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Neither option is good.
When he was the elder brother.
You will always be in conflict.
Maybe one day you won't be able to take it anymore.
It's best to be an older brother.
Play and let go.
That's not good, either.
Actually, the key lies in.
Why would you think there are no good results.
If it really doesn't end well.
It's better to like another person.
Then you can treat him like an older brother.
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Well, this one. Now that you know the outcome, give up your idea of playing with him.
If it were me, I would give up on my own, and it is better for one person to give up than for two to suffer.
Because I also hate girls chasing after me.
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The result is not important, what matters is the process.
People are going to die one day, and that's the result, but it's important to live for decades
Go ahead!
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Since you like it but you know that it will not work, if you treat it sensibly, just follow your suggestion (1), and over time there may be unexpected joy.
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I think it's not the result that matters, it's the process. But knowing that there is no result, then give up.
Why let yourself be sinned? You should be happy for yourself. Because you have tried to love and pursue.
When a person does things, what he pursues is not the result, but the happiness in the process.
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By feeling? Besides, why should you bother knowing that there will be no result? Love without results is destined to be painful, you will not be able to end up at that time, everyone will be hurt by then, and you will not be able to draw it! Don't try, you'll regret it.
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As the most familiar stranger, choose to hide the sadness in your eyes.
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If you like it, tell her! No matter how it ends! At least you tried! In the end, I won't regret that you didn't confess!
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The person you like may not be able to achieve in reality, you can retreat to the next best, and you must take a step back to open up the sky. It's easier said than done, but love must blossom and bear fruit, since you know that it can't bear fruit, why torture yourself?
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Anyway, try it first, how do you know if you don't have good results if you haven't tried it? >?
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Like someone who has no results, but learn more about it, what you like is a person who has no results, at this point you hesitate and hesitate, and hesitate whether to persist or give up. I think that it is not easy to develop to this point, it is difficult to give up, if you get along with ordinary friends, you can still go on, but you must grasp the proportion, this is difficult, once you don't handle it well, you will fall into the quagmire of emotional entanglement. It's better to endure the pain and give up this fruitless relationship.
Pick yourself up again and make a choice that has results. I like someone who has no results, and of course I should give up knowing that there is no result. When you meet for the first time, both in your appearance and in your speech and demeanor, your heart is captivated.
Through chatting, you slowly came together, shopping together, eating together, drinking tea and chatting together. Through a day, you have deepened your understanding of each other, character, if you get along with ordinary friends, you can still go on, but you must grasp the proportion, which is difficult, once you don't handle it well, you will fall into the quagmire of emotional entanglement. It's better to endure the pain and make a choice with results.
It's a shame to like the fact that you have no results. Persistence does not mean that there is no result, after a long time, sometimes they will move each other because of a trivial thing, if you give up, you will abandon all the previous persistence, and there will be no hope at all.
As long as you stick to your ideas, stay true to your heart, and believe in yourself, love will come sooner or later. Falling in love is a matter of two people, wishful thinking is like a moldy seed, let you give it enough nutrients, sunlight, it will slowly wither. It is better to choose another one and let it sprout, blossom and bear fruit.
A good marriage is like a seed full of vitality. On the contrary, knowing that love without fruit is destined to be like a moldy seed, no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain. Therefore, give up as soon as possible, free as soon as possible, and find your true love.
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I won't choose to stick to it, at this time I will take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and then choose to separate, there is no result, at any time will be separated, early separation is good for both parties.
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I would choose to give up, there was no result, there was no point in being together, and the end result was also separation, it was better to choose to leave from the beginning.
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I'll leave right away. Because falling in love is meant to get married, if two people don't work out, I'll break up right away.
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There are many times, for feelings, a lot of love is not loved. Maybe sometimes, you meet someone you like very much, but you know that you are together without results, but you still want to love him without hesitation. I don't agree with this approach, I think that when you really like someone, but you know that it will not work out in the end, we should choose to let it go.
As the saying goes, when there is continuous interruption, you will suffer from it. If you know that there is no result between you, and you choose to continue to entangle, it will be bad for each other, but it will be the best outcome for each other. After all, the two of you will not be able to achieve anything after that, so why waste each other's time?
Therefore, when it is time to break, it is still necessary to break.
We should keep this feeling deep in our hearts. You really like this person, so it's very difficult to give up on this person. But there is no result between the two of you, and you will not be together in the future, so we must give up this person in advance.
Slowly give him up and let himself enter a new life.
In fact, when we really like someone, it is very difficult to cut him off. After all, if you really like this person, you are willing to accept him no matter what he does. But knowing that it is impossible to be together, I think it is better to give up as soon as possible.
After all, this is a fruitless relationship, if you continue to entangle, you may fall deeper, but it is not good for both of you, and slowly learning to give up is the best choice.
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1. Be a confidant who can chat at any time.
You may have met the right person at the wrong time, and whoever you meet in life is arranged by fate, and you can't have the final say. You yourself know that you are a person you shouldn't like, and you are also a person who is destined to have no results, which means that you are a more rational person. You know that some feelings cannot be built on the pain of others, and you also know the importance of family to everyone, so you will feel pain and struggle in your heart, and you can't give up but can't let go, so it's best for you to be a confidant.
Second, only add fragrance and do not add chaos.
You can be a confidant, and you can talk to each other about your joys, sorrows, and sorrows at any time, and only add fragrance and not chaos. In this way, there will be no impact on your respective lives, and there will be no worries, and people must not have too many desires, otherwise they will make themselves tired and unhappy. Only by grasping your own thoughts, you will not feel that your life has changed because you have a confidant, in fact, it is just one more friend, and there is nothing to regret and be sad.
3. Accompany each other only mentally.
You will live in each other's hearts, only accompany each other spiritually, although you can't be a husband and wife, but being a confidant will be a better choice. The fate between people is deep and shallow, not all encounters have a happy ending, and not everyone can be husband and wife. Distance between people often produces beauty, otherwise once they get too close, they will expose each other's respective shortcomings, so that some unpleasant things will happen, that is, what is said:
The smell of the far is the smell of the near. "
Fourth, keep a certain distance.
Even if you are confidants, you must keep a certain distance and do not cause some trouble to your respective lives. Just like Lin Huiyin and Jin Yuelin, who we are all familiar with, they just regard each other as confidants, so they can get along very harmoniously, and there are no troubles and unpleasant things happening. The reason why people are miserable is because they are not satisfied with their current life, and if they have too many desires, they will torture themselves, and they will make their originally happy life into a mess.
In short, you must not indulge your emotions and do not do dishonorable things that go beyond the bottom line, because there is no impermeable wall, and once you take a wrong step, you will leave a lifetime of pain.
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If you like someone who is destined to have no results, you have to take the initiative to give up at this time, because if you don't give up, then you are destined to get no good results, and then you will also be treated as a licking dog.
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If you like someone who is destined to be fruitless, then the best thing to do is to come out as soon as possible, forget about this person, and start a new life.
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Since you feel that it is destined to have no result, then you should end it completely, and this relationship should not let yourself fall deeper and deeper.
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Then I advise you to break it off as soon as possible, right? After all, it is impossible for the two of you to have results, and this kind of liking can only end up in nothing, so why waste time on this kind of relationship? Wouldn't it be good to find a better him?
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All that has to be done is to give up. Because if you persist knowing that there is no result, you will only harm others and yourself in the end, and the sooner you give up, the better.
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