My 22 year old girl has a very bad mentality. Somebody help save me

If you feel that younger people can't help you! Then I don't know how to help you! Because I'm nineteen too!

But I still want to share my opinion! You have such a personality that may have a lot to do with the environment in which you grew up!

So a change of environment can be of great benefit to you! Of course, this doesn't mean you have to change jobs!

It means that you can make a change in your usual life environment!

You can get to touch something new! For example, a drink with a new flavor!

Try to make your own breakfast!

Try to go to the toilet while watching "The Beginning of Man"!

In addition to what you like, try to listen to other styles of songs! Watch movies in other styles!

And most importantly!

Meet new people! You can find it from the Internet!

For example; Smaller than you, bigger than you. Speak non-mainstream. Talking brain-dead.

Maybe find a ** book that I didn't read before!

Remove the monotony of your current life with a variety of new life phenomena!

Find out which suits you! Something you like!

Life is about discovery! Maybe a new flavor of the drink will put you in a good mood! It could be the words of a nineteen-year-old boy! It can also make you discover!

Hehe. Confidence** in the satisfaction of life!

I have a terrible suggestion, go to the class and study! Go for everything you can think of and learn!! Only by enriching yourself every day can you feel your own value.

Finding a new boyfriend and everything is solved!!

Hello, I was 22 years old when I graduated last year, and I had a similar experience to you when I first started working. When I just graduated, I would work in a production company, and I felt that I hadn't done anything meaningful for 3 months, and I couldn't compare my hard-working work to the employees in the workshop, and the office work was not as good as the seniors who came earlier, and I would doubt my ability at that time.

People need to be affirmed, whether it comes from themselves or others. Whether it's a change of environment, you must seize the opportunity to show your strengths, no matter how big or small, you have to work hard to take over, and if you succeed in your own psychological satisfaction, you will also be recognized by your leaders and colleagues. Put your state into a virtuous circle.

I also got a good opportunity to apply for a foreign engineer secretary in an auto parts manufacturing company, which was very tiring and stressful, but if I persevered, I would find that the whole person was confident, and I became more and more handy, and leaders and colleagues at all levels appreciated it, and I got more development opportunities.

I think you're quite assertive, and it's easy to deal with your ex-boyfriend. Also, make more friends, it's easy to be cranky when you stay alone, and it's easy to exaggerate the negative impact of things.

Find a caring friend to talk to, and try to think about others, have you thought about it, try it so that your temper will be much smaller, that's how I came.

Little girl, don't rush, take your time! Find yourself a little joy at work! Let's make friends!

It could be your own personality.

Try to be cheerful and you will have a lot of friends around you.

Communicate and communicate with others a lot, and you will control your mindset.

It's also possible that your willpower is a little weak.

But you can overcome it by training for a long time and concentrating on your own.

If you have a goal, you can do it.

Your lack of self-confidence stems from your personality problems.

If you can make more friends, do some work, and face work and life positively, your mindset will be much more balanced.

What's going on? You should tell us about that matter quickly, we can help you analyze it, you just say, 24-year-old girl ask for help, so how can we help you?

Tell your story and let someone tell you.

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