What are some of the things that you are thankful you didn t do at the time?

I was very entangled when I filled in the college entrance examination, because I had two professions that I really wanted to do, one was a doctor, the other was a teacher, fortunately I finally chose a teacher, when I learned about some students who studied medicine, they were really very hard, I felt that if I chose that major, I might not be able to persevere, I am very glad that I did not choose it at that time.

I think I have a little thing that is, after filling in the college entrance examination at that time, my score was not enough to go to Wuhan University, but at that time, someone said that I could go as a provincial supplementary quota, and I wanted to go at that time, but my parents did not agree and felt unreliable, and finally I listened to my parents and did not go, and finally I heard that after I went to another school, it was not Wuhan University at all, it was all a lie.

I said that I was very glad that what I didn't do at that time was that I was ignorant when I was a child, and I often fought with others, and once when I was fighting with others, I almost had the urge to kill them with a stick, but at that time I endured it and didn't do it, and then I would think carefully about what the consequences would be if I did this, and I was very afraid, so I am very happy now.

I'm very glad in my life, what we didn't do at that time was, oh I've always been a rebellious person, sometimes I wanted to go to an Internet café, but I'm very glad that the first time I refused, I didn't go, so I'm different from them, I'm studying very well now, and they lost themselves in the Internet café.

When I first went to college, there was a boy who confessed to me, although I felt that he was very good, but I felt that I was not so suitable for him, so I didn't accept him, and later I learned that he was actually a scumbag who cheated on girls' feelings everywhere, so I was very glad that I didn't choose to be with him at that time.

When I was in high school, my good friend asked me to drop out of school with her, and at that time she was really moved by her, and then bought a bus ticket, and I was not ready to go to high school, and I was going to go outside with her. Later, my mother stopped me and didn't go, but now that I think about it, I'm glad I didn't go, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to go to college.

I think in my experience, I feel that I didn't do well enough after the college entrance examination, and then my family wanted to go to tutoring by myself, but I didn't have this intention at all, and my parents couldn't resist me, so I didn't continue to mention this matter again, I think the current university is what I want to come to, and I like it very much.

I am most glad that I was obsessed with reading books when I was a child, and one of the things I am most fortunate to insist on is reading books, and one of the things I insist on is reading paper books, not e-books.

With the development of science and technology, the popularity of all kinds of electronic things, many people are more inclined to use more convenient things, so the status of electronic things suddenly exceeds the traditional items and traditional ways, we use some things in our lives are more inclined to use automation. Very.

I'm glad I chose to keep reading.

When I first entered university, I was busy adapting to the environment, expanding my social circle, working in various clubs, doing professional homework, etc., and I didn't read a book seriously for about two months. At that time, my daily life was in a hurry, and I almost gave up the habit of reading.

I still keep reading, every day, many things that I can't find answers in life, I start looking for them from books.

Time flies, and the impact of books on me is something that years can't take away.

I was really happy to have the courage to say it.

At that time, I was a freshman, and my husband was a junior in college, he was an excellent student, and there were girls chasing her all around, and he was always indifferent to all girls.

At that time, I chased him all the time, but he was still unmoved, and finally, the school student union organized, and the two of us had to prepare these together, and finally had the opportunity to get in touch with each other.

God knows how excited I was working with him that day, preparing the materials, and the fawn thumping.

I later told my friend about this incident, and he said that if you really like it, go and confess, I was hesitant at the time, afraid that if we were not together, how embarrassing it would be to meet in the future.

Later, under the persuasion of my friends, I still mustered up the courage to confess.

On Valentine's Day, we were together.

There are many things that you regret, and there are also things that you will never regret no matter how many times you think about it and still feel that you made the right decision at that time.

The most correct thing I ever did was not to go to university after failing the college entrance examination in the first year, but chose to repeat my studies in a cram school under pressure.

At that time, relatives and friends advised me that a girl's family would marry in the future, and it would be enough to take a second exam, and I didn't know that the next year might be worse than this year's exam, and I was a little shaken in my mind under such an admonition, and my father told me that if I felt sorry, I would stick to my own ideas, even if the results in the second year were still not ideal, at least there was this process, so I went to repeat without hesitation.

The results of the second year came out, and it turned out that my choice was not wrong, I insisted on my own ideas, and the days of repeating were very hard, but I felt that I was satisfied, and after I went to college, I went to ask other students in the second book, and their school was not as good as they imagined, so I felt more and more that tutoring was the most correct thing I did, and it brought me too many things, which I had never understood before.

I'm most glad I didn't marry him in the first place.

He was two levels above me, and we were both in education. After graduating, I also went to the countryside where he stayed. He taught in a rural middle school, and I taught in the primary school across the street from the middle school.

We didn't know each other before, but we've known each other since we stayed here, and there were a lot of young people here, all of whom had graduated in recent years, but there were more boys and fewer girls. What about seven or eight boys? There are only two girls.

Me and another girl are the sweethearts of the people. became the target of several other boys. As soon as they had spare time, they went to our two schools, and even stayed in our dormitory and were reluctant to leave.

The two of us couldn't withstand this kind of harassment, and each chose the object of his choice. I became boyfriend and girlfriend with him. A year later, he was transferred to a suburban elementary school, and we only saw each other once a week.

One day, he said to me, my family is very poor, I don't want you to suffer, I am afraid that you will not be able to bear that suffering, and you will regret it. I said, it doesn't matter, I'm also a countryman, what hardships have I not suffered, besides, you and I have salaries, how can I suffer? But he insisted on breaking up, and no matter how much I begged him, it would be to no avail.

I was heartbroken and heartbroken, but it was an old colleague at school who enlightened me that I let go of the matter. Half a year later, I met my current husband, who is from the city, and after a year of marriage, I transferred to the city and lived a happy and stable life. Three years later, his colleague transferred to my school and talked to me about him, saying that he was crazy and sent to an insane asylum.

The colleague said, alas, his person is thoughtful, has a strong inferiority complex, and always hides things in his heart, which will happen sooner or later.

At the beginning, I really wanted to start a business, but now I see that my friend failed because of the business, and I am really glad that I didn't do it at the beginning, otherwise I might have failed now.

Playing on the bus on the phone, thinking that he had sat in a station, he hurriedly left his seat and was about to get off, and the driver just closed the door and started it. When I covered my face and scolded myself for being stupid, I was just about to get off the train at the next stop and walked back slowly, and found that the next stop was the site I was going to, and I was suddenly glad that the driver didn't open the door with a loud voice when he closed the door. ‍‍

At the beginning, I was obsessed with SLR and related, and I made a list, from cameras, lenses, tripods to various accessories, a total of 210,000. Then I started to save money silently, just to fulfill my SLR dream, and later, I saved money for three or four years and bought a car for ......

Now that I think about it, I am glad that I didn't buy a DSLR at that time. ‍‍

In the past, there was a more marginal classmate, who cleaned the classroom after school on duty, was scolded by the head teacher for making mistakes, and was tired of scolding and hateful, so that a few students who stayed on duty went up one by one to smoke their mouths, and fortunately they didn't go up under pressure, and the classmates behind me almost thanked me with tears. ‍‍

In early August 2014, the last summer vacation before the first semester of the senior year was coming to an end. I am in the top three in my major. For unknown reasons, the registration notice was not sent to the class.

The classmates in the same class knew about it and quietly signed up. Eventually, Bao Yan arrived at a 211The contemptible people did not guarantee the graduate school, and finally got a good 985.

Fortunately, I didn't know about Baoyan back then, otherwise I would definitely not be able to come to my current school. Heaven will arrange everything. ‍‍

When I was a sophomore, I liked a boy, and his attitude was also very ambiguous, flirting and touching his head. Fortunately, there was no confession, and I heard that he now has a girlfriend. I don't like it, ** air conditioning, I won't like it in my life. ‍‍

My answer is: I'm glad I didn't contact my ex-boyfriend because of the "status quo bias".

In the middle of this year, we broke up because of ex.

We have been together for 4 and a half years, graduated from the same school together, started a business together, and had the same dream together.

At that time, I couldn't imagine what life would be like without him.

On the third day of the breakup, we had a dream about us.

It was a summer two years ago, and we went to a man-made old town.

The man-made moat is shallow, winding past the old bluestone slab arch bridge, and the embankment on the bridge is also full of pedestrians.

The wind caressed the willows, and the awning boats in the river pushed away the mirror-like surface of the river, shattering the moon and the candles of the paper lanterns in the river into jumping floating lights.

We followed the trend and rented a boat, the cabin narrow and dim, and we watched each other in the swaying of the current. Only the indifferent moonlight and the dark red candle shadows were colorful, and there was a strange look that shone on his face.

Obviously, it is a brick and tile, a bridge and a tree, and even the red lantern is an inferior product imported from the wholesale market, and it has obtained a ray of benevolent moonlight and a wave of ordinary clear water, and it has given birth to a unique light and shadow that even the famous and decent people cannot erase.

I used to hear that he met a confidant under the moon, and looked at a beauty under the lamp, he was barely a confidant, there were still 108,000 miles away from the beauty, but under the flow of brilliance, he looked like a young man outside the square.

However, the canopy boat drove through the cascading water alleys, through countless mossy arch bridges, and shattered the waves of countless dark rivers.

He is still not a beauty under the lamp, but under the moon, he met another confidant.

It's not the old days, downstairs in the dormitory, the boy who is waiting for me with his head up.

When I woke up, I couldn't help but want to pick up my hand.

But I said to myself, Xiaohua, don't fight, this is nothing more than "status quo bias".

Status quo bias:

People are apprehensive about change, even if it may be beneficial to them.

As a result, people often make decisions to maintain the status quo or make minimal changes.

At that time, I had just made a major decision that changed the current situation of my life, and I instinctively felt fear and hesitation about the unknown. But reason knows that leaving is the best choice. So I never contacted him.

After almost three months, I have completely lost the urge to see how he is doing after adjusting to the new situation. Even when a friend talks about his situation, I still have psychological rejection.

Yes, a new status quo bias has arisen – "living your life without being disturbed" has become the status quo that I don't want to change.

One parting and two wide, forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes, may be the best ending.

When I grew up in my 30s, I was most fortunate that I didn't listen to one of my "best friends" and went to Yunnan to play with her.

I remember ten years ago, I was still in Dalian at that time, because I had just graduated and worked in a travel agency. The salary is not much every month, and I am very tired, because I am a new tour guide, and I bring the group with the least spending power. Tour guides rely on self-paid attractions to earn commissions, if you bring a high-quality group, a day alone to achieve thousands of achievements, if it is a bad group, then you are busy all day without saying, can only get 50 yuan of tour guide fees.

After persisting for more than two months, I really don't want to do it.

At this time, a friend who hadn't been in touch for several years called my **. This "best friend" and I have grown up and have always relied on each other well. It's just that she dropped out of school very early to work in the south, and I haven't seen or contacted me for several years, and I am very happy that she suddenly contacted me.

She invited me to Yunnan to play, saying that she and her mother had opened a supermarket in a tourist attraction there, and that business was quite good, and that she had bought a house in Yunnan. Let me go there as a tour guide, the salary is very high. I was really tempted.

She also said that if you don't feel comfortable in the past, you should play a lap, relax, and buy me a ticket back. I thought about it, but I bought a plane ticket in two or three days, and called home before leaving. Then I quickly called ** home and told my parents about it.

I also want to confirm whether what my "best friend" said is true. As a result, this call was timely. I heard my mother say that the mother of the "best friend" went to Yunnan, but it seems that she has not had a good life, and it is not very clear what she is doing over there, so let me inquire more.

I had a vague sense that something was wrong and immediately refunded my ticket. I told her that I couldn't take a leave of absence from my travel agency.

Later, I learned that she was doing a pyramid scheme there and had deceived many friends and relatives around her. I was scared in a cold sweat, but fortunately I didn't rush to the past at that time, otherwise, I don't know what the consequences would be now. It's horrible.

I'm really glad I didn't go to Yunnan so impulsively, otherwise I would have been part of a pyramid scheme. After that, I will think carefully about everything, and I will study some things that I am not sure about for a long time before I do it, which is not only responsible for myself, but also responsible for my family.