What makes a selfish person?

Hehe, don't think about others.

There is no selfishness or selfishness to say in love, even if it is a love triangle, it is impossible to give up the person you love the most, if you want to say that there are selfish people, then everyone should be selfish, because everyone will want to live for themselves to get more. Love is also a part of yourself, even if it is a love triangle, you will only work harder to get it.

Human selfishness is inherent in birth, but selfishness at this time is an instinct for survival. As I grow up, this instinct gradually develops into consciousness. In order to survive, to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, to live a better life, in order to achieve something.

There will be selfishness for oneself, so proper selfishness is normal. However, if you completely ignore others and only care about yourself, or even do not hesitate to harm others for your own sake, etc., such selfishness is abnormal selfishness, excessive selfishness, and it should be adjusted and corrected. If we encounter someone who is excessively selfish, we can avoid it.

Unavoidable things such as family members, relatives, etc., can be pointed out openly and honestly, and strive for him (her) to think more about everyone. Full text.

Human selfishness is only proportional to intelligence. Because the wiser the person, the more he knows that he should be selfish and needs to be selfish.

And people's intelligence is not much different in general, so the degree of selfishness of people is also about the same. And people's spiritual and material needs are different, and there are all kinds of people in reality.

Animals are not selfish, that's called instinct.

The reason why people are selfish is because they have brains and thoughts.

Selfishness is a social word.

People also have instincts, but what is instinctive does not belong to the category of selfishness. But because people have thoughts, they can't have pure instincts.

People can be free from money, they can be without material things, but it is impossible not to be for themselves.

People think that to live is to be for themselves. So they are very selfish and self-centered, trying to supplement themselves by all means and give themselves the best. Make yourself the most perfect. I think that this is happiness, and success is success.

What kind of person is not selfish, that is, in his mind, his life is not for himself. Zeng Youyun: To live is to live better for others.

Of course, we can't reach such a high level, but the most basic truth is that people don't live for themselves. When he understands this, he will not be selfish.

It is true that when the world understands this, the world is at peace.

Perhaps, so to speak. Selfish..

It is normal to understand that putting oneself first ... People have to think about themselves, because only when they are good can they have the ability to protect others, so from this point of view, maybe yes? But it can't be said that people are selfish and don't help others.

Be willing to help others, think about others, but only if you get your situation right first. Taking risks or sacrificing for others must be within one's means. If you give more than you can bear, it will not only affect yourself, but also others.

Vicious circle. For example, if a person wants to chat with me until 2 o'clock in the morning, I have to go to bed before 11 o'clock, at this time I may be able to dedicate a little bit to 12 o'clock, but I can't hold on any longer, not only will I not be able to study normally the next day, but the relationship with him will gradually become estranged in the future, so the gains outweigh the losses.

If you don't love yourself, you can't be able to love others. It can only make others very bad.

You know? ^

People are selfish, but people are also selfless. When one pursuit is higher than another, he may be selfless to you.

For example, he needs power, and helping you he can get power, even though you don't give it. But he'll still help you. For you, it's selfless for him to do it. And for him, it is purposeful.

Another example is his habits. He didn't realize that doing it would hurt him, he just did it habitually. For example, those heroes.

If you let the heroes think about it carefully, and tell them that the result of being a hero will not only lose their own lives, but also make their relatives cry, I don't know if he will be a hero.

Everyone has a selfish side, to varying degrees

There is no one who is not a little selfish, and if he meets such a person, that person is hypocritical.

People are selfish, whether you have it or not, or admit it or not, people will have at least two hearts! The heart for oneself is not the same as for others! The heart for oneself is different from that for others! The hearts of people in their own country are also different from those of foreigners!

Everyone has their own selfish desires, and selflessness is only relative. There are no absolutes in everything, but they are in line with the perception of the vast majority of people. In order for society to develop and for human beings to survive, it is necessary to maintain a state of conservation.

If people were selfless, they didn't need money to buy goods, they didn't need money to see a doctor, they didn't punish crimes, and so on, would there still be a human society at that time, and wouldn't all this be the root of selfishness? So there is nothing wrong with being selfish.

Yes, there are many people who are selfish for the sake of their own ends! Not to mention any friends, most of your friends are friends with you for a selfish matter, because friends are the most capable of biting! ~

Love is a gratuitous giving, a heart.

Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him (her) when he (she) is happy, be happy together, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is sad. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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Indeed, because everything people do is premised on themselves, even if you do things for your parents, they are your parents, they are the people who gave birth to you, and they are the most solid backing of all the people around you, so you don't have to worry about betrayal, and being good to them is also good to yourself. What's more, people's seven emotions and six desires are terrible, just say that you are a kind person, but your kindness is to hope that the world will become a little better, and at the same time let the world be a little better for yourself. It is selfish to say that greed and the like are selfish.

It's hard to say.

And to varying degrees.

in life. People are selfish.

People will do anything to survive.

It's going to get ugly.

It's going to get dirty.

It will even turn against each other.

It was terrible.

But there are also some people.

Of course, in small portions.

They are kind.

Always think of others.

But in the end, it's always yourself who gets hurt.

And along with the pain, there is also the happiness in your heart.

In love. People are absolutely selfish.

And there is no reason why people should not be selfish.

Many people can give up many, many for the sake of the people they love.

To give a lot, a lot.

But when one is going to get another.

That is absolutely selfish.

Because the person you love doesn't necessarily mean that others don't love him or her.

So people are fighting for their own happiness.

Or maybe it's fighting. .

Academically (career).

People are also selfish.

People want to keep improving.

Constantly surpass others.

Victory over others. But that's easier said than done.

So some people started going through the back door.

Send money to buy officials.

And so on and so forth. Hopefully, you can be selfish when you should be selfish.

Don't be selfish when you shouldn't.

Clause. 1. Speak harshly.

The most important characteristic of a selfish person is that he always thinks from his own point of view and never takes into account the feelings of others.

Therefore, they will say whatever comes to their minds, regardless of whether their words are objectively realistic and logical, nor will they consider the emotions of others, they will always spit out, and they will always think that they are a manifestation of their straightforwardness, and that they are always right.

It's very painful to get along with this kind of person in your life because you can't communicate with them properly because they are always self-centered and have a hard time taking care of other people's thoughts.

If you go against their will during the conversation, they will say something more mean to contradict you.

They don't talk to you about things, they just want people to respect their ideas and choices and think they're right.

Of course, the popularity of this kind of person will not be so good that it will not be good, even if it is a close relative, they can't often endure such mean words.

Clause. 2. Double standards.

In dealing with others, we often say: be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.

But extremely selfish people will not do this, their standard of life is just the opposite, and they have become "strict with others and lenient with themselves".

Treat others very harshly, even if others make a small mistake, as long as their interests are touched, they will infinitely magnify and make the situation serious.

As for themselves, even if they make big mistakes, they will always find all kinds of excuses to excuse themselves.

For example, if your child makes a mistake, they will say that the child is still young and ignorant.

If someone else's child makes a mistake, they will accuse them loudly, saying that the child is young and ignorant, aren't you adults also ignorant?

You say it's not annoying.

So, they're always asserting their own rights and not respecting the rights of others.

This kind of person must stay away, and this double standard of extreme pursuit of advantages and avoidance of disadvantages will only hurt the people with whom he gets along.

Clause. 3. Be scheming.

Extremely selfish people always calculate the gains and losses of their own interests, and think only about their own one-third of an acre.

It's right to be a little calculating and strategizing when doing things, but blindly calculating for your own selfish interests, even at the expense of others' interests to satisfy your own interests.

In addition, such extremely selfish people are often suspicious by nature and are afraid of losing their interests, so they are calculating and scheming.

It's a pity that selfish people like this often don't have high emotional intelligence, and their selfish nature reveals selflessness, and a little judgment can identify this kind of person.

Therefore, in life, it is not difficult for us to know whether there are extremely selfish people around us, and the key is not to entangle with them.

Unless your aura is very strong and can deter them, you can't tell if you are justified, and it is you who is hurt.

Therefore, it is necessary to keep a certain distance from such people.

7 common manifestations of selfish people:

1. Self-centered; A selfish person only has himself in his heart, he never thinks about others, even if he sometimes thinks about others verbally, but when it comes to personal interests, he will never make the slightest concession.

2. Withdrawn personality. Due to their extreme selfishness, their personalities can become cold and distorted, so they have few friends.

3. Greed. The common manifestation of selfish people is greed, greedy for money, fame and fortune, and even to the point of calculating and calculating.

4. Ruthless. Selfish people have no feelings at all, and even if they have a fake relationship with you, they have a more greedy purpose.

5. Stingy. Due to their extreme greed for profit, they have developed their own unique miserly personality traits.

6. Suspicious. Selfish people tend to be suspicious, they doubt society, they doubt others, they doubt the world, they think that all the people in this world are calculating him.

7. Sensitive. The selfish person, because he is too concerned with his own interests, makes him very sensitive to the reaction of the outside world, especially those things that involve or do not involve him, because he is afraid of losing money, and he is afraid that others will take advantage of what he should or should not get.

A person who is self-interested is greedy for everything and feels that others harm his interests in everything.

In terms of selfishness and self-interest, he likes to take advantage of others, and he always likes to seize the opportunity when he encounters interests, and always ignores the feelings of others. Extremely selfish people are often not just calculating people, but also possess the following characteristics.

01Interests first.

These people value interests more than feelings, and they are obsessed with interests, and they value the little interests in front of them too much, so they always do things that harm others. Such people who put interests first are extremely selfish, because they never consider the feelings of others, so others will gradually stay away from this type of people when their interests are harmed.

02 Moral kidnapping.

Selfish people like to play the game of moral kidnapping, because they have no reason to take things from others, so they can use moral kidnapping to ask others to give in a righteous and awe-inspiring way. Such generous people are extremely selfish, and when they really encounter difficulties or need to pay, they are the ones who run the fastest.

03 Lack of empathy, cold-blooded and ruthless.

Selfish people, they lack empathy, they are ruthless, they are very cold in their minds, because they are always self-centered, they never consider the needs of society and the feelings of others. Such people do not have any friends in life, because their hearts are dominated by interests, so in the process of interacting with others, they never consider the emotional aspect.