How can I help him get back that lost heart?

Unfortunately, listening to your story, I'm surprised to have a hero like you, indeed, you're a little simpler. But you have a mind and can judge, but what is the standard of judgment? You have your perspective, he has his perspective.

But judging by your final judgment, you are wrong. What do you hope for? It's for him to write your story with you, and in his world, the current you are the support of his life, inseparable from you, as you said, addicted to games all day long, and the days without work will become more and more decadent, this is normal.

If he has engaged in pyramid schemes, the probability of deception is even greater, because what pyramid schemes are learned, what they learn is psychology, what they learn is tricks, so I think it is when you muster up your courage and test him, and when you leave your current state of life, you are harming him now, you know? Try to live in the same city not far away, ask him to accept your requirements for him, including work and life, it is best to have an "ear" arranged next to him, you can give him some help in the early stage, and you will set the test period. The benevolent see the benevolent, hehe.

All I can say is that you are both burners.

Think about it for yourself, think more about yourself.

Contact is normal, but do you ask yourself if your effort is useful? Is he the one who can keep you for the rest of your life? Is he qualified to love you? My dear, don't lose yourself in love, if you can't love each other, it's wiser to choose to love you than to choose what you love!

Ay. The key is to be yourself, leave the city and be alone.

Pick yourself up again and start from scratch.

First of all, don't let time rule you, make you its slave, let you throw and stumble in its arms. And have a keen sense of smell in time, and always be on the run, because your life is a race against time.

Secondly, you should have a direction and a goal, so that your running has a purpose, and don't lose yourself in the run. To lose yourself is to lose your way, and your run will eventually go off track and miss the banner of victory that should be yours.

Again, you need to have faith in yourself and let faith be the force of hope. This strength makes you strong, your legs and feet strong, and life bright. At any time, no matter what situation you are in, you will not be discouraged and give in.

Finally, you have to know yourself. This is the most difficult point, because if people can know themselves, no matter what situation they are in, even if they encounter difficulties, they will not be difficult. The more fully a person knows himself, the stronger his ability to overcome and solve problems.

Believe that you must know yourself through humility, and no arrogant person can see your true colors. And only by being humble and bowing your head can you regain your lost self, gain insight into the world, and understand the meaning of life.

Live yourself, cultivate a good interest by yourself, spend more time with friends, try to enrich yourself, don't give yourself too much free time, like a piece of land, if you don't grow crops, it will grow weeds, and when you enrich yourself, you will find that you have more and more things to accomplish, so that you don't lose yourself.

In fact, you are not so bad, people must be confident. When you communicate with others, don't think about whether I say well or not, whether others will not understand, whether others look down on me, don't care about these, express what is in your heart, and then say generously, if you still have any questions, please feel free to ask. If you lose yourself, you have to rely on yourself to find it back The real self is only controlled by you Life is wonderful, don't limit yourself to the corner Face life bravely and think about a better future Learning now is for the future life. 、

At this time, you might as well adjust yourself, let yourself rest, make a plan, go shopping, and see other people's lives.

Of course, after you calm down, you still have to think about your life, like finding your own center of gravity.

If you are an introvert, then it is normal to have such problems, you can try to do something that you dislike or eat something that you don't like to eat, this is not masochism but a change. If you are an extrovert, then you have encountered a bottleneck and need more courage to break through yourself.

1.Find someone to talk to, friends, family, and a psychiatrist.

2.Go with the flow, the future is always unknown, just because it's good now doesn't mean it's going to be good in the future, and just because you're in adversity now doesn't mean it's going to go on forever.

3.Live in the present, your current situation is what you have accumulated day by day, then your future state is based on the accumulation of every minute of today, the present, so if you want to have a good future, live in the present, live every minute seriously.

4.Adjust your mentality: Life in the world is to go through a lot of difficulties, adversity, and unhappiness, which is quite normal. You can think of the loss of yourself right now as an ordeal in your life.

5.I wish you to come out of the shadows and live each day happily.

Calm down.

Think about your current age and think about what you're going to do now.

Think about your life, your feelings, the future you want.

Think about what you did and what you forgot to do.

Think about what you're going to do.

Take time every day to look at yourself, and if you feel like you're messing up in your head, write it down and adjust your mindset and adjust your feelings.

Find yourself. Love yourself a little more every day and make yourself understand yourself better.

First, pay attention, listen to what others are saying, and try to dig into the meaning of the words as much as possible in the process of listening.

Second, think about it before you speak for yourself, and don't rush to express it. Think about a few outlines of what you want to express in your mind.

If you develop the habit of being full for a long time, your current problems will not appear gradually.

You're an organic lesion. Less masturbation, quit masturbation, and recover your vitality.

Enhance self-confidence and enrich your inner self-cultivation.

Don't forget the original intention.

I've been doing this lately, and I've been very deliberate with the people around me, and I'm not sincere enough to be at all what I want to express in my heart, and my thinking is not as good as it used to be.

The first thing is to make yourself confident first.

Because you can't find yourself anymore.

Leave a chat to help you.

?Artistic achievement? Literary achievements w?Social impact.

If you can't find it, if it's straight, you generally have to be reincarnated.

Forget about the useless things as much as possible, narrow the ones that you really want to do, but don't do, relax properly, go out on a trip or something.

Sometimes it is also a way to let yourself live at will, relax yourself, enjoy life, and slowly find what you want, your direction, in fact, it has passed, it is not necessary to get it back, this is a process of growth, after a period of time, you will find that your current self is better than your original self.

Meditate on the pinnacle of previous successes, set goals, and try to achieve similar success again! The other is to read more inspirational books, etc., to make yourself a goal in life and a pursuit in work.

How can I be lost!

Find your purpose and regroup.

Let's make friends. In fact, we are all lost in our own world, and the wisdom of life to gain friendship is the most important.

I've just fallen out of love. I've had your case too. It's impossible to get out of that shadow all at once.

Time can help you forget. Remember that twisted melons are not sweet. Even if we can get together again, we won't be able to go back to the past.

People are going to become. Hope you're getting better soon.

Actually, you still have faith, you have the belief to have dreams, you have the belief to chase dreams again, and you are physically and mentally exhausted, I think maybe it's because the method is wrong, or because your dream takes too long, and you haven't reached the end yet...You're in a hurry, you want to do it well, but you can't do it, right? Then fantasize about your dreams before you do it....Living a fulfilling life is the first step when you think about it.

I can't get it back.

Those who have come have passed away.

New Beginnings Make yourself happy every day.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you.

If you don't look for it, your heart will come back.

Time can help you forget someone, trust me.

Be the best version of yourself and seek inward, Amitabha

You can tell netizens what is on your mind, which means that you are still very clear-headed. Nowadays, many bosses only have a junior high school diploma, and you have graduated from middle school and are already a literate person, so this little problem is difficult for you. In fact, the journey of life is not all smooth sailing, and everyone will have all kinds of troubles.

According to my analysis, staying at home for half a year is the main reason for your troubles. People need to go out, and they can only become weak seedlings in the greenhouse at home, and only by working hard in the society can they grow up healthy and strong. What you need most now is courage, and if people can soar, why don't you go for it?

In fact, the outside world is very exciting, you have grown up now, don't nest at home and ask for troubles, as long as you build self-confidence and have the courage to fight, nothing can stump you!

"Don't be afraid of difficulties, it's difficult for a while, be afraid of difficulties, it's difficult for a lifetime"; Don't be afraid of being tired, tired for a while, afraid of being tired, tired for a lifetime. * The path of life is very tortuous, but it is beautiful. As long as you are careful**, you can enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way.

On the road of life, we must stride forward when we go uphill, we must be cautious when we go downhill, we must look ahead when we walk Yangguan Road, and we must look down at our feet when we walk on the sheep intestine road. * If you want to enjoy the wonderful scenery, you must climb mountains and wade through water; If you want to pick bright flowers, you have to water them diligently. * Don't leave regrets in your life:

What should be completed should be completed, what should be given up should be given up decisively, what should be owned should be owned, and what should be pursued should be pursued. * It's not so much that your fate is bad, it's that you don't have good ability. It's not so much that you're not good at what you do, it's better to say that you're not doing well at what you're working hard for.

Self-confidence can make the weak reach the top, bravery can turn mortals into heroes, perseverance can turn ideals into reality, and humility can turn readers into scholars. * Those who dare to face difficulties are strengthened in life; Those who dare to challenge adversity thrive in life.

1. I'm afraid that you will become bad, maybe you really have the possibility of being easily influenced or even coerced by others;

2. Or the impression you have on your family has always been like this;

3. What needs to change is not to be in a hurry to find something to do;

4. You should think about what you have done in the past and what friends and things you should avoid in the future;

5. Figuring out these can make your family feel at ease with you, so that you can move freely;

6. Otherwise, even if you go out to work, someone will stare at you at any time, and you will still be bored, because it is the responsibility of your family to love you;

In a word, your family no longer believes that you can protect yourself, or you haven't protected yourself!

Of course there is salvation, it's normal for you to be in such a situation!

First of all, you have to understand that it's not that this is too big, it's that your heart is too small, it's not that the world has abandoned you, it's that you're far away from the world! Love, a luxury for 17 years old. I heard a barber say a very classic sentence, when you fall in love at your age, whoever is serious will be hurt!

I guess you may have been hurt in love and left a shadow, and this is the main reason. In fact, who hasn't fallen out of love? Falling out of love is to help us mature, and if he abandoned you, then you should live well now, live for him, and live happier than him!

Again, away from friends, I feel that the main thing is that your inferiority complex is at fault, you may think that others will look down on you if you don't study, but in fact, this is not the case, friends will never do this, it is you who are too careful.

Now I think the best way out for you is to find a good technical school again, the technical school has to go to a technical school with a good reputation in a big city, or you can't learn things, it is better to learn a technology seriously and practically than anything, and now college students can't learn anything after graduation, and it's not easy to find a job, while technical school students can find a job with a higher salary if they have actual skills. You must not go to work, part-time work is a lifetime, it is difficult to get ahead, exhaustion and low wages, related to future generations.

I will talk to you, go and convince your parents now, and then go out and find an easy job, and do it slowly, so that you can communicate with your colleagues, get to know more people, and your communication skills and timid mood will be adjusted. After a while, when you feel that you can face a bigger society, you go to find a better job. It's a lot better if you take it step by step.

People are more accustomed to rushing, but many times it backfires. Just like doing a job like sales, you have to dare to pick up, hit the first, and digest the first, and then you will play the second and third. Man is refined.