How to nurture feelings and make them last

First, your so-called order binds you, why do feelings have to accumulate slowly? Why do you have to do it first, you don't think you are bound by this to get to this situation, you can't wait anymore, you can't miss it anymore, but you still have to stick to your own ideas, this is the root of the contradiction, and not learning to compromise is your pain. Our understanding of life always has to keep improving, if you maintain an unrealistic concept and stick to it, it will be all kinds of torture, you have to learn to compromise, compromise with reality, there is no need to insist on all ideas, such as your so-called concept of slowly accumulating feelings, we don't have time to let it accumulate slowly.

Second, the so-called love and family, don't take it seriously, many people think that love is supreme and you must love very much to be together, but in fact, you are wrong. Maybe you think what I said is wrong, but the reality is like this, love may not stay together, the most important thing to stay together for a lifetime is not love at all, it is responsibility, you also said that you are not a long-term person, who is? It's a myth to love each other until you're old, we are all ordinary people, we love someone maybe only 8 years, but that doesn't mean that the relationship with the other half is only 8 years, don't think that if you lose love, you will lose your life, the family that is maintained by family affection and responsibility is stronger, and people who have been seeking love all their lives, how long does the family last?

Do you want to find a new one because you don't love it?

Third, don't be too sober, sometimes confusion is used to pretend, too much attention to some aspects will ignore others, which will make you lose some things that you think are not important, and these losses, may be lost forever. Different ages have different understandings of what is most important, don't repeat the regrets of their ancestors, many people always regret when they are old that they shouldn't ignore something when they are young, because there is no chance to compensate for it.

Fourth, emotions need an outlet for catharsis, don't hold back, it's not good for psychology. Sometimes you are sentimental, always have strange thoughts, this may be the nostalgia for your lost youth and the longing for ideal feelings, people will always have some strange thoughts, I often wake up at night to think about some things, but I can always find an excuse to accept. In fact, self-deception is also a means of psychological self-healing, and if you take it too seriously, you will lose.

Any relationship is a process from one to a hundred, and for those feelings that have a great beginning of feeling or attraction, if you love him, then you will patiently cultivate a relationship with him, the so-called 7 years after marriage. Affection and.

Emotional matters, dedication, and happiness in hand, don't let go easily.

You said that everyone says that I have a good temper, not because I am open-minded, but because I can endure it, but I usually suffocate myself to death.

Ay... If he is really happy with you, you don't have to endure it, he will take care of you and make you happy.

You're too perfectionist, and you're fantasizing.