A father looks at his 14 year old son s text message records, is he doing it right?

Of course, that's not right, 14-year-old boys also have their own secrets, no one likes their privacy to be known, even if that person is their own father, but think about it from another angle, your father did it because he loved you too much, he was afraid that you didn't know anything, and did something that you shouldn't do at your age.

Find a time, sit down with your dad, have a good talk, and put him at ease with you. Don't just question your father, quarrel, and make the family unhappy because of this matter.

A bit excessive, this is a violation of one's right to privacy. No matter who you are, you have your own privacy, even if you look at your son's text messages, you have to get your son's consent. Also, don't think that the privacy of young people can be violated!

Regardless of whether the child is a child or a teenager, it is not right to invade his privacy!

It is certainly not right that the son's right to privacy has been violated. However, the son's way to protect his privacy, it is best not to use legal means. After all, it's a father.,You can use non-litigation means.,It's just that the two of them can mediate.。。 The two should empathize and understand each other.

I think it's okay, 14 years old is still a teenager, but don't check too often, always leave a private space for your child!

No, the son also has his own private space, and the father can't read the text message without the son's consent, which is a distrust of the son...

It's definitely not right, look at other people's privacy, but it's better to be honest between father and son.

I don't feel right, even if it is my own parents, but the child also has privacy, and I have to give the child a certain amount of space.

It is normal to care about children, but the method is not right, but as a child, you must also take the initiative to communicate with parents.

Although he wanted to get to know the child, he did not do it properly.

Children have their own privacy.

Parents should respect their children.

Maybe the child can't think about those things. Please find him quickly, and use unparalleled fatherly love to influence and guide him! Time is pressing, don't let him have time to think about it more and more unhappily go to the extreme! Hurry up!! There are other cases again**!!

I will definitely be stunned and anxious, looking for my son everywhere and calling the police.

Are you a son or a dad? I'm sure you're definitely a texting son aha

Let's go home. Adopt Adopt (o).

The first reaction was completely blindfolded, and then look for my son and call the police!

I'm in a hurry.、Then call the police to find my son.。。。

The first reaction must be that I am very worried that my son will not be able to think about it, so I must find my son as soon as possible.

Those with a bad heart were immediately sent to the hospital, and those with a better heart immediately called the police to find their son.

If parents are not allowed to see it, it must be procedurally not allowed. If you go through the relevant procedures, or of course you can see it during the period of visitation, and the review period can only be lifted by the lawyer and the suspect.

During the review period, only a lawyer can be hired to visit.

There is a problem with the family's education method, coupled with the pressure and incomprehension in the heart when receiving education at school, resulting in the child's emotions having nowhere to vent, just seizing an opportunity, so it all broke out. Explain two problems, the first is the lack of communication with the child; Second, he usually spoils and dotes on his children too much. There is a saying that "the Yan family has no servants, and a loving mother has a defeated son".

There may be something wrong with your way of running your family. Although his father is very good, a great entrepreneur, and has a company that manages many employees, it does not mean that he is a qualified father at home. His experience in managing a company does not necessarily mean that he has the ability to be a housekeeper.

Strict teachers produce high-level apprentices, whether it is beating, scolding, or punishing, but we must do ideological work on the aftermath. Let him know for himself that this is wrong. Be brave and accept criticism. Instead of running away from mistakes, there is a desire for revenge.

Of course, the teacher's behavior is wrong, but he shouldn't hit someone, one day as a teacher, a lifelong father, if this person he even has a teacher, then he is not far from beating his father, please manage this father in time.

It's not right for a son to treat the teacher like this, but I think the father and the teacher are also responsible, everyone makes mistakes, and your punishment is too extreme for him, which also leads the child to make some out-of-the-ordinary behaviors. If you do something wrong, you can change it, so that he can reflect on it, but you can't just say to the child that you don't want to eat today, which makes the child suffer a blow in his heart, the teacher has to copy a hundred times because he does a wrong question, and he can't go home if he can't copy it well, this kind of thing is that I can't stand it, some things are useless to memorize, and the teacher's education method is also problematic.

If you don't do it right, no matter what you did wrong before, after all, it's your teacher, and it's illegal to beat someone.

No, in ancient times, this was to deceive the teacher and destroy the ancestors, and now he has not learned to be a good man, with all due respect, if this son is not well guided, the company will definitely fail if he is handed over!

Your son already has a problem in his heart, and he needs to be counseled in time.

No, the teacher's original intention is at least to improve the student's grades. But the son did it for his own selfish desires. Adults still don't understand this truth?

I've never seen such a grudge

It's not just wrong, your son should have a mental problem.

Of course it's not right, he is deliberately hurting people.

But the teacher is too strict, he has been suppressed for a long time, and today it finally broke out.

Hello, this is basically a normal manifestation, and it is better to need to control the infection!

Of course not, if we all say that respect for parents is the most basic thing for children. It's also not accurate, because the human heart grows. If the parents are not evil, I think they should follow the previous rule.

My son is 20 years old, and I think I should weigh the importance and the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. In order to catch his father's pigtails (not to mention that he still cares about her), he is like this to his father, and everyone knows that this is too much. What's more, for an adult who is already 20 years old, it is already a big problem.

Such a son must be strictly educated, and this kind of thing will not be forgiven and recognized in today's society, just to usher in contempt and ridicule.

Of course not. First of all, small talk during working hours. Secondly, disrespect to elders.

It's right to insist that talking counts! But it's not right for dad in this form! Especially in public! It's not just the image of the dad that is damaged, it's also your own!

It's also right and wrong, since you say it, you have to do it, your father is the boss, and your son is an employee, this is the relationship between the boss, even if the boss says it, what can you do after work? Aren't you still going to eat? The fault is that the headphones listen to my dad too much, and I think I am still at home, and what my dad says is what I say.

That's why it's wrong to do this, the company and the family are different.

The traditional virtue of the Chinese nation is to honor one's parents, and it is not right to do so from the perspective of being your son.

From the perspective of the relationship between superiors and subordinates in the unit, there is a problem with the leadership theory, and it is not right to solve it in a violent way.

In short, it is not right for him to do this, you should really educate him well, or he will be educated by others that day.

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One way is to go to the big bathhouse with him for a bath.

Second, listen to his voice and whether the Adam's apple is there.

Three, see if his beard has grown.

Four direct questions! ~

Then look. ，。Take the liberty of asking, how old is your son. Over 15 years old, you'd better not look at it. What kind of psychology do you have?

Take him to the bathhouse to take a bath.

Are you a doctor, you can see it, wouldn't it be better to take him to the hospital for a physical examination.

Everyone has their own privacy, even if parents are looking at it without their children's consent, it is not right.

No, although the reason is that what his father said hurt him, and there is no place to find out if he is angry, but he can't be so violent. People will be anti-mistakes, some mistakes can be forgiven, but some are resolutely unforgivable. The little girl is young and ignorant, but your son is in his 20s.

Not even self-regulation.

Judging by the information provided in the short article, Grandpa's son, Dad, was lucky. He should not have received a lot of contradictory information from his elders. He's the boss, but he's free to send out whatever he wants.

His mood is basically comfortable, even if there is fire, the channels for radiating outward are diverse and unimpeded. At the very least, you don't have to over-suppress your dissatisfaction, so that it doesn't end up accumulating into full anger. As the son of a 20-year-old dad and an employee of the boss's dad, the information he received from his boss and from his dad was contradictory.

It's a sign of my own incompetence when I make a mistake, which is very annoying. Because any anger is ultimately a condemnation and revenge for one's own incompetence. However, the son had nowhere to vent.

The message from the father and the boss to the son is again inconsistent. No matter how well-intentioned the subsequent orders were, what came to the son's brain was: he had to obey.

The "not allowed" order just now must be executed, and the "allowed" order given for the same thing in the blink of an eye must also be executed, the son is confused, his brain is messed up, and he is angry again. Because I can't do two completely opposite commands on one thing at the same time. I'm really incompetent.

However, he had to carry it out, because he had developed a "good habit" of listening to his father since he was a child. As long as you listen to your father, you can meet all your needs and requirements. For 20 years, in front of my father, I will always be a son without self.

Always a weakling. Always a submissive. Don't think about it, just listen to your father.

He was too strong to be challenged. Now, with two nowhere to vent anger that marked his incompetence, and a self-deprived individual full of inferiority, he was completely finished. I'm a pile of garbage, and I'm not worth half a penny.

He desperately needs to prove himself and prove his worth. I wasn't like that. I am a valuable, valuable person.

The poor little girl happened to appear in front of her son. A disobedient child, a child who is doing bad things, and a little girl who is definitely weaker than herself, has become the object of her son's multiple anger to prove his worth. The son once again showed his incompetence with his incompetence.

It was his last incompetent, exhilarating performance. It's time for his tragedy to end. Did he do something wrong?

Right? Anyway, he did, and he punished Daddy Boss for his actions. also drew an end to his short life.

No, at the age of 20, I don't know how to control my emotions.

It's a neurotic problem! Hit **ing, toot toot doot: "Hey, 110?" Someone has killed someone here, come and get him away.

It's right to scold to remember.

Constitutes the crime of intentional homicide. I can't do it, I'm going to pay for my life.

You can call the police, and if the circumstances are serious, you can detain it, this is a family explosion