I feel like no one treats me as a friend, and it s very boring to live every day...

Well, I'm actually a very good person in the kind of relationship you said.

If you want to have a good network, it is necessary to pay a little, and it is actually nothing for you to take the initiative to say something to others, and it is not at all like you said to post to others. Don't have this kind of inferiority mentality, after all, there is always the one who takes the initiative in the relationship...

Hello, you have few friends, so you will use your heart to everyone, but your seriousness will make others feel pressure, don't take everything too seriously, you can relax appropriately, drink a little wine and play a little game, as the saying goes, like-minded, if you and others do not have the same point and how to communicate, let alone friends.

Everyone has their own personality, since I feel that I always deviate from everyone, I take the initiative to take some opportunities to take the initiative to get closer to them, this is not upside down, but integration....So you have to overcome this psychology of yourself, because maybe it's your psychology that naturally behaves to make people feel uncomfortable...And you are honest, you should not be talkative, you should exercise yourself....If you still can't help it, then learn to be independent...Sometimes it's not bad to be alone....Shift your mind....

Now that you're surrounded by appearance associations, you look in the mirror and see if you have this problem (not that you, really).

If yes, then it's really going the extra mile.

It's not pretty anymore, it's still gloomy all day long, and if you don't say anything, then anyone will play with you.

Keep a cheerful smile and smile. Take the initiative to find someone.

Don't smile and grin, that's when you're really familiar with the other person.

In short, the only solution to the problem is to be proactive.

In fact, as long as you have a sincere heart, you must do it, you have to learn to take the initiative, there is no saying, the mountain can't come, I will pass, so what, you have to take the initiative, come on, you have to believe that you will find good friends, and the people in the university are also very easy to get along with.

Just lonely. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, which shows that everyone is afraid of loneliness and finds their own habitual way of life.

The main thing is that you have to adjust your mentality, smile every day, and I think someone will treat you as a good friend.

Do you surf the Internet a lot?

Try to smile at someone, a smile will be delivered.

If others don't come to you, you can go to someone, let go when you usually play together, and try to bring laughter to your friends.

How can a person who is proactive in helping others and who is willing to help others not have friends? Right? In my opinion, if you want to have a real friendship, then you have to take the initiative to help others!

A person who helps others will have many, many friends around him! He will live a very happy life!

It's not easy to make a real friend, and it also takes fate, but you can lower your requirements a little bit, so that you will find more friends, and then you will find real friends by paying attention to them.

It's not easy for people to really make a close friend in this life, sometimes I think it should be fate, don't have any psychological burden, just be yourself.

You don't have real friends, but you may not treat them with sincerity There are fewer sincere friends among friends, and there are more friends who drink and meat, depending on how you get along with each other, only sincerity will be exchanged for sincere friends, and friends are better than relatives.

You try to change the way you get along with anyone, if you get along with others happily, you will find that others are easy to enter your heart, you will slowly enter the hearts of others, after a long time you will find that others treat people as friends, you will also treat others as friends, we ourselves don't be too selfish.

Then slowly change yourself, self-cultivation, the relationship between people and people in this society is closely linked, you have me, I have you, thank you for many people to help us grow, without others and society we will not have a stable life, with an altruistic heart, really care about others, we are good to others, people will be good to us.

Nowadays people are too realistic, no matter how good a friend you are, when it comes to money, it's nothing, it's not nothing, it's just that it feels special, alas, it's not easy to make friends in this life.

Since I was a child, I have been talking about my good friends who are ......When I grew up, my friends changed and changed, and when I finally stopped to look, I found that I didn't have any friends who could put my heart to heart. As we grow up, we all have our own secrets, so we can only say that we can't be too strict when making friends! Even the best friends have to leave room for each other.

That's something wrong with you, it means that you are a very introverted and lonely person, you have to slowly build a circle of friends, contact more people, go outside more, don't stay in your own home all day, expand your circle of friends, and slowly there will be more friends.

Every true friend is handed over with heart, as long as you do your best with your heart, tolerant and understanding of friends, as the saying goes, it is a blessing to suffer a loss, use time to precipitate the people around you, there will always be real friends! I'm sure you'll find ......

You can't look at yourself too highly, so that others are not close to you, you have to put down the shelf and contact with people, you must be willing to help others when they are in trouble, sincerely exchange sincerity, and become friends over time, but friends can not be separated, just have it in your heart, just help each other when you encounter problems, and there are not many friends in today's society for others, so make friends slowly.

If you really don't have any friends, then you should reflect on your own faults and try to change, believing that your friends will become more and more.

Then you have to find the problem from yourself, a person must learn to be magnanimous and do things, and you must not be too careful. In the workplace, learn to help each other with your colleagues. I believe you will have many friends in the future.

You are introverted and don't like to communicate with people, so naturally you can't play with anyone, be cheerful, have more contact with people, don't close yourself, and slowly you will have a lot of friends.

Real friends are fate and friendship in exchange for laziness, friends are heart-to-heart, you treat others with sincerity, others can treat you, is mutual respect, understanding, it can also be said that some friends are heart-to-heart, and husband and wife are not much worse to be friends, you try to see it.

Because you yourself have not been sincere to others, others will not be sincere to you. Everything is mutually beneficial. Don't worry too much about friends, always feel that you have suffered a loss, your heart is unbalanced, and you must win it back next time.

With such a mentality, you will definitely not be able to make close friends when you get along with others. Friends should treat each other with sincerity, not be careful, and be polite in tone, and they will definitely be able to make good friends.

That's because you're wary of people, and you may think that people come to know you for a purpose, so you don't have the heart to communicate with people!

It's hard to make a friend who can really give your back to someone else!

Let go of your guards, feel the joy of communicating with people, and slowly make real good friends!

First of all, I want to ask you, do you really treat others among the friends you get along with? If you want you to be genuine to others, I believe that your efforts will be rewarded, if you don't. Let's see what you may encounter in the future, and if you correct it now, there will still be a chance.

I don't have either, I feel lonely, and I feel used to it, maybe my personality is incompatible, so I can't reach a consensus with friends, rather than maintaining a friend who doesn't care, it's better to make a close friend.

You can't stand in this society alone, only by making more friends, your future path can be broader, so you can try to change the communication between yourself and your friends.

That's your problem, you can't blame others. For a person to make true friends, he must be heart-to-heart, treat people with sincerity, and treat people with sincerity. You are careful in making friends, and you don't have good intentions, of course, you don't have real friends!

So I hope you get rid of your bad habits and make good friends sincerely.

Of course there is, the role of friends is the icing on the cake! But the adult world has a sense of boundaries, everyone is an independent individual, and two people can only become friends if they are evenly matched.

Hehe, friends of the opposite sex can not only play with him, but also a little bit of use, not to mention other friends, hehe,

It is said that Zhumen's wine and meat stink, the road has frozen bones, sometimes there are mountains and mountains, and trees and trees die, if he is in the court, when he is unreliable, he will not disturb others as much as possible, leave himself a little bottom line, dignity, do not burden relatives and friends, do not make others look down on him, and do not go in vain in the world.

It's that no one helps you when you're in trouble, and in fact there are a few friends in society who are sincere.

Presumably, the other party has the same logic in his heart as you, so you have nothing to complain about.

It is better to rely on others than on yourself, and only if you are strong enough can you be worthy of the so-called friends".

If you are a friend, you only need two in your life. One can attend your wedding and one can attend your funeral. Don't expect any friend to be with you for a lifetime, if you can't do it, even the shadow will be absent on a rainy day, let alone a friend.

So it doesn't matter if they leave one day, be grateful and wave goodbye.

Friends are not utilitarian, but they are not useless.

True friends, both parties will be people with a heart, and they will avoid it when it comes to interests or functions. Both know how to understand the inclusion and inclusive understanding. They won't borrow money, they won't eat and drink together.

Real friends will ask you to go to the library to read a book together. Say hello and look at each other. No talking, no inquiry, no interruption.

Even one of them went away without saying goodbye. Silent acquaintance. A gentleman's friendship is as light as water, and it is a friend.

has a tacit understanding of the heart, and the companionship of watching each other, but does not disturb each other's lives.

Friends are not utilitarian, they can't be emotional trash cans, they can't be credit cards, they can't be porters. And when you need it, it's not you who want it, but the other person who takes the initiative to give.

Tsinghua professor Chen Guo.

Maturity is about understanding loneliness, accepting loneliness, and enjoying loneliness. Before feeling loneliness is confusion, and after loneliness is growth. Learn to endure loneliness, learn to face it, learn to be brave, and then be the builder of your own world to make your life more exciting.

So if you understand something, you should understand the meaning of friends, it's just icing on the cake, and the most important thing is to be yourself and don't put your hopes on others.

I don't want to say more:

Friends are infinitely good, another.

The self is the best friend of the self in eternal life!

I don't know how old you are, so I'll stop for now!

Your friend who thinks it's useless may be a friend of wine and meat. True friends won't make you feel this way!

You can't do the team no matter how good you are, and the three stinkers are still Zhuge Liang, that's it.

Why, friends are useless, are you making a group of fox friends and dog friends, wine and meat friends,

I think friends are just eating, drinking, singing, bragging, and chatting.

Prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them.

When you are in trouble, good friends will naturally help you.

True friends are useful, and you can help each other.

A true friend can stick a knife in your ribs.

Friends are useful, but it depends on who you meet.

Without those friends, you can do things well, you can do any side hustle, you will not be disturbed by others, you can concentrate on yourself, you don't have to engage in those so-called social interactions, you don't have to eat, drink and chat, you don't have to.

Your time is your own, you don't have to waste your salary, you can put it all to good use. You think this guy is a good person, right, although what you do may not be successful, but at least it is better than you wasting time.

But in real life, too many people engage in those so-called social interactions. They spend money and time to make friends and hang out with their colleagues and girlfriends. They believe in this so-called affection, and they think that friendship can last forever, but what they don't know is -

No one will remember anyone in ten years, and you will all be strangers in twenty years, and no one will remember who was back then, and no one will remember who was good back then. Because it is very simple, that is, all interpersonal relationships in society are essentially interest relationships.

There are not so many simple intentions, and there are not so many sincere acquaintances, you have use value, you can be beneficial to others, then others will come to deal with you, and it will be easy to use after mixing with you. But when you don't have anything in you, others won't be intimate with you anymore, and there will be no more affection between you. Like the people you knew ten years ago, can you still be connected, can you still go out to eat together, or can you still help each other?

It should be very difficult, maybe people don't remember who you are, and you can't just lie down and chat on a certain letter. Some even deleted a certain letter, and there was nothing to contact. Then this is the reality, this is the essence, this is the interaction between people.

Of course, it's fine, it's all normal, because everybody is like that. No matter who you are, no matter who you are, as long as two people have no interests to talk about, they can't take advantage of each other, and they are busy with their own affairs.

Then you will definitely not be in touch with each other again. The only connection that may exist is that a friend you haven't talked to for a long time suddenly sends you a message one day saying that he is in a hurry and asks you to lend him money, and also tells you that he will definitely pay it back.

That's the only connection you can have. In fact, many times, many people are not as important as we think. Most of them are actually ordinary people when you were young, and there are passers-by when you were young.

One day there is no benefit, and the relationship will naturally be broken. So don't waste too much time, don't trust those friends too much, in fact, there is no need, improve yourself, cultivate yourself, spend all your time on yourself, and do more things.

Preparing yourself for the rest of your life – that's all that matters.