How to forget the people you loved

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Find something you're interested in and don't think about anything else.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think you should choose to forget that you were together, and all your things will be deeply remembered in your mind, unless you haven't liked him, in fact, I think that sometimes in a very quiet place, when you can allow yourself to think about your past, it's not a bad thing, because he has made you happy, and you have been happy, and this is the most beautiful memory, and your life will be more wonderful because of it, don't blame me for saying that, because I know you can't forget your past That's why I advise you like this, so that you won't be tired Many people will talk about falling in love many times in their lives, so don't be distressed, look forward boldly, come on, I wish you success!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The past is the past, and it can't withstand the past and the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Engage with other people, do more things you love, and time will slowly make you forget the past.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't deliberately choose to forget, because if you deliberately forget, you will remember it deeply! Let time be the best healing agent!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Keep your life busy and keep your brain from stopping.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. Close yourself.

    2. Like other people.

    3. Let yourself put your mind elsewhere.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on what kind of person you are

    If it is emotionally fragile, then there is no way to forget it with the passage of time, if it is emotionally strong and has a refreshing personality, then let yourself not be idle, you will forget. It's about 1 to 2 years

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    All the masters of this will only have 2 words to you ... Time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let yourself have a normal heart.

    Put the ** of the person you like in a conspicuous place, look at it every day, and face a person every day more than being separated can make people forget a person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Falling in love with someone else, or going back in time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe true love is hurt, and the more time deposits, the more it hurts

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let time tell you this question!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First, accept the reality and realize that no matter how much you like it, you can't have it, you can only like it.

    The reason why people can't let go of a person, or a favorite thing, is because they have expectations. Expecting to get, expecting to have it forever. Because of this psychology, I will find a way to get it.

    Therefore, the heart will always be obsessed. If you still have this expectation of a person, it is hard for you to forget.

    Therefore, if you like someone, but the reality has doomed you to not be together, then recognize the reality, accept the reality, and no longer fantasize or expect. In this way, the heart has no expectations, no more fantasies, and the mind gradually stops thinking in that direction. Naturally, it will slowly fade away, and I won't remember it.

    Second, find out more about the shortcomings of the person you like, and think more about the problems you may find when you are really together.

    Sometimes, the more you stare at the merits of the person you like, the more you feel the pity of loss, the more regretful you are, and the more you can't forget. If you say that in the early stage, when you are thinking about it, you can think more about the shortcomings of the person you like, and try to find the shortcomings, it will gradually dilute the impression of that person in your heart. Gradually, I forgot about it.

    You must know that no one is perfect, and it is impossible to be without shortcomings. If you can't find out, it's because you don't know enough about the person you like. So at this time, you can't find the shortcomings, you can imagine, what if together, those shortcomings that you didn't find are exposed?

    What if the other person spoils the impression in your mind, or is not suitable? If you envision these bad things into a possible future, you won't feel so sorry. I'm glad I'm not together.

    Third, tell yourself that you don't need to deliberately forget, and let the other party naturally fade in your heart.

    Everyone knows that if you hold the sand with your hands, the tighter you hold it, the more you can't hold the sand. If you're not pushing harder, you'll grab some. The same goes for the memory of a person.

    If you really want to forget someone, then it may mean that you haven't let go of your heart, and it is even more difficult to forget. Therefore, you have to tell yourself in your heart that there is no need to deliberately forget the person you like, you just need to remember, not deliberately remember. If you go with the flow like this, you will remember it when you think about it, and if you can't remember it, forget it.

    With this mentality, it will slowly fade away naturally, and it will be slowly forgotten.

    Fourth, start a new relationship, or cover the traces of that person with a more fulfilling life.

    This step is to use this coercive intervention, or rather a deliberate act, to forget a person when the first three steps have not worked much. Only when new feelings are opened, will the heart pay more attention to new feelings. Only by making your heart more fulfilling, improving the quality of your life, and learning to use the content of life to divert your attention, gradually that person's position or trace in your heart will be covered by these new contents of your life.

    In this way, the goal of forgetting a person can also be achieved.

    It's really hard to forget someone you like, but it's hard to like it. Because you like it, it's hard to give up. However, if you really want to forget someone, it is actually easy, follow the above four steps, take your time, and don't deliberately remember, just do it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    ——— that day, I saw a strange-looking banyan tree at the entrance of the alley, and when my first reaction was to take a picture of her, I knew something was wrong.

    Obviously determined to forget her, but because of her simple words, it evokes countless memories.

    Yes, everyone used to like someone so seriously.

    No matter what happens to the person you once liked, you have to believe it:

    The people you meet at a particular time are making us grow and make us know how to love.

    The past will always pass, and we have to face the future

    It's the ones who can accompany you all the way through.

    In this world, some people and some things, although they may come late, they will come eventually.

    So, no matter how much we liked someone in the past, we always have to look forward, don't we dear guys, none of us know what will happen in the future, so, work hard for your dreams and hold on to your dreams!

    When you study hard and work hard for your dreams, when you are constantly working hard.

    When you become good enough, the person you like will be waiting for you at a certain time and place in the future, and meet you unexpectedly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Forget. Silently. Even if it hurts a little.

    With busyness, I don't have time to think about him.

    After a long time, you will find that the earth still turns without him!

    In the future, I will just face the past with a calm smile!~

    I'm sure you'll do it!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's painful to forget someone!

    If you really want to forget about her.

    Then you must not deliberately forget her.

    Don't be sad to think of her.

    On the contrary, I took the initiative to think about her when I was fine.

    That's okay too.

    It's painful to force yourself to forget someone.

    What does it matter to think of her.

    Don't tire yourself too out.

    When I think of her when I'm fine, I treat it as a treat.

    It's been a long time. Although you won't forget her.

    But her place in your heart will change over time.

    Believe me, and believe in yourself.

    You'll be able to do it!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To like is to like.

    To say that forgetting is to deceive others and to deceive oneself.

    My friend really wanted to downplay this feeling.

    That's in love with one.

    Most people don't get distracted.

    With new emotions.

    Everything else faded.

    Either enrich your life.

    Increase the amount of time consumed.

    Happy every day.

    will slowly hide the feelings of loss.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I was told that the way to choose amnesia is to say "I don't know xx" three times every morning when you wake up and every night before you go to bed. In this way, he or she will be forgotten. I haven't tried this method. You can try. Hey.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Everything will pass, and the more you want to forget her, the more you will remember it, just like the roots of a big tree are deeply rooted in the soil, and it is impossible to completely remove them, even if they are pulled out, there is a trace. God is like this, the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, let it be! There is one thing that can help you, that is, time, looking back silently, you will find that her impression in your mind is not so profound, the origin and extinction.

    I believe that there will be a more perfect relationship waiting for you ahead.

    No one can completely forget their beloved, unless you don't love her very much. The friend upstairs said that you should hurry up and find someone you love, so that you can forget, from my point of view, it should be a lie to you! Don't really blindly find a woman to forget her, that's irresponsible to you and irresponsible to that woman.

    This will also plunge you into another abyss of pain. Believe me in everything, time is your medicine, he can help you heal the wounds, I can't guarantee that you can forget, but I can guarantee that you can let go, I can guarantee that you will not be as sad as you are now.

    Finally, I wish you happiness, the man can afford to take it and put it down, and time dilutes everything. thebest

    wishtoyou!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her (him), it means that she he) has left traces in your heart should be relatively deep, so that everything tends to be dull, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To say that you are completely forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be linked to the past, you will not be able to forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret it. Is that right?

    Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime. That's love!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Find someone you like again, or work hard to find some sustenance to disperse, and maybe forget some unhappy things.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello:1It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart.

    It's not impossible. You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax.

    Watch some comedy and relax. Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

    2.Time will make you forget her, it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better not to live in the same city with her, it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her, because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her again.

    You can recall her little by little, when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's harder to really hate someone. You just have to leave the forgetting you want to her to time to solve, it's okay, after a long time, you won't forget it.

    3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her!

    But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can or Brother Potato to find your own true love and get someone better than her. On the other hand, you love her, but you want her to live better, maybe she left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

    Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked a girl, but she doesn't like me now, but I also miss you, every time I think about it, but she has a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and she doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it won't help. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

    Let me tell you one more thing: my current girlfriend or wife around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

    The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.

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