White, handsome, or something, it's all external, it's not that important, as long as you're good to him and it's his dish, it's okay. It's all your girlfriend, why do you care so much!

    Human memories can't be deleted by computers, right?

    Understand. It'll be fine after a long time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    She won't dare if you send your temper back.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This matter is very simple, she said that the ex is good, and you directly said that the ex is so good, why should you break up. This can force her to say what is wrong with her ex, if she raises the bar, for example, she says that it is her own problem, that she used to eat flies or something. Then you can ask again, have you ever thought about getting him back?

    If she says no, then ask why, and then she has to say something bad about her ex, or that she doesn't have a chance, or something, and then you say you should go and redeem it, such a good man. If he says he doesn't love himself anymore or something. And then you ask, which one do you choose, one who loves you but maybe not too good, or another good person who doesn't love you?

    If she still raises the bar and says to choose the latter, then you can encourage her to redeem it. Anyway, it's just this routine, and it will go around her to death.

    If she raises the bar and says then I'm going to redeem it, then you say I wish you success, and really loving someone is not to get her, but to watch her get happiness, and you will be happy. In fact, she promised to be angry when you said this, and then you hugged her again and said, fool, I am willing to let you go to your ex, although I am not very good, but I have the confidence to give you the greatest happiness.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Well, in fact, women can't help mentioning "ex" in front of men.

    This is the contrasting nature of female creatures.

    If you think about it, after a woman buys online, she always goes to a physical store to see how much money she has saved, and then she is very happy. And men, generally bought is bought, too lazy to look.

    However, in my experience, generally speaking, your girlfriend often mentions "ex", indicating that she has the initiative in the relationship.

    You have to be careful, and you have to interrupt and stop her from doing so.

    For example, you can say something very direct, I don't like it when you always compare me to your ex, this is the first time".

    I don't like that you always compare me to your ex, ten fingers are long and short, let alone human? This is the second time".

    I don't like you to always compare me with your ex, even if I change it to your ex, it's funny, you and your ex haven't broken up yet, you figured it out, I'm the one who is playing friends with you now, this is the last time, I don't like to compare with others, I'm just me".

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't feel it so soon, so it's better to stop eating early.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    A beautiful woman is not necessarily good. Bad-looking women cherish love more.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    People say that the seven-year itch will be tired of it in ten days, won't you?

    But if you don't like it, hurry up, and the longer you are careful, the more troublesome it will be.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You must learn to cherish it, and regret it when you lose it. Cherish the present!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No one is perfect, talk more about her benefits, communicate more, women like sweet words and give her confidence.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can say to her like this: There is no perfect person in the world, but I am luckier than you. So I'll give you a little bit of my luck, won't we be equal??!

    Before choosing you again, I thought about it a lot, since I decided to talk to you in the first place, I didn't care about this, I didn't think about letting go, I love you, such a little thing is nothing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    So what do you like about her? Tell her directly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No matter what you were before, how you are now, or what will happen in the future, there is no need to be afraid. Because I'm by your side, I'm with you, and no matter what happens in the future, we'll spend it together. Nothing can stop us!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Want my words.

    You go to die, forget it, there is a river on the side, you can choose to look at the next article, but you don't expect others to save you, but you have to think about it, if you really jump, someone will be sad, including your father, mother, etc., and I'm going on, life is not all smooth sailing, if you encounter a little thing, you feel that you are a failure, frustrated, it can only mean that you are too naïve, and then you look at the situation yourself, and say, first hit her, comfort her.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you are not satisfied with your life, it depends on how high your standard of life is, you have to be so demanding, so you are living a very failure, if you live a life that is content, then you must live a happy life, live a very proud life, if you want to be prosperous and rich, then you must live tired, you look at the person who picks up waste, he lives happily. So, let your girlfriend live well. How nice this society is now.

    Once there is no food, the state will pay the minimum wage.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    What about divorce? With a friend like you who cares about her, she should be content! But I can understand her feelings, my parents too, I also came over like this, at that time, I was very pessimistic all day, but my teacher found me, and she told me that there are some things, no matter how hard we try, we can only miss them, but some things, some happy things, and then when we pursue those things in vain, they quietly slip away; Parents always have their own reasons for this, we have to think about it from their point of view, but it is undeniable that no matter what happens to parents, they always love their children, really!

    Later, when I had my birthday, I thought no one would care about me, but my lovely classmates all told me happy birthday! I was really impressed! My parents also came**, I feel that I am still loved, I am so happy!

    Please, be sure to tell that girl, I am also a girl, I understand her, but believe, tell her, dare to say that you like yourself and the people around you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You must have success yourself, and then you have the capital to say: you have at least me, and I will make you happy!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The past is not equal to the future. Just look at inspirational books.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This friend, since you both really love each other, why can't you let go of this in your heart, I think everyone will have some traditional concepts, but the standards and opinions are different. I don't think you should think about this unilaterally, you can open up and talk to her about it at an appropriate time, and then both of you can face it calmly. I believe that the past has passed, it can't change anything, but what you want is her future, why can't you accept her happily, every woman wants to leave her most precious things to her husband, but there are always so many people who will backfire, please cherish her, I believe you will be very happy.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Are you the 1st time? Friend: Someone has said that you can ask others how you want to ask yourself, and as for thinking about it, you should think that she is not unhappy with you now.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You are looking for trouble, whether it is the first time or not does it matter, since you are tired of running away from worldly thoughts, why bother thinking about it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Big brother, I have nothing to say, how can this be enlightened, since you yourself said that you love your girlfriend, not her body, why do you still mind so much? To love someone is to tolerate everything about her and the past, if you can't let go, I think it's better to break up, there are knots in your heart, you can't let go, so if you get married, you won't be happy.

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