Shouldn t I be cold to my girlfriends?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-21
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You're only in your second year of junior high school! is trapped by love, I advise you to bury this relationship deep in your heart first and be blunder, otherwise you will be wrong in both love and career! Now you, learning is the most important, 'the book has its own ** house, the book has its own Yan Ruyu'!

    Younger brother! You'll be fine!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Between you and your best friend, I used to accommodate her in everything, but then there was a conflict, and then I broke off the relationship, but I really want to say that time is really a good medicine, we reconciled, and of course, the most important thing is to understand each other's position.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Real friends don't feel tired when they're together, relax and tolerate her, in fact, you don't cause any loss, you can only tolerate him, or talk to her, or you pretend to be indifferent to her, maybe she won't be afraid.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, give her a little more warmth before she feels secure in you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he is also very cold to you, you don't need to ignore him, and you don't need to ignore him anymore for this kind of person!! You are by no means best friend's in his heart. If you are looking for friends, you must find a close friend!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    They are all classmates, and the rarest thing in the world is classmate love. Let's cherish it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Treat friends in moderation, and after that, it will be boring.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to get the scale right in everything, you can't be too good for a person, you really have to have your own thoughts, but it's not cold.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, if you like him, be close.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Learn, learn, learn! The Chinese know this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, feelings are built, not academic performance, and you should learn more from him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whatever attitude she has towards you, you will have the same attitude towards her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you get along with each other for a long time, there will be a lot of contradictions, and if you can't solve these contradictions reasonably, then the two people will definitely drift apart.

    1. You should take the initiative to look for opportunities and ask the other party why they ignore you and what offended her? If the other party can speak frankly, you should let the other person finish the conversation in a calm manner, and then explain it slowly, so as to resolve the misunderstanding between them.

    2. Don't deliberately escape. We should take the initiative to face some changes, don't always want to avoid these things, after knowing the reasons, we should analyze where our fault is, and face it positively instead of passively accepting it.

    3. Recall how you felt when you were with your girlfriends. If something goes wrong in your relationship, the atmosphere will inevitably be a little tense and you may feel a little uncomfortable. Maybe there are problems between you that need to be solved urgently, or maybe you're just inevitably drifting apart.

    4. Apologize to her. If it's your fault, you still have to apologize to your girlfriend! The relationship between girlfriends is actually very fragile, and sometimes your small actions may break his heart, but since you can read this article, it shows that you still care about the relationship between you, so don't feel ashamed, go directly to her and apologize!

    Since you are reluctant, don't give up, as long as it's not a big problem, you go to her to apologize, he will definitely accept it.

    5. Learn to communicate well. We should learn to communicate, through good communication, in order to make the other party abandon the previous misunderstanding, we should not be indifferent to the misunderstanding between two people, and communicate with her well.

    6. Keep in touch from time to time, when there is a lack of communication, our relationship will be estranged, so at least once a week, you can talk about what has happened recently.

    7. Do you have any shortcomings that make your girlfriends unbearable? For example, some people have a very strong sense of dependence in a friendship, blindly asking, not knowing the return, they have something to do, and they always ask their girlfriends to help them as soon as possible, but when their girlfriends are in difficulty, they can't help anything. Anyone will feel powerless and unbalanced.

    Girlfriends need to help each other, otherwise what do you want your girlfriends to do? If you are such a person, think about what you can do for your girlfriends and correct your shortcomings.

    8. Time will dilute everything, and many misunderstandings can't be explained clearly, so just let it stop there. As for friendship, I believe that after a long time, all the damage will disappear.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Even friends will have periods of coldness, so you can do your own things for the time being, and then play together when you want to get together for a while.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How to spend the cold period with my best friend, I think it's best for the two of them to calm down with each other, and don't contact each other like this, and then contact after a while.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Spend it normally, and this is also the time to get to know each other this time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dear, girlfriends are very cold to you for no reason:1Whether there is a quarrel between the two people, whether you have a quarrel before your girlfriend is cold to you, because if there is no timely communication after the quarrel, there are likely to be some problems, resulting in a cold war between the two parties.

    2.Whether there is a contradiction, whether there are some small contradictions between the two of you, it may be just a casual contradiction, maybe you feel that it doesn't matter, but in each other's'Apparently not so in the eyes. 3.

    Whether there is a conflict of interest, whether the two of you have some conflict of interest because of something, and in this conflict, the other person feels very uncomfortable, which may also lead to the other party's cold attitude towards you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, you can find out the reason for her sudden change of attitude towards you, whether it is something she disagrees with or what misunderstanding she has about you, as long as you find this key point, it will be solved smoothly.

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